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Launching The Queen of Cheap!

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Home Stager with Capital Style Home Staging

 

  In the 1920's, hand-me-downs were a given.  In the 1970's, hand-me-downs were an embarassment.  Ironically, in some of the most affluent areas of today's cash-choked society, hand-me-downs are in vogue, but for different reasons.  Low impact living is all the rage.

 

I come from thrifty German and English "people", as my grandmother used to say.  Really thrifty.  During my childhood my parents were always well off, but never did shed their practical, frugal ways.  I grew up, finished college, started working, and got married.  A few years later we quit our lucrative jobs, sold our house in Northwest DC for twice what we'd paid for it 4 years before, moved to the country, and ran our own business.  It wasn't long before necessity called me to jettison my pride and march into Goodwill for clothing and household goods. We raised three children on leftovers, saliva and air, and learned volumes. I became skilled at making a little go a long way, ultimately finding great personal joy in so doing.

 

Because I appreciate, admire and respect nature, I also believe in low impact living.  Grew up in the wooded hills of Long Island with pet racoons, squirrels at my tea parties, walking the quiet beaches, and climbing tall trees.  Our family sailed silently through the green waters of the harbor and sound, marvelling at sunsets, massive schools of silvery fish, endless breeze, and cleansing rain.   Motorboats were the enemy; smokestacks from the power plant scarred the landscape.  Nothing was more perfect than nature.

 

So I've spent my life being thrifty, and green, but not in glamorous, culturally-acceptable terms.  Today, Leonardo DiCaprio's work in renewable energy, and Julia Louis-Dreyfus' clean-up efforts in Los Angeles, and Ed Begley Jr.'s show "Living with Ed" are bringing the lifestyle to the fore.  Brad Pitt, George Clooney, Johnny Depp, Kirstin Dunst, Alannis Morrisette, Morgan Freeman, and scores of others are spearheading their own projects.  These media-central leaders have helped to make environmental awareness, conservation, sustainable design and eco-architecture popular.  Brilliant designers have made them beautiful. 

 

While I was never ashamed of a past where I made pillow covers out of thrift store skirts, created my own artwork from scraps, and fed my family "Cream of Refrigerator Soup", any public response was typically a crooked half-smile.  Today I talk of these things and I'm trendy; the response is enthusiastic.  I'm awesome!

 

Okay, I'm no expert, but I have years of making silk purses out of sows ears, and I know I'm not alone.   So join me as I embark on my Queen of Cheap Series, which combines THRIFTY, with PRACTICAL, and GREEN, even (or perhaps, especially) while living in a big city like Washington DC.  Off the cuff, I plan to share ideas on Green Staging, Thrifty Business Practices, Purchasing Renewables, Environmentally-friendly Products, raising "low impact" children, and anything else that piques group interest....let's see where that endless energy of fresh wind, and the cleansing Active Rain, takes us on this voyage.

 

Ladies and Gentlemen, I christen,

 

Jaynee Acevedo, Capital Style Staging

 

Jaynee Acevedo
Capital Style Home Staging - Kensington, MD
Capital Style Home Staging

Ki!  Isn't it funny how sometimes those things right in "front" of you sometimes click together, like little lego pieces?  Happens to me ALL the time.  My latest Homer Simpson DOH moment was when another stager wrote on NOT using client's before and after shots on their website until the house sold.  DOH, Jaynee!  Good thing I don't have a website yet, because I likely would have DONE that! 

Thanks for visiting, and feel free to jump in with KEWL ideas, any time; the water's great!

Cheers, from DC!

   Jaynee 

Sep 01, 2007 04:10 AM
Jaynee Acevedo
Capital Style Home Staging - Kensington, MD
Capital Style Home Staging

ADAM.....BUDDY.....How the HECK ARE ya?  Those weekend sails were from Lloyd Harbor (under the "chin" of the horse), out past Huntington and Northport Harbors.  Sometimes we sailed over to Greenwich or Norwalk, I think?  Tribal memories, my friend.  We moved away in 1972, and I wasn't the official navigator.  More like the sullen teen-age girl that stared into the water.

Okay, on the graphic (how KEWL is it that I get to teach ADAM sumpin'!)  I found the graphic of three ships, and saved the image to my hard drive.  Opened PowerPoint, and Insert ed a Picture, From File.  From View, I chose Toolbar, then Picture, which gives you the photo editing tools.  Cropped the photo down to one ship.  Then, from the bottom toolbar, I told it to Insert Word Art. word art graphic

From there, I selected a font (tried to think of the perspective of the photo), typed in my message in the text box, and clicked Enter.  PowerPoint lets you rotate your graphics with a lime green "joystick", so I just sized, rotated, and placed the image.  Then, I selected the WordArt graphic, and the image, grouped them using the Draw function in the lower left corner, and saved the image, anew.  Okay, not as good as your tutorials, but probably enough to get you started.  If you're more unfamiliar with PowerPoint than I'm assuming....sorry, and holler.  I'll be more detailed.

Thanks, man, and Cheers, from DC!

