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When Motivation Is Not Motivating

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Industry Observer

My career path has been a very twisty one, with many turns and detours along the way that has taken me through many roles and industries.  One of the things that I have notice about Real Estate that differs from many other professions is the seemingly endless number of coaches, gurus and motivational speaker events that focus on our industry.

In the interest of full disclosure, I have to admit, I am not a big fan of real estate coaches and motivational events.  I am not saying they are not helpful to some agents, but for me, my greatest motivation and accountability comes from within.  In fact, for some agents, I have seen them come back from an event, newly invigorated and ready to revitalize their business.  This week, though, I witnessed something different.

An agent who is a friend of mine attended an event where several top producing agents spoke.  This agent went looking for insight and ideas and instead came back with excuses.  I would not have predicted that this was a possible outcome, but there it was.

“I will never be successful in this business because in order to be successful you have to have an assistant and I cannot afford to hire one.”

“I can’t possibly be successful because the amount that I would need to spend on marketing to compete with top producing agents would be cost prohibitive.”

I sat and talked with this agent for what seemed to be an hour and I was getting nowhere.  Hearing the stories of top producing agents had completely unmotivated what had been a productive agent before going to the event which was supposed to help him.

I explained that there were ways to work around budgetary constraints and that even the agents who were top producers did not always have a full time assistant or team of agents working with them… they had to build up to that over time.  I think by the time we were done talking he was STARTING to snap out of his real estate driven funk and depression.  We are working on a new business plan for him though… one that targets revised goals and objectives to help him become the top producer he aspires to be…. but until he’s closer to that goal, no more motivational events, we’ll focus on accountability!

Has this ever happened to you?

Comments(6)

Jennifer Fivelsdal
JFIVE Home Realty LLC | 845-758-6842|162 Deer Run Rd Red Hook NY 12571 - Rhinebeck, NY
Mid Hudson Valley real estate connection

Steve I love this post because you hit the nail on the head, glad you were making progress in deprogramming the agent.

Sep 19, 2010 04:01 PM
Laura Coffey
Laura Coffey & Associates - Valencia, CA
Broker Associate

I once went to a seminar by probably the best known real estate coach there is. When I heard him say that his secretary prints out his emails so he can read them because he doesn't get involved with all that computer stuff... I felt like standing and shouting "What the hell are we all doing here!" ... there was thousands so I kept my shout and never listened to anything that guy had to say ever again.

Sep 19, 2010 04:05 PM
Lee & Pamela St. Peter
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices YSU Realty: (919) 645-2522 - Raleigh, NC
Making Connections to Success in Real Estate

Steve, sad that this happened... but so true in more than one incident I'm afraid.  I had to stop going to all the free seminars when I first got into the business - it was overwhelming.  Your very kind to help this agent set their own goals.  Not those of someone else...

Sep 19, 2010 04:08 PM
Joan Mirantz
Homequest Real Estate - Concord, NH
Realtor, GRI, CBR, SRES - Concord New Hampshire

This happens alllllll the time. You have to have the latest phone, camera, laptop, programs, software etc. and of course an assisstant!

They are glorified products pushers and I'll bet they make $$$ on it!

They are totally out of touch!

Sep 20, 2010 10:01 AM
Ricki Eichler McCallum
CastNet Realty - Corpus Christi, TX
Broker,GRI,ABR, e-Pro, TAHS

Great blog Steve.  When I was new in the business I did the same thing.  Only, I was motivated for a day or two and then back to ho-hum.  It got to be like getting a fix by going to yet another seminar.  It was awful.  Those guys make lots of money off agents but rarely give us anything in return.

Sep 20, 2010 04:11 PM
Liz Moras Migic
Chilliwack, BC
Chilliwack, British Columbia - Realtor

Absolutely - I have attended life changing and inspirational seminars/motivational sessions etc......but also some that have completevely discouraged and de-motivated me -  it comes down to the motivation of the motivator and its reflected in the motivatee.  :-) lol

Sep 24, 2010 07:11 PM