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Of note...

One of the things I nostalgically miss from my days spent growing up two hours North of Pittsburgh in a quaint town called Clarion, is the essence of Pennsylvania for me.  Give me a Keg, Bon-Fire, and enough toilet paper to clean up a fiber-less diet ... Sardi becomes a happy man.

But even on those nights, especially those nights, when I wasn't drinking ... I was thinking.  And I used to love staring into the coals of fire when doing so.  I suppose I miss that.

When everyone else was laying still, asleep, intertwined with dreams and rarely distracted with the inevitable screams ... I fancied my intellect and heart to wonder what could be done to make the world a better little place while I was wearing a watch in it.

Certain philosophies of being, made and make sense:

  • Be cordial and open doors for everyone, especially women and certain entitities from New Jersey
  • While speaking your mind, make sure you use the ears you have accordingly
  • No matter your vices, strengthen your soul every opportunity you can.  Whether it be pumping iron, sharing script, or arguing about parking spaces with that rude neighbor ... few of us actually know where we are parked when we are dead and gone.
  • Laugh at yourself.  Take yourself seriously, but not too much.  The last thing you want is a picture of you taking a dump on a pious website supporting your unsubstantiated claims at being a bit better than the pauper beside you.  Or, for Social Networking Purposes, that may be the first thing you want.  Strike this one!
  • Take personal responisibility for everything you do and say ... even when and especially when it isn't popular or you made a mistake. 

And that Camp Fire said unto me, "Sardi, Do you know the truth of this life?"

I answered, "No, I suppose I don't.  But I would like to find out."

Camp Fire responded, "You will when that time comes."

Later that evening, I found that the Camp Fire was on its last coals, spitting out heat as the flames dissipated into a realm I wasn't remotely familiar with.  When I sighed in disappointment, I smiled in enlightenment.  The time had come ... it's easier to learn of death than to live the righteous life.  Life is much easier to explain than what happens after you die.

Hence, why I want to interview that Camp Fire all over again.

Comments (24)

Jeff Belonger
Social Media - Infinity Home Mortgage Company, Inc - Cherry Hill, NJ
The FHA Expert - FHA Loans - FHA mortgages - USDA loans - VA Loans

@ Bill.. that is some scary toilet paper... I don't know if that 1/2 ply would work for me... lol  It looks very frail. Like a butterfly could fly right through it and rip it to shreds... rut row..

jeff belonger

Oct 01, 2010 05:16 PM
William J. Archambault, Jr.
The Real Estate Investment Institute - Houston, TX

 

@ Jeff,

That's ok. You can still uses your fingers.

I sent three rolls, if you bring a little supper glue you can easily make it triple ply. A word of caution, plan ahead! You want to be sure the glue is dry before you use the paper.

Bill

Oct 01, 2010 05:25 PM
Jeff Belonger
Social Media - Infinity Home Mortgage Company, Inc - Cherry Hill, NJ
The FHA Expert - FHA Loans - FHA mortgages - USDA loans - VA Loans

Bill.. you easily forget that I was in the Army for a few years.  And I had to do 3 weeks out at Ft. Irwin, CA.. in the desert the whole time..  rocks and boulders were my best friends..  besides, as a kid I grew up with deep woods behind our house with many trails...   Anyhoo... don't need any super glue... but I might need to use one whole roll at once.. lol

jeff belonger

Oct 01, 2010 05:29 PM
William J. Archambault, Jr.
The Real Estate Investment Institute - Houston, TX

 

6 more.

Just for Jeff.

  

 

 

 

Next time BYOTP!

Oct 01, 2010 05:43 PM
Charles Buell
Charles Buell Inspections Inc. - Seattle, WA
Seattle Home Inspector

For sure Jason----infinitely easier----as far as we know the later isn't really possible now is it?

Oct 01, 2010 06:54 PM
Gerry Michaels
Glasswork Media Arts - Gettysburg, PA
GettysburgGerry Social Meida

Jason, love the list, I do enjoy the crackle of a fire as well, I like you find it a great place to sit and think. I just returned from a trip to California and found I get the same thing from sitting in the sun, I guess it has something to do with heat and fire....great post

Oct 02, 2010 03:53 AM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Jason, I love how you always get the toilet paper into your blog posts. When speaking your mind I would also add my Obe Wan Kenobe slant of make it positive. Me speaking, even me, and it turning into a rant, never seems to go over really well. Cool video with the old age deaf home with the mix of young rockers (the lead singer reminded me of you), the bleeped out profanity, and the arm and arm departure at the end between the young and the old. CREATIVE post. Thanks. BTW, I loved crackling fires in my camping days outside. My shirt always came back smelling like smoke over three day weekends of living in the same clothes. I'm such a Boy Scout. LOL.