   Jaynee

"granadilla":  this is a real fruit.....look it up.....DELICIOUS! 

Sep 01, 2007 04:27 AM
Jaynee Acevedo
Capital Style Home Staging - Kensington, MD
Capital Style Home Staging

Diane:  Who the heck said I'm a great stager?  I fiddlie around with staging part time while I haul down the paycheck from my corporate job.  Well, okay.....I'm pretty good.  Thanks for visiting! <wink>

Cheers, from DC!

   Jaynee
 

Sep 01, 2007 04:30 AM
Jaynee Acevedo
Capital Style Home Staging - Kensington, MD
Capital Style Home Staging

Well, Diane, it looks like the value of this series (if I can keep up with the writing, lol) will come from the group and the comments.  I'm happy to start each ball rolling, but the wealth of information from all of us is AWESOME!  Jump in and join us, as the mood strikes...the water's just fine!

Cheers, from DC!

   Jaynee
 

Sep 01, 2007 04:32 AM
Jaynee Acevedo
Capital Style Home Staging - Kensington, MD
Capital Style Home Staging

Ann, you sound like another Kindred Spirit.  Can we also be sisters?  I'm sure the reason I can whip up a Kick Butt batch of Cream of Refrigerator comes from good genes.  Your comment has brought up a cherished and warm childhood memory, which I think you'll appreciate...

My grandfather was an accountant for the railroad.  He walked, along the tracks, to and from work.  An organized and thrifty (!) man, he would pick up nails, bolts, bits of metal, or anything else he thought could be useful, went home and put them away in little labelled drawers in his basement workshop.  In addition to those bits he would bring home, he also brought home the "hobos" as they were called in those days.  He'd walk in the front door and say, "Mable, set another place, we have a guest".  My grandmother would always so do, and graciously and gently (as was her nature) bring out the steaming bowls of food.  Grandfather always engaged his guest in conversation, and toward the end of the meal, would clap him on the back and say:  "Eat up...there's plenty more in the kitchen".  My grandmother quickly learned not to pop her eyes at that (she and Grandfather both knew there was no more out there), because they both quickly learned that every "hobo" that came home with Grandfather had the good manners not to take the last portion.  

Best of luck on your yard sale.  I'd love pointers on holding a successful one:  something I've never been able to do! 

Cheers, from DC!

   Jaynee
 

Sep 01, 2007 04:46 AM
Jaynee Acevedo
Capital Style Home Staging - Kensington, MD
Capital Style Home Staging

Debbie and Al:  I'm honored and amazed by the AR response.  There was never any doubt in my mind that the staging community was chocked full of creative, interesting people.  It actually now makes perfect sense that we're fairly thrift stock as well.  This is just another dimension of richness that we, as "re-purposers" bring to the table for our clients.

Thanks for visiting, and feel free to jump in with your ideas, as the series blossoms.  This is KEWL!

Cheers, from DC!

   Jaynee
 

Sep 01, 2007 04:51 AM
Jaynee Acevedo
Capital Style Home Staging - Kensington, MD
Capital Style Home Staging

Brian:  Point well taken.  I guess I just like the way "Queen of Cheap" rolls off the tongue, and it certainly sends a message!  Semantics, however, can make or break any relationship, any deal, or any moment, so I appreciate your defining the term.  

Thanks for visiting, and feel free to join with more good ideas, as this develops!

Cheers, from DC!

   Jaynee
 

Sep 01, 2007 04:53 AM
Jaynee Acevedo
Capital Style Home Staging - Kensington, MD
Capital Style Home Staging

Thanks, Rebecca.  You and Me Both!, but Brian disagrees with us!  Jump in on the discussion as this thing grows.  It's the collective wisdom that we will all enjoy, not the little bits I alone have to share!  This is AWESOME!

Cheers, from DC!

   Jaynee
 

Sep 01, 2007 04:55 AM
Jaynee Acevedo
Capital Style Home Staging - Kensington, MD
Capital Style Home Staging

Oh, George, how lovely.  I've read your posts and always felt that you have the most shining and wonderful spirit.  Nice to see you thank your family in your comment, because you clearly received lots of love and gentle guidance from them; it shows for us all to see, today.  Only a tiny part of me understands people who overspend.  It's such a mistake to believe you can open the tap and clean water will always flow....and I mean this rhetorically and conceptually.  It applies to everything.  Remember our grandparents who were constantly "putting something aside for a rainy day?"  They were wise, lived through years of "mother nature", and knew how to survive. 

Thanks for visiting.  Your comments honor me, your family, and all of us!

Cheers, from DC!

   Jaynee
 

Sep 01, 2007 05:01 AM
Cheryl Hamelin
Meredith Bay Lighthouse Realty - Laconia, NH
NHnulls Lakes Region Realtor

I found my "people"!
As I child, I never knew we were poor. It didn't occur to me. My Mom had a knack of finding treasures in every Sally's in a 50 mile radius of our home. ("Sally's" was her name for the Salvation Army!) My brother and I had better clothes than many of our peers, but I somehow thought everyone shopped like my Mom.
This summer, at 2 different family events, as I talked with my aunts, each would comment on the lovely shoes I was wearing, quickly followed by, and they were only $10! "Terrific shirt, and on clearance!"

