Entries to Date in the Inspiration 'Honesty'  Contest~

Honesty means you can make a Mistake  by Diane Velikis

Confessions of a Desensitized Good Guy!
by Fran Gaspari

Tim and Jeni Baldwin epitomized "Location, Location, Location" buyers- a true story.  by Kris Wales

No Secrets, No Lies: Honesty Means the Whole Truth by Celeste "Sally" Cheeseman 

Honesty & Real Estate Agents? Ha! by Ginger Wilcox

Honesty & Real Estate-You’ve Got To Know When To Hold Em…Know When To Fold Em…Know When To Walk Away…Know When To RUN !  by Grace Safrin

I Honestly Didn't Have Time... by Mike Jones

HONESTY...a Parable by Mike Jones

HONesty-hoNESty-honesTY  by Joan Mirantz

Honesty Is The ONLY Policy!  by Jason Sardi

Are You Honest With Yourself?  by Adam Waldman 

Honesty....On the Wing of an Angel  by Melissa Grant

ABC's of Life - Honesty, Integrity & Responsibility by Candace Robinson

Honesty...Whose Honesty? by Midori Miller

ABC Soup...A Day Full of I-I-I-Inspiration by Julie Neerings 


 

It’s another quiet Sunday morning here in the small-sized waterfront city of Belleville, Ontario.
The little breezes are catching my blind as they find their way through my opened window and the children in the area where I live are making their way outside as they begin another sunny day of freedom, doing what children do.

A lawnmower hums in the distance and the church bells ring out across the city as they call their worshippers for Sunday service.
Crow has made his early morning rounds and is now taking his break  high up in a tall Oak on the corner of Victoria and Foster.  Although I heard him calling, I missed his morning message due to being wrapped up in telephone conversations with a client and then my Mother. I'm pretty sure it had something to do with honesty, though, since the universe found another way to reach me with this message a little bit later. That's usually how it is with messages.

I was reading the latest blogs from my subscribed list,  and then from the random list of blogs on the main blog page,  when a title caught my eye. ~ "I WALKED AWAY, WOULD YOU HAVE DONE THE SAME?"
It was written by Gary Rocks  of Franklin , NJ and it dealt with honesty. 
Gary was wondering if he had done the right thing by walking away from a listing when he knew it was in the best interests of the owner.  It's a very touching post written by an honest man and if you haven't already done so, I recommend you read it.

I replied to Gary with a link to a poem my Father had given my brothers and I when we were in our early twenties.  He had told us, when he gave us each a copy,  that if we paid attention to the wisdom the poem was imparting, we would do well in life and would arrive to our final days with no regrets.

Here is the link for those of you who have never read it before:

The Guy in the Glass   by Dale Wimbrow .

I did some searching on the reason Dale Wimbrow had written this poem and found out that it was an entry to a contest that was held by American Magazine in 1934. The contest was held to answer a young man's letter to the editor wondering why 'an ambitious young man should be honest'. The contest elicited thousands of responses from the readers of American Magazine.

I’m not sure if he won or not, however he did something much greater by writing this poem;  he reached out to millions of people over the next 73 years and helped them to not only find their way in life, but also to know that they were doing the right thing in any situation that may arise, by being honest. This is one of those poems that will live in the hearts of all who read it and will cross their minds whenever they are faced with an important decision of any kind.  

 As I write this now, I think it all comes back to the question  ‘What would love do?’. 
What would love do; something I always ask myself when faced with any important fork in my path, and I know that what ‘love’ would do, is the honest and right thing to do.
 I know this because of my ability to look in the mirror and see the  ‘guy in the glass’ and realize that it has  everything to do with my conscience and my conscience is my inner connection to the intelligent and compassionate centre of the universe, 'love' itself.

I have been considering for a number of days now that I would like to hold a contest for the Inspiration group (if you aren't a member already, I hope you'll join!).
Many subjects have come to mind, however none seemed quite the right one.  So I waited; waited for that inner voice from the universe to speak to me and give me the right subject for the first contest of the Inspiration group.  That subject came this morning and I’m sure by now you already know what it is~

Honesty, and What it Means to You.

