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Little Things Mean a Lot in Life and in Real Estate

rain drops and the ripples In Clearwater Florida this is our rainy season. This time of year we experience thunderstorms most afternoons. With two young boys at my house there's nothing like a rain puddle to call their name. As I watched the rain drops fall this afternoon I watched how each small rain drop caused a ripple in the puddles.

Later today I was reading a post by Indy Real Estate Agent, Paula Henry, where she shared her successes and wrote how other real estate bloggers had helped her. I was flattered that I made her list. It made me realize how like rain drops the little things we do can have long lasting and even long reaching effects on others.

By the same token a Huntsville Alabama Real Estate Agent, Kimberly Grant inspired me this week with her informative Neighborhood of the Week posts and when I complimented her on these she graciously said I could feel free to incorporate some of her new ideas in my future posts to highlight the best Clearwater neighborhoods.

I can't count the number of times Ashley Drake Gephart, the Voice of ABQ Real Estate has helped me out in too many ways to list here but she knows what they are. The irony is that we've both received referrals from each other out of it - further proof that good deeds make good business sense too.

These are just a few of my peers that have helped me along the way - I'm not sure any of us could even spell Blog six months ago (LOL) - and look how far we've come together.

war veterans memorial park in st petersburg florida These are great reminders that life works best when we give and take...

When taking time to reflect today - will you consider taking a little extra time to reach out and help someone else. It could be sharing a skill you have, providing knowledge in an area of expertise or something as simple as commenting on someone else's post.

Never underestimate the power of small acts of kindness and helpfulness. I believe successful people are NEVER an island - either personally or professionally and so I have learned that little things mean a lot in life, as well as real estate.

Thank you to all my Active Rain peers who have helped me in so many ways since I began blogging earlier this year. I'm curious...

Who has helped you lately?
or Whom have you helped?

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Submitted by Cyndee Haydon, Clearwater Real Estate Agent

Posted by Clearwater Real Estate Pinellas Florida Condos & Homes for Sale- Cyndee Haydon on 08/30/2007 11:05 PM

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59 Comments on Little Things Mean a Lot in Life and in Real Estate

AUG

2007

What a very inspirning post. THank you for lifting my spirits a little higher this evening.

Cyndee - I can't try to name off the bat the number of people here who have helped me in so many ways. You are one of the many, I could be up for hours making the list. None the less, I try to help when I can, where I can, how I can.

Joe - thank you for doing the same for me - You always have such a positive outlook!

Jason - thank you - I'm humbled. You've done the same and touched so many which ws proven by the well attended "blogging vigil" we all held anxiously awaiting your return - so glad you're back splashing in the puddles with us! :-)

Cyndee: I always love a good summertime rain shower! More than that, I love the rain drops that fall on each of us from Active Rain. As I was thinking about this, I realized, active is the operative word here in the rain. Each of us doing our part to share, encourage, motivate and pass it on. You have described it beautifully. Thanks for the link love!:)

Paula - Is that you (LOL) - My pleasure and I often think how wise the founders were when they named this place - "Active" "Rain" - I agree with you!

Cyndee, awesome post! YOU have inspired me. :) I have been thinking about doing a post like this for a very long time...but there are so many people I am afraid that it would take forever or that I would forget someone. I can't wait to see what everyone has to say about your post. :)

Stephanie - I have named names in the past - often "Big Bloggers" - who have helped me like Kristal Kraft, Laurie Manny, Colleen Kulikowski, Jeff Turner, Teresa Boardman, David Podgusky and Ines.

Today I realized how much I get (and hopefully give) to my peers and how important it has been to me and I've been told it's helped others.

You are a special friends and I can't thank you enough for making me realized that Green is good - I think I was one of the ones always intimidated by it and you make it so fun and practical so thanks for that. I also notice what an interest you take in others including me - thank you!!

You are so sweet! I have gotten so much out of knowing you. I have met other great people here because of you so it just keeps going. I feel like a bunch of baby bloggers have grown-up together!

Ashley - I think one of the real gifts of Active Rain is those that are here short cut the learning for those that are new. The Big Bloggers when we got here did it for us and hopefully we're paying it forward too. It's also much more fun to learn with others - it doesn't feel like w-o-r-k or nearly as intimidating.