There was a decade or 2 during my mid 20's, early 30's that I entered into the yuppie world. I have to say, if I could transport myself back to that woman and let her know how foolish it is to buy retail, well, I'd be there right now! But with age comes wisdom, frugal living and summer clearance sales....... got to go!

 

Sep 01, 2007 05:24 AM
Jaynee Acevedo
Capital Style Home Staging - Kensington, MD
Capital Style Home Staging

Cheryl, you are SO RIGHT!  In those first four years of our marriage, we were SPENDERS!  I'm actually GLAD my years of privilege were interrupted.  In the roughest of times, when I was feeling very low, I'd privately celebrate some small victory, then tell myself I'd NEVER spend the way I spent when the money was flowing.  There is such a tremendous benefit to sacrifice....something those who survived wars and depressions, droughts and fires, and good ole, and I do mean GOOD, tough times!

I'm with ya, sistah!

Cheers, from DC!

   Jaynee
 

Sep 01, 2007 05:33 AM
Christi Stewart
Prudential California Realty - Laguna Niguel, CA
Prudential Calif. Realty
Great post.  I will look forward to your upcoming blog posts.
Sep 01, 2007 05:51 AM
Michael Eisenberg
eXp Realty - Bellingham, WA
Bellingham Real Estate Guy

We're off to Value Village and Goodwill today to get some "new clothes" for my son for school.

Great Job

Sep 01, 2007 06:08 AM
Jaynee Acevedo
Capital Style Home Staging - Kensington, MD
Capital Style Home Staging

Christy:  Thanks for visiting.  I "launched" another one tonight called Queen of Cheap:  Green Staging. I'd love your honest feedback (I think I got a little too worked up on this one.....I'll have to tone it down next time).

Michael:  Love VV and Goodwill.  What college student would EVER need more than can be had in these warehouses?  I trust you had good luck, even during this huge flurry of back to school shopping going on!

Thanks for stopping by, and Cheers, from DC!

   Jaynee 

 "galumpi"  what the old horse does when it tries to run.

 

Sep 01, 2007 03:52 PM
Diane Velikis
Coldwell & Banker Busch Real Estate - Luzerne, PA
Luzerne County Real Estate
I shop the good will and yard sales. Yard sales I have found are even cheaper that thrift stores, But you have to shop long and hard for the right sizes. What a great Post!! My parents were thrifty as well. If my mom was standing in line at a grocery store, with the three of us girls, there was no "Everybody grab your candybar!"  I absolutley was reminded that I should be cutting corners, not spending very wisely. With the cost of gas, and even groceries, it's time to get thrifty.
Sep 01, 2007 11:13 PM
Barbara-Jo Roberts Berberi, MA, PSA, TRC - Greater Clearwater Florida Residential Real Estate Professional
Charles Rutenberg Realty - Clearwater, FL
Palm Harbor, Dunedin, Clearwater, Safety Harbor
Great blog again!!! Saving money is always an attention getter!!!
Sep 02, 2007 07:36 AM
Jaynee Acevedo
Capital Style Home Staging - Kensington, MD
Capital Style Home Staging

Diane:  I think it's ALWAYS time to get thrifty....when you can.  Remember the phrase:  Save it for a rainy day?  I wonder when we, as a culture, will REALLY hit a rainy day.  Not gas at $4/gallon, not a storm wiping out part of a city, not a mortgage industry that's teetering on the edge, but a REAL RAINY day.

And on that depressing note, Cheers! from DC!!

   Jaynee

Sep 05, 2007 05:43 AM
Jaynee Acevedo
Capital Style Home Staging - Kensington, MD
Capital Style Home Staging

Barbara-Jo/Bill:  Savings may be a buzz word for getting attention, but how many of us are really saving at the level we should?  By that, I mean saving money in an account, saving resources of the planet, saving time to do the worthwhile things?  I know I can be doing a better job...

Thanks for visiting....and Cheers, from DC!

   Jaynee

Sep 05, 2007 05:45 AM
Mary McGraw
GLREA - Rockford, MI
2015: Solar Energy Is Still A Simple Machine!

Jaynee - lover your style of writing! Isn't it interesting that the fashions of the 60's and 70's are coming back into the retail arena? How much of that is the trends they see walking out of Goodwill?

Great post! I'm looking forward to your next.

Sep 06, 2007 03:39 PM
Jaynee Acevedo
Capital Style Home Staging - Kensington, MD
Capital Style Home Staging

I agree, Mary.  Even more "aging" than that was when I had to clean out my mothers house and the neighbor (early teenage) girl began to swoon over my dark green wool cropped jacket with the huge brass zipper and white fur at collar and cuffs.  I had to give it to her!  Now, my 12 year old would probably swoon over it too.  What goes around....comes around.  Hope you didn't throw away your pet rocks.

Cheers, from DC!

    Jaynee

Sep 07, 2007 01:35 AM