Your entry can be written about anything, as long as the main theme of the post is to do with being honest and what it means to you or what it meant to you during a particular episode in your life.
For example, the content of  Gary Rock's post , which I linked above,  would qualify.  In addition, it  may relate to your business OR personal life . (Please make sure to read the Inspiration Group's post submission guidelines in the sidebar at the Inspiration Group so that your entry also abides by those guidelines.)

This contest will run for three weeks beginning today and ending at midnight EDT on September 24th.  All entries posted to the Inspiration group during that time period  with the words  ‘honesty’ or 'honest' in the tags  section, will be entered into the contest and added to the master list of entries which will be in the Featured posts section of the Inspiration group. Each entry must not have been posted anywhere on ActiveRain prior to the a nnouncement of this contest.

The first place winner will win a special prize package which will include 400 ActiveRain points and a signed copy of Bill Cherry's book 'Galveston Memories' !!

Many of you may already be fans of Bill's wonderful blog here at ActiveRain and if you haven't already, subscribing to Bill's blog will be a special treat for you in days to come.
Bill was born on Galveston Island in 1940 and is a true BOI (born on the island). His book kept my rapt attention from beginning to end as he regaled the reader (me) with stories of the memorable characters and celebrities who lived on Galveston Island. My favourite sections are the wonderful and heart warming 'love' story collection and the collections on 'humour' and 'history'.

Yes, I'm a true romantic at heart and many of these stories brought a tear to my eye or a warm smile to my face as I read late into the night.
Some nights I'm sure they heard me laughing three blocks away as I read about the shenanigans of some of the character's in Bill's stories. I know you'll love this book and cherish it as much as I do.

Second Place winner will receive an extra 200 ActiveRain points.

Third Place winner will receive and extra 100 ActiveRain points.

As well,  the top 6 winning entries (first , second, third and 3 honourable mentions) will all receive a copy of Julia Cameron's Inspirations: Meditations from The Artist's Way.

Your entry can be in the  ‘public’ or  'members only' category.  The entries will serve to help not only the members of ActiveRain, but if they are in the 'public' category, they will have a far and wide reach around the globe (and help ActiveRain's google juice as well as your own).

Bill CherryDan Forbes and Carole Provenzale have kindly agreed to offer their services as judges for this contest. .

If there are any questions at all, feel free to email me directly or ask in the comments section of this post.

Keep tuned to this post for ongoing updates and may your muse be with you !!   
 

Jo

 

 

 

60 Comments on Honesty, and What It Means to You~Contest Announcement and Entries So Far

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2007
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Hi Jo! I have not joined many groups lately....good thing you bring up a couple in your posts! I'll try and get one in. 
4:38pm • #1
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Jo...

Okay. Give me a few days to get my head back on straight and I'll see if I can blog on demand.

I usually don't do contests but this is a good exercise for the members.

As everyone seems to be feeling the 'compete heat' ...

Perhaps by posting on the topic myself I can get more members to compete :)  

A little reverse psychology goes a long way...Eh? :)

TLW...ROAR!

4:50pm • #2
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Sally,  I was hoping you would enter !

After you did such an excellent job with your legacy contest at the Positive Attitude group, I think it would be wonderful if you were on the other side for a change.....I really enjoyed being involved in your contest and I hope to enter Adam's ActiveRain Addicts contest.....

I look forward to  reading your entry....as I do all of your posts, they all impart a magnificent message. 

Jo 

5:05pm • #3
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Hi Jo-Anne -- I trhank you for this post.  I am a big beliver in honestry and integrity. See a previous post of mine Your Integrity Bucket .  Aloha 
5:06pm • #4
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TLW,

I was sorry to hear about the loss of one of your best buddies .....I hope the new addition is keeping away from BB and Blogging Bertha's ActiveRain homework..

It's wonderful that you are going to submit an entry. I look forward to reading it and you are absolutely right with the reverse psychology angle.

Thanks for being involved !

Jo 

5:11pm • #5
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Hi Bruce,

 Thanks for your support !  I'm off now to read your post and I hope you'll consider entering one in the contest....I enjoy reading everything you write and I always knew you to be a man of great integrity from the first few blogs of yours that I read,

Jo 

5:14pm • #6
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Let me chew on this....it's a super idea, I'm just not certain I can tackle it yet. 
6:32pm • #7
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Hi Jo-anne,

GREAT IDEA ...I am tempted to enter...but the story I have to tell is now FUNNY years later (emits laughter from Jeff & I every time we drive by the farm)........and the links you have above (GARY & DAVE)  are truely

thought provoking and have more SUBSTANCE...

can we record & upload sound effects to a  BLOG ? ( newbie question - sorry)

8:37pm • #8
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Hi Kat,

I hope that in time you feel up to posting an entry...it runs til Sept 24th. I missed reading your uplifting posts while you were gone and it's nice to see  you blogging again....

