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Don’t “oppugn” another agent.

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Managing Real Estate Broker with Fathom Realty PB00068179

You can do this if you want.  I don't recommend it but I know it happens.  Yes I have done it myself but I have regretted it as soon as it left my mouth.  Sad to say it happens often in our business.  Remember what go around comes around and it might come back to haunt you.  The meaning of (e pyoon') to oppose with argument, criticize adversely; call into question.  Unless you're a perfectionist in everything you do don't throw stones I have and when they bounce back they hurt.  Join wordsmith on Activerain. 

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Bean Group | Brin Realty Associates - Amherst, NH
Amherst NH homes and Southern NH real estate

Its always better to make a friend in the real estate business...the deal goes smoother, and the hopefully the next one with that agent will too...Treat others poorly and we pay...you are right...

Oct 16, 2010 11:27 PM
Maureen Fukumoto
Help-U-Sell Realty Pro - Mililani, HI
Maureen

Good advice but not always easy to follow. Like you, I have those moments when I wish I could rewind a conversation and start over.

Oct 16, 2010 11:36 PM
TeamCHI - Complete Home Inspections, Inc.
Complete Home Inspections, Inc. - Brentwood, TN
Home Inspectons - Nashville, TN area - 615.661.029

So in other works, you can be picayune if you oppugn or is it the other way around? I get so confused nowadays...

Oct 16, 2010 11:38 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Thanks Ms Rene and Maureen, as for you Michael you are in your usual stride... :-)

Oct 17, 2010 01:24 AM
Dennis Duvernay Broker/Owner
Hillview Realty - Northbridge, MA

Where does it get you? If you are shallow it may make you feel better momentarily but it the long run it is the wrong thing to do....Whats the old saying? If you have nothing good to say...say nothing....But I can also say it is very hard to hold back sometimes....LOL

Oct 17, 2010 02:06 AM
Charles Edwards Bentonville
Coldwell Banker Harris McHaney & Faucette 479-253-3796 - Bentonville, AR
AR REALTOR, Bentonville Real Estate Agent and Broker

James, great post. Agreed. It is always a mistake to run down another agent.

Oct 17, 2010 02:45 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

James, Another good word and thanks for the pronuciation. Now I can't get it out of my head.

I have seen other agents oppugn during a transaction...most unpleasant!

Oct 17, 2010 03:21 AM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Thanks for all the comments and Margaret I'm glad it's stuck in your head now use it the next time you see it happening and look at the reaction you get... LOL  :-)

Oct 17, 2010 04:30 AM
Joshua Zargari
MJ Decorators Workshop LI staging and home decorating - Lynbrook, NY
MJ Decorators Workshop

Thank you James, and good morning to you.

Have a great day.

Oct 17, 2010 10:52 PM