Cyndee blogging isn't work it can't be I am having to much fun! Look at all the great people we have become "associated" with because of AR.

AUG

2007

Really nice, Cyndee! Way to Pay it Forward, again!

Loretta - thank you for your kind words. The best part is making new friends like you.

Cyndee - What a great way to honor those that give! You give so much all the time! I believe the more you give the more you will get back! Great reminder! Thanks

Cyndee- You have helped me so much! I thank you. You wrote a wonderful and inspiring post here, I truly enjoyed reading it. The networking and the friendships I am making through active rain are true treasures. I just got another referral for a listing through a member of active rain. It is a great place! Katerina

Kim - thank you! It's been a thrill to see you find your voice and become and awesome blogger. It's also been a great way to make special friends. You've done the same I know for Rick and Lynn in your area.

Katerina - Wow that is great news - We just received another call from a couple that want us to sell their Clearwater Condo and we're meeting them this weekend. You are an easy person to be friends with - you are a great example here!!

Cyndee, you have been such a mentor to me and to many others. I know you had mentors that you learned from, then just did what they did. If we all do that, this will become and even more powerful place. Every time we post to the Newbie group, we are becoming mentors too! Thanks so much for your help.

I missed you on my blog and then you were there this evening. I came here and it seems we were thinking along the same lines! You helped me in the beginning to gain confidence and boy did I take off. You taught me how to be structured with my localism posts and you made an impact...more than you know. It was nice seeing you again Cyndee.

Joanne - I'm thrilled that we met because of Active Rain - I have enjoyed sharing what I've learned and you have also taught me a lot about how do do "fabulous" localism posts. Congrats on your recent Posh'd recognition too.

Sally - isn't it fun to see friends grow and become great bloggers - I had no idea I had even helped - thanks for letting me know. You have definitely taken off and it's hard to keep up with you:=) - I need roller skates :-)

I have loved learning about Hawaii from you and getting to know the one and only WooHoo! I was sick for a week and business has been good - it's cramped my blogging time and I'm still catching up - just know you are always on my "favorites" - it was funny how in sync we were today - what is it they say about great minds (HaHa)

Cyndee: That's right! I will try and make it a point to come back more often....It clicked this past week...don't forget to help the new ones but don't neglect the old ones either. I've been adamantly concentrating on my routine to comment like crazy (I now open three windows and keep clicking and typing....it sure saves time!)

Sally, Thanks for the tip on how to do better commenting - I have just started making an effort to embrace new people again. Time still seems to be the biggest hurdle not "want to" - but like you at this point we've been blessed with lots of points so my goal is to get to know like minded professionals that would be comfortable referring back and forth and Localism article that attract consumers. The natural biproduct has been great friends. :-) Thanks for promising to keep visiting - it's very appreciated.

Cyndee: Your posts are always so insightful and say so much. I just joined Active Rain two weeks ago. I have read as much as I can, and feel I have learned a lot. I have only posted three times on my blog. Many other blogs seem so inventive. Cool pictures, great humor, and lots of information. I have so much to learn as far as blogging. I barely know where to start. Thanks again for your great post. Karen Anne

Karen - Welcome, it is a great group and the payoff is worth all the work - I will visit and check out your posts and help cheer you on :-) Don't be afraid to ask questions. Sounds like you're off to a great start. Thanks for taking the time to comment on my blog - it never quits being a thrill :-)

Cyndee,

Loved this post, you always do such a great job. So many have helped me along the way including YOU, and I'm a big fan of the three ladies in your post. The most recent person was Stephanie Edwards-Musa.

Cyndee, That is what I love about this community, everyone is so willing to help out another. That is a rare thing in this world these days. I have learned much by reading the works of others here and that includes you. I appreciate all the help. Thanks.

I think everyone that entered the Ice Cream Carnival are superstars. I had plenty to do and it was fun to watch everyone battle for nothing.

Cyndee - this reminds me of the movie PAY IT FORWARD! If you've never seen it, it's worth purchasing it and watching it over and over. The movie was about doing good things for 3 other people once someone had been generous enough to help you out. These are words to live by...just like your post! Do it unselfishly and reap the rewards as they come back around. I know I have also met some wonderful people on AR and wouldn't be the same without them...

I flagged this post! Well written...