Jo 

9:33pm • #9
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Grace
please do submit your entry...funny is good...all of your posts are so very inspirational and written so well.

sound bytes?  Hmmm.....I'm not sure...good question.

Jo 

9:36pm • #10
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Jo-Anne-  Thank you for sharing this poem.  I am familiar with this poem and LOVE it. I have seen a few adaptations to this poem over the years. I have two grown sons and a teenage daughter and I have given them a copy (gender specific, that's another story about not being honest and someone taking credit for a lovely poem by Dale Wimbrow ) in past years. I personally have kept this taped inside my mirror medicine cabinet for years to remind me of its wonderful message every time I reached for my toothbrush. Thanks again!! Not sure I can come up with anything clever enough for a contest...but I will definitely look forward to the entries!! One my way to check out the Inspiration Group now (sounds like my cup of tea)!  Candace
10:59pm • #11
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Jo, I wanted to thank you for the honor of asking me to help judge this contest.  I think so highly of your writings and so many others, I truly felt it was an honor for you to ask me and I will do my very best!
11:30pm • #12
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2007
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Jo,

Hope your having a great labor day weekend. I am. Curiously enough, before reading this post, I was greatly moved to write:  Confessions Of A Desensitized Good Guy Would this qualify? Thanks,   Fran

12:31am • #13
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Jo, I'm in- great poem!  Hopefully, no writer's block.  Perhaps I'll have to go do something dishonest, and write about the ramifications- what do you think? :)
5:13am • #14
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Good morning Candace,

It was so nice to read your comment this morning and find another soul who this poem is very special to. I hope you will enter the contest....just write from your heart what honesty means to you or relate a story from your life that taught something about honesty...I'm sure it would be wonderful !

Thanks too for checking out the Inspiration group and I hope you'll join.....

Jo 

6:55am • #15
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Good morning Carole !

I'm so glad that you agreed to be a judge for this contest.....your integrity and honesty is off the charts and I'm honoured that you are taking part.....

thanks so much,

Jo 

7:06am • #16
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Hi Fran,

Yes, I went to your blog (the link here on your comment isn't working ) and read your post and I think this would be a wonderful entry for the contest....please read the comment I left on your blog with regards to how to enter it into the contest.....

thanks so much !

Jo 

8:26am • #17
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Laurie

Now THAT would be very interesting.....I look forward to reading your entry and thanks so much for participating !

Jo 

8:35am • #18
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Jo Ann I thank you for placing my post in your contest. Like Laurie Mindnich my blog was inspired by a recent boo boo. It really troubles the soul when you hurt someone a unintentionally.
9:20am • #19
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Hi Diane,

You're absolutely right.....it does often hurt us more than it hurt the person  who we unintentionally hurt. All we can do is apologize from the heart and try to make things right, then pick up the pieces and move forward with a  newly learned lesson intact.....

thanks for your entry in the contest and the best of luck to you....it's a beautiful post.

Jo 

9:31am • #20
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Okay...it's in draft...the more I keep reading I said...gee, this post keeps popping up. It's got to be a sign. :)
12:53pm • #21
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LoL, Sally.....I'm glad you're paying attention to those 'signs'.....and I look forward to when your post comes out of draft mode...

the draft feature is neat...I'm using it more and more....  

Jo 

1:25pm • #22
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2007
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Hi Jo,
You have been a busy lady while I was away.  Oh, I'm thinking can I possibly do this?  Perhaps I need to just  for the challenge, experience and to force me out of my comfort zone.  I definitely like the subject matter. 

The Guy in the Glass --one of my all time favorites. 

 

7:21am • #23
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Hi Jo...have been away so on here minimally....a book by Billy Cherry! I'm in!
1:16pm • #24

Hi Jo,

Nice blog. I have a copy of the poem The Guy in the Glass. It was in our newspaper many years ago and I cut it out and have kept in my night stand ever since. I will pull it out every now and then and reread it. 

