When Bailey (my granddaughter)graduated Kindergarten last year we attended her school play which was performed two days before schools end and summer vacation. It was the cutest play, that resulted in the students receiving their home made year book. It is so adorable that I will stash it away like a time capsule, and one day she will look back fondly at this very special time in her life.

Pre-kindergarten she would practice writing her name, and she always made the B backwards. Finally when she was to enter the world of Kindergarten she had her B's facing the right way.

I liken her mistake, to mistakes that adults can make too.

Honest Mistakes. 

It takes a very brave person to admit to making an honest mistake

Did you ever mistakenly call someone by their wrong name? Maybe you were just trying to be polite, but you offended them by calling them someone else. 

Did you ever mistakenly short change someone? They had to bring it to your attention and you felt your skin change all the colors of red due to embarrassment? You know it wasn't on purpose, but what of the other person? Will they think you where sly and on the take?

For that matter did a bank teller ever OVER  PAY you, and you had to bring the money before her and show her the error? I did when a bank teller overpaid me. I wasn't going to take the money and run like someone who is dishonest would purposely do.

The wise words of John Wesley about Christians "They are not perfect in knowledge-They are not free from ignorance, no, nor from mistake."

We should forgive more and realise that honest mistakes are going to happen. To not make a mistake means as John Wesley said to be "Perfect in Knowledge". And we know no one is perfect.

We need to know that after we make a mistake, we are still pretty special in the eyes of God. Even if we have a long way to go.

Don't let people cut you down. The only microscope that matters is the one God alone will use when he judges.

Imperfect people will make honest mistakes, In the mean time like Bailey's drawing lets just see each other as a work in progress.  

The promise is a one day perfect world but that isn't now....

"And the wolf will dwell with the lamb,
And the leopard will lie down with the kid,
And the calf and the young lion and the fatling together;
And a little boy will lead them.
Also the cow and the bear will graze;
Their young will lie down together;
And the lion will eat straw like the ox.
And the nursing child will play by the hole of the cobra,
And the weaned child will put his hand on the viper's den.
They will not hurt or destroy in all My holy mountain,
For the earth will be full of the knowledge of the Lord
As the waters cover the sea."

(Isaiah 11:6-9 NASV)

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45 Comments on Honesty means you can make a Mistake

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Well Donna, er Diane, loved this!  Everybody makes mistakes, I've made tons and will make a lot more.  The one piece of wisdom I've adapted over the years it to admit it, correct it if possible, work to make sure you amend it the best way you can.  I loved your inclusion from Isaiah, I'd never read that.  This is getting bookmarked and I'm giving it a 5!
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Well um sonny, yep, I admit it and try to work things out privately. That is a great Passage, and can you just IMAGINE how wonderful it will be???   Thanks Jason
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Diane, what a wonderful post.  It has served me well over the years to admit my mistakes and to try to correct them...I'd much rather tell what I have done than to have another person go behind my back and tell it. 
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Renee so true. If I offend anyone even in my business I always ask that they COME to ME. Lets reason together. I have a tendancy of making quite a few boo-boos. Still I think the adult thing to do is talk like adults and resolve it if you can. Thanks for your comment        :)
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Because I have made so mannnnnny mistakes I know refer to them as "learning experiences" ! Because to me we learn from our experiences and it takes many mistakes along the way to learn ! Without a mistake we would not grow, learn and nothing to laugh at later !
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Thank you for this true yet often overlooked message. For many, being perceived as perfect is so important that they hide their imperfections and thus never attempt to self improve. Nobody is perfect. We all should openly admit it and go on to see what we can do to become better. 
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Rosario so true! Honesty starts with yourself
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Diane -  Great Post! - To Error is Human - To Forgive - Divine ....also Isn't It AMAZING that  the Prophet Isaiah described the PERFECT World The NEW Jerusalem The Millenium so many years ago....
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Jeff and Grace   Thanks for your comment. To error is something we will all have to put up with right now, but oh there will come a day.....
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Diane, This is a beautiful post ....I will post it under the contest entries title in the contest announcement post first thing in the morning.....

you did mean it as an entry,  I hope ?

Thanks a bunch and especially thanks for posting it in the Inspiration group !

Your granddaughter is adorable and her yearbook and artwork are very precious. 

Jo 

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Jo Ann It is so ironic. I was writing about something that has been on my heart , and I was thinking of the words to say. Then you announced your contest which is such a coincidence! By all means you can enter it, but I feel as if I all ready won! I said what I needed to say and feel real good about it <smiles> Bailey is my first grandchild, and holds a very dear place in my heart. The year book is something I can't part with !