Hi Cyndee - what a lovely post to say thanks to those who've helped you! I don't think there are any of us who haven't benefitted to some degree at the very least from others here who've extended a helping hand. This is certainly a GREAT place to be and so many awesome folks here to be part of!

Ann

Cyndee, I can even begin to name the people that have helped me here. What a great post, I'll reflect on this and maybe honor some of those too. Paula did a similiar one and it is nice to read who's helping behind the scenes.

Lynda - I agree - Stephanie has really helped me open my mind and heart (LOL) to being green. None of this would have been possible without your invitation to join active rain - so glad we've gotten to be good friends in the process.

Darrel - I have enjoyed meeting and getting to know you here. Thank you for your kind words.

Chris - what a sweet thing to say - I am still humbled to have been selected after seeing so many awesome entries. You're right the contest had great people participate - so what's next?

Susie - I LOVE THAT MOVIE and the whole concept - life works so much better that way!!! AR has definitely brought us together. Enjoying dancing in the rain with you.

It's someone else's turn to run through the gauntlet.

Cyndee,

You have awonderful attitude, there should more people like yourself in this world.. :0)

Take Care,

Tom Weiss

Ann - you are so right - it's also a great place to see how others blog successfully and model them. I've always loved your localism posts.

Hi Cyndee. As many comments above have said... this is such an inspiring post and there wouldn't be enough space here to list eveyone on AR that has inspired me, helped me and along the way, became my friend. You are definitely on that list!

Cyndee, Very thoughtful, guiding post! BTW I could spell Blog 6 months ago but spell check can't!

Hi Cyndee,

Very generous sentiment and you are so right that the most successful people are not an island. It was a pleasure to meet you here in the Rain and your joining has enriched our experience on the network!

Tom - you are so nice to me - thank you!!! I really enjoy you too!

Marti - thank you for that - you have brought a focus on my favorite topic - "the marketing of you" - your group helps all of us be aware and be better REALTORS. Thanks for inspiring me and so many others. I appreciate you supporting my blog too. :-)

Lysa - well of course you could - you're one of the smart cookies here :-) - Most of us we're just putting on our blogging training wheels - it's been a great journey - getting to know amazing women like you has been a blast - my special bird / nature buddy.

Lisa - wow you surprised me - thank you for your kind words. You've touched me! :-) I really need to spend more time in NJ - I'll see you over there....

Cyndee,

Your posts about Clearwater have helped inspire me to write more about my area. There are so many helpful people on AR that it is hard to ever pay everything back. I try to comment on entries by new bloggers when I can and comment on the blogs of those who I have gotten to know. There is so much content on this site that it is hard to believe it is such a new website.

Rita - I must say you do a great job showcasing Sanford North Carolina - I agree I've had so many people help me along the way I always feel like I'm getting more than I'm giving. I personally appreciate you and the fact that you are so supportive of me and others here on AR - thank you!

SEP

2007

Real good post. My help has recently come from Martin Rodriguez. Just being a great friend.

John - thanks for giving judos to Martin - that's what Active Rain is all about - friends helping friends. Thanks for stopping by!

CYNDEE!!! WOW... I cannot believe that I missed this post. I feel so honored. I am so apprecative to so many friends and colleagues I have met on AR. There are so many helpful people here that I am very glad that I could have done something to help someone else.

Kimberly - it's was my pleasure - you have a great attitude and awesome skills - what a combo!!!! I'm glad I'm getting the opportunity to get to know you better.

Well done Cyndee. This site is certainly a wealth of information, inspiration and folks willing to share and help others. Without it I would have never had the opportunity to meet good people like you. Thanks for sharing!!!!

Broker Bryant - I feel the same about you - you are a great REALTOR and a Blogging Mentor - I can't believe how much I've learned from you this past 6 months - thank you!! Good news - we've got 3 solid offers on the Dunedin house - cha ching $$$$ - looking goooooooood my friend :-) Thank you so much for your referral and trusting us with your personal friends.

Hi Cyndee, I got your message. YIPPEE! good job. I know Barbara and Glenn will be happy to put this behind them.

SEP

2007

Cyndee, thanks for this post. "Who have you helped today?" is a great question.

Thanks for commenting on my post about setting real estate investing goals.

Dan - it's a great way to build relationships and connections - giving back all we've been given along the way. Thank you for taking time to come and visit my site. I really appreciate it.