Oct 02, 2010 04:52 AM
Jeff Belonger
Social Media - Infinity Home Mortgage Company, Inc - Cherry Hill, NJ
The FHA Expert - FHA Loans - FHA mortgages - USDA loans - VA Loans

Hey Sardi.. as some stated and yourself in the post.. I always loved a good campfire. This was not a camp fire per se, but it was a marshmallow roast with smores.  This was on my trip in Wisconson for a family reunion in August.. with my nieces and nephews at our beach house on Lake Michigan..nieces & nephews around campfire

 

 

 

jeff belonger

Oct 02, 2010 05:31 AM
Jennifer Monroe
Indigo Home Team powered by Compass - Charlotte, NC
Real Estate REALTORĀ®/Broker/Designer

You should just take off work, get a bus ticket and go to ALF. Seems you miss it quite a lot.

Oct 02, 2010 08:31 AM
Juli Vosmik
Dominion Fine Properties - Scottsdale, AZ
Scottsdale/Cave Creek, AZ real estate 480-710-0739

LOL, fire watching, sunset watching, and wave watching - they all make us think.

Oct 02, 2010 10:14 AM
Jason Sardi
Auto & Home & Life Insurance throughout North Carolina - Charlotte, NC
Your Agent for Life

True that, Juli.

Don't miss ALF my dear, just the smell of smoke in my face.  I dig the wisdom of fire.  After all, I'm with you:)

Cool pic, Belonger.  And about those ideas... I'll call you within the week ...

Woltal -  You lost me at toilet paper;)

Gerry - I guess some of us just like being 'in heat' ... Gosh, that is as lame as I get.

Buell -  Oh, it is possible ... extremely possible.

Bill - I notice no brown or green streaks, apparently Jeff hasn't used your recommendation quite yet. 

Belonger - Their Local Forest Ranger says, "Hi" after all these years.  And he kind of puckered up and blushed when saying it ;)

Bill - You embody a shitty instructor. 

Belonger - Anything that comes from your ass ain't a butterfly, but a bullet.   Speaking of which...

I'll call you soon:)

Bill - I see one thumb up and then toilet paper.  I suppose that's the natural progression of such things.

Ted - Thanks!  Not sure how that particular part of wisdom ever got lost in the first place.  I guess it is one of the elements that makes this place called Life interesting.

 

 

 

 

 

Oct 02, 2010 05:33 PM
Jeff Belonger
Social Media - Infinity Home Mortgage Company, Inc - Cherry Hill, NJ
The FHA Expert - FHA Loans - FHA mortgages - USDA loans - VA Loans

Sardi... after specific forensics tests, it has been brought to my attention that those rolls of toilet paper that Bill showed are all the same roll... and some familar with photography showed in court that each picture was the same, duplicated... so Bill only ever gave me one roll.

In regards to your comments to me?  I don't know any forrest Ranger... and funny video...

jeff belonger

Oct 02, 2010 05:39 PM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE

Nostalgic...to say the least. Now...what were we talking about? :)

Oct 02, 2010 05:44 PM
Jason Sardi
Auto & Home & Life Insurance throughout North Carolina - Charlotte, NC
Your Agent for Life

Sis - I believe we were talking about Toilet Paper, one of the more philosophical subjects of today.

Belonger - You are right!  And I don't like saying that too often to anyone when it means I'm wrong.  And of course you don't know any Forrest Ranger .... :) 

Oct 02, 2010 05:51 PM
JL Boney, III
Coldwell Banker - Columbia, SC
Columbia, SC Real Estate

Life is only complicated when we spend too much time thinking about it. Ignorance is bliss Sardi and while that fire holds wisdom it never seems happy until it burns out.

Oct 03, 2010 03:41 AM
Satar Naghshineh
Satar - Amiri Property and Financial Services Corp. - Irvine, CA

Hopefully the next time the burning camp fire speaks, you will have some unused toilet paper to write down it's wisdom. Pray tell, were you also doing mushrooms that day? ;)

Oct 03, 2010 09:20 AM
Lane Bailey
Century 21 Results Realty - Suwanee, GA
Realtor & Car Guy

Sometimes the fire gives you something different... and 24 hours ago i was staring into the campfire... surrounded by Cub Scouts.  They really would have warped your thoughts...

Oct 03, 2010 02:37 PM
Jennifer Monroe
Indigo Home Team powered by Compass - Charlotte, NC
Real Estate REALTORĀ®/Broker/Designer

JL should be a prophet! I know he's right and wish my mind could stop churning so hard now and then. I could use some ignorant bliss :)

Oct 04, 2010 10:31 AM
William J. Archambault, Jr.
The Real Estate Investment Institute - Houston, TX

@ Jeff #16

You'll find that each role I sent you as equally useful as the one I sent Jason.

Bill

Oct 04, 2010 10:39 AM
Jason Sardi
Auto & Home & Life Insurance throughout North Carolina - Charlotte, NC
Your Agent for Life

.... and I'm still wiping.

Oct 04, 2010 03:32 PM