Thanks for your comment         :)

10:11pm • #12
Thank you for talking about this, we are human and not meant to be perfect, so we will make mistakes.  As long as we do everything we can to make it right, it o.k...
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Teresa  Perfect people are only perfect in their own mind. Thanks so much for your comment
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Is there something that precipitated this post?

I am curious......

=-)

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Diane - This is a terrific post.  I agree wholeheartedly with your sentiments here.  Great job!  God bless you!
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Alex  well yes. I made a boo-boo   

Jason Thanks for your comment, I appreciate you dropping by     :)

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Diane, very nice post. I make so many mistakes. I don't have a problem with that. I just wish that others could be more forgiving of errors. We have to realize that no one is perfect. There is a difference between an honest mistake and dishonesty.

 

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Leon Thanks for your comment. Very well said "there is a difference between an honest mistake and dishonesty"

Great quote !      :)

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Diane,

 There was only one perfect human being, who didn't make mistakes. And i KNOW,that you know who I,m talking about. As a Christian we  all make mistakes but we must confont them and make ammends.

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Hugh He is perfect, and divinely forgives imperfect people like you and me...              :)
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A good reminder of our weaknesses and imperfections..

And lots of good comments.

Thanks Diane!

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Armando Thanks for dropping! And thanks for the supportive comment     :)
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Diane.....

Thanks for your response....I just KNEW something caused you to write this post...I am glad everything is fine now...

=-)

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Diane, my sis, it was one of the values you possessed that drew me to you in the beginning.  It shines through every post you've written.  In trying the spirit, a distinction of honesty is described as....

"first pure, then peaceable, gentle, easy to be entreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy"

And if you've ever made a mistake.... it was just that.... an HONEST mistake.  How blessed am i to have become acquainted with you and ALL of your mistakes... since you have accepted me with all of mine. 

 

 

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Diane awe, that was one of the sweetest things you ever said to me sistah  :)
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Good start to the contest...like your quotes, and the messages you have given us.

We do all indeed make mistakes.

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Kathy Thankyou for stopping by. I hope I encouraged someone who may have slipped to get up and get going again         :)
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Diane,

Great post. It always frightens me when dealing with people who think we live in a perfect world. I tell my employees, never be afraid to admit a mistake. We're all human. I hate blame also. It is counterproductive to solving the problem. Thanks,   Fran

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Fran I can understand being un comfortable with perfect world stuff. Isn't very wise to blame others either. Thanks for your input, great comment.
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Diane, That's so true, none of us are perfect.  The difference is, many people don't own up to their sometimes innocent mistakes and that's dishonesty to me.  Thank you for a lovely post with a good lesson.
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Diane:  Bailey really does look very special!  I actually thought I had given a cashier a $20 bill the other day when in fact, I gave her a $10 bill.  When she gave me the change I told her it was incorrect.  She quickly corrected me, showing me the bill I had given her.  Talk about your skin turning every shade.  I couldn't apologize enough and I certainly did wonder if she believed me when I told her it was my mistake and I was so sorry.  Your post is a great reminder to us all.

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I absolutely love this post Diane.  Being honest and admitting my mistakes, it's easy to do because i have a conscience that would never allow me to be any other way.  It's a bit tough to swallow at times when mistakes are made, but it does need to be corrected and move on.  Thank you for sharing another inspiring blog.   
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Carol     owning up to our mistakes and imperfections is an act of bravery. cowards don't admit mistakes. thanks for your sweet comment, I agree whole heartedly     :)

Donna    I hate when that happens  < lol >  Thanks for dropping in and commenting    :)

Julie    Bravley admitting our weaknesses, and mistakes does come easy for some people  not admitting - is the dishonest hard part that you have to live with. Thanks for your comment.    :)

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Diane,

Excellent post!!  We all are human and are prone to errors.  Sometimes the only way to learn is from our mistakes.

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Brigita so true. I seem to learn the best sometimes the hard way.
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Hello Diane,
What a lovely post!  Yes, we are all human so we make mistakes.  Acknowledging the mistakes is sometimes very difficult and painful but from doing so, we grow, learn and become a better person.  

Thank you for the inspiration.  You are my kind of lady!

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Cynthia Thankyou for your lovely comment     :)
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I thought I made a mistake once, but I was mistaken.

 

[ nice post Ms. Velikis ]

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Rob  you wise cracker you! <smiles>

I always look foreward to reading your humerous blogs or your witty comments       :)

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I don't think I have ever met somebody who hasn't made a mistake at least once in their lives.  If you find one, please let me know. I like a good freak show (lol). I do have to disagree with you though. I don't think it takes a "brave" person to admit making an honest mistake. I think it takes a "good" person.  
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Bonnie hmmm, ok I agree we all make mistakes  :)
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Diane- You are absolulely right- