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Staying Safer While Using Facebook and Social Media

Reblogger 1~Judi Barrett
Real Estate Agent with Integrity Real Estate Services 116 SE AVE N, Idabel, OK 74745 141871
Original content by Myrl Jeffcoat

 

 

Late last evening, I received notice from my 20 year old grandson that he had allowed his Nana (me) to be his "friend" on Facebook.  I considered it an honor, since he hadn't allowed his mother to be.

However, I was horrified to see the amount of information he was dishing out on his page. 

Granted, we are given the option of choosing our friends on Facebook.  And we have some control over which entities will have access to our more personal aspects in cyber space.

However, things can change among friends, and we don't always know well some of those folks we accept as "friends."

Imagine my horror when I saw my grandkid's full birthdate, and place of birth on his profile page.  I immediately emailed, to warn him of potential dangers lurking.

Here are some things you should consider if you are using social media including Facebook, Twitter, etc.,


(1) It's probably ok, to provide the month and day you were born.  However, providing the year you were born gives identity thieves a piece of key information for stealing your financial life.  Couple that with the knowledge of your place of birth, and sometimes identity thieves can predict some of the numbers in your Social Security number, if not most or all.

(2) Be wary of providing your home address.  Ponemon Institute recently conducted a study, which found that Social Media users were at risk of identity theft because of information they were providing on their social sites.  Others were actually putting themselves at physical risk.  The study found that most contacts that had been accepted as "friends" were actually just acquaintances or people they knew - some only slightly.

(3) If you want to talk or brag about your vacation or trips, wait until you return home.  Telling the world that you're going to be gone for 2 weeks cruising the Bahamas, or wherever, is telling thieves, "Come rob me."

(4) Passwords are another area that needs serious consideration.  If you use the same password for just about every on-line activity you perform, you are at risk.  If you are using your mother's maiden name, or other predictable criteria, you're making it easy for crooks to guess your passwords. 

(5) And, suggesting that passwords have 8 characters including a capital, doesn't mean you should choose, "sneezy - sleepy - dopey - doc - happy - bashful - grumpy - and sacramento" either.  Only we blondes are allowed to do that:-)

(6) One of the more important things to consider is what you decide to put out in cyberland, has the potential of being looked at by future or current employers, school admissions people, and other entities that may not think it is funny, that you love to party down and get drunk every weekend, or recreationally smoke the "funny stuff." 

If you use a few good sense precautions, you ought to remain reasonably safe, while exploiting the wonderful possibilities available through social networking.  The key is to remain cautious and to use care.

 



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Patty Luther
RE/MAX Rock-n-Roll Realty - Lewiston, ID
Lewiston ID Real Estate, Idaho-Washington

~ it can be scary to think of how much we do put out there... those darn bad people lurk around every corner ~

Sep 24, 2010 07:52 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Judi,

Really great post to re-blog. I had not seen it so thank you!!

Sep 25, 2010 01:26 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Having a grandson friend you is a major accomplishment.

Margaret

Sep 25, 2010 07:49 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

Judi - Thank you so much for the reblog!  It is greatly appreciated.  I have been surprised that this piece resonated with so many, but also grateful that it is a catalyst for helping keep folks safe while on-line and using social media.

Sep 26, 2010 04:39 AM