2:03pm • #25
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Hello Cynthia, nice to see you back !  I hope you had a relaxing holiday...

I think you would do an excellent job at a post on this subject matter......you're a blogger of far and wide subjects and all of them are extremely well done.

I hope you enter and I look forward to reading your entry ....    (((-:

Jo 

4:20pm • #26
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YaY, Joan !  I'm glad you're in.....it's a very delightful book by Billy Cherry too.....the stories will make you laugh, cry, smile and a little bit of everything else...well, you already know that.

Jo 

4:22pm • #27
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Hello Trace, 

now for some reason I kind of figured if anyone had a copy of that poem, it would be you.....hmmm, my intuition is riding high lately.  ((-;

I hope you'll enter, Trace...perhaps this could be your first blog ! 

Jo 

4:23pm • #28

No that High....lol ... I did my first blog this afternoon!! Tried all morning and there was something wrong with AR and it would not let me download my pictures....I wondered if it was telling me something! :)

4:50pm • #29
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That's wonderful Trace....I  have been gone all day ...drove my son back to university ( a 6 hour total drive) and then had two offers to deal with and now am back home for a bit....so I haven't had much time to read many blogs yet....I'll check it out in a bit though !

Jo 

5:09pm • #30
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TO ALL OF YOU

Joanna (aka Jo, aka Jo-Anne)'s idea needs to provide land slide results, and the reason it does is so that all readers -- whether clients or fellow agents -- will get the opportunity to learn and understand why honesty is the required foundation of being a Realtor.

Over the years I have found that the concept alludes so many real estate agents.  They are able to trick-rationalize that their behavior isn't dishonest....it doesn't count when they do it.  My wife, a psychotherapist, and her colleagues call that behavior narcissism.

So thanks to Joanna for spearheading this important idea.  I hope there will be many entries, and I especially look forward to being able to read them and think about what each said.

And let me tell you about the prize of my book:  While it's called, Bill Cherry's Galveston Memories it's a collection of some sixty of the more than 600 weekly columns I wrote for the Galveston paper.  Each story has a moral, and each story is true.  The prize fits right in for what we're doing here...not because I wrote it, but because I'm the guy who knew the stories.

That they happened in Galveston is not material.  They could have happened in your home town.

9:22pm • #31
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Jo - I'm not sure I get the full jist yet but I'll read the ones done and see if I have a story worth sharing. Way to spear head a contest - wishing you great success.
10:55pm • #32
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2007
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Bill,

Thank you for your wonderful insight with regards to honesty and it's application in the real estate industry. I'm dealing with the nicest, caring realtor right now in a transaction and his above the board honesty is so refreshing, I smile every time I talk with him. Everyone around relaxes a few degrees more when honest individuals are the major players .....

Each of the characters  in your book have a very transparent and human quality and you tell their stories with such candor and openness, that the story comes alive and I feel as though I'm right there in that time and place watching the whole thing take place.  Real life really is stranger than fiction....

Jo 

6:44am • #33
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Good morning Cyndee,

Thanks a bunch for your lovely comment. I hope you'll enter a story ....it can be about absolutely anything as long as the central theme revolves around honesty .

Perhaps I should write a small post with some ideas that get AR members thinking.....it really is such an integral part of a life well lived and I know there are a thousand stories out there just waiting to be written. I'm hoping one of them is yours...

(((-:

Jo 

6:48am • #34
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Jo, Interesting contest for sure! Good luck with this one! I'm off to your next post :)
9:38am • #35
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Thanks Lysa, perhaps you'll consider entering it....I'd love to read your view on honesty and what it means to you.....

Jo 

11:41am • #36
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I found this post through Sally Cheeseman's fabulous entry.  She inspired me, and my entry is now posted.
12:55pm • #37
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Thanks Ginger !  I'll go right over to the group now and add it to the list.....

Jo 

12:58pm • #38
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Jo-Anne, this is a great idea!  I'm looking forward to writing an entry for your contest.  It was a pleasure speaking with you on the phone; I've signed up with Inspiration!

Mike in Tucson

7:52pm • #39
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Mike

  Your call was a very pleasant surprise...thank you !

...now I can put a voice to the face and to the words everytime I visit your blog.

I'm so glad to hear you will be entering the contest...you're a very talented writer and you write from your heart. I enjoy all of your blogs and I'll be watching for this one....  ((-:

Jo 

8:09pm • #40
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2007
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Jo,

Can we do more than one....I have had one quick one popping in and out of my brain every since i read about the contest, but have a serious one I have already started.......

oh, and I came here right after answering my comments and found a yellow star....Thanks :)

11:10am • #41
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Oh , you're VERY welcome, Kathy...it's a wonderful post.

Yes, please enter as many contest entries as you want into the contest....keep em coming !  I think I should do an update on the contest and mention that...thanks.

I look forward to reading both of your entries...or more if you decide to do more than two.

Jo 

 

11:18am • #42
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Jo,

I just posted my entry :) :)

8:18pm • #43
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Jo,

Yes, you did.....again :) :)  Thanks for letting me get those 'honesty" thoughts out of my head :)

11:49pm • #45
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Kathy,  honesty thoughts make great memes......especially when they reach the 'critical' mass level. Helps the world to become a better place !

Jo 

6:37am • #46
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Jo,

I just posted my 2nd entry....this one i didn't want to write....it just happened :(

11:32am • #47
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hi Kathy,

Great !!  I'll go and check it out right now and add it to the list.....you're very busy lately ! Thanks so much for letting me know

Jo 

11:50am • #48
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Jo,

Thanks, and as I said in my comments this one just happened ......my mind doesn't sort out what I can and should write, especially on this set theme.  thank you for sharing your thoughts......I appreciated them.

2:12pm • #49
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Kathy, I just hope it all gets sorted out....I really dislike seeing two people I care for and admire at odds with one another....there are enough people in the world ready and willing to step in and be at odds with the good already....I really think open communication is paramount (between the two people at odds).

Jo 

2:29pm • #50
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Jo,

I couldn't agree more, and I really am not trying to be at odds with anyone.

3:20pm • #51
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I don't believe you are either , Kathy...I believe you are trying to keep AR an honest place and a fair system for everyone.

Jo 

8:14pm • #52
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Jo,

PLEASE go take care of your cold and fever.....I aways say never make a major decision when your defences are down.....and our thoughts can become overwhelmed just by the fever. Life has a way of sorting itself out......

Minimizing the impact of things we have no control over is what life is all about. (This is taken from your blog on stress :)

11:08am • #53
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Thanks Kathy, 

for reminding me of my words on stress. Life does have a way of sorting itself out , for the better, I always believe.

Jo 

1:38pm • #54
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Jo - I am going to follow both your links and your advice about new groups- thanks
9:43pm • #55
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That's wonderful, Barbara-Jo !
Perhaps you'll consider writing a post for the  contest ? Or maybe Bill will ? Or maybe both of you can !

Jo 

12:14pm • #56
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Jo,

Please remove my entries from your contest.  As you stated, the one doesn't fit the guidelines of your group, and well as they both have to do with me and honesty, I wish to withdraw both of them. Thank you,

4:35pm • #57
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Hi Kathy,

I'm sorry that you are withdrawing both of them and as I stated previously, you have every right to leave them both in the contest as I am the one who made the error in failing to state that contest entries should abide by the Inspiration group guidelines and they do fall within the original contest guidelines that I set forth (as well one of them abides by both Inspiration group guidelines and contest guidelines).

....however I respect your wishes and will remove them both, with regret.

Jo 

4:44pm • #58
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Jo,

Bill Cherry's 2nd paragraph (above) states my POSITION EXACTLY......and as his book was the prize, I honestly believe my 2nd entry fit....... but thank you for removing them.

6:35pm • #59
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Kathy, I understand what you are saying and why you feel this way and I agree with Bill. 

'Trick-rationalizing' happens in all sorts of unethical things people do, not just dishonesty, in my opinion.
As I stated above, I believe the answer is to always ask 'what would love do' in any situation. To me the answer that comes to mind is the only right way to go and it always follows the 'golden rule'.

I didn't ask you to remove your entry from the contest...only from the Inspiration group itself.  You were perfectly welcome to leave them both in the contest....not just the one. I was saddened that you decided to remove  the first one from the contest as well.

Anyhow, I believe, like TLW said, good will come out of the second post you wrote even though it is no longer in the contest. 

Jo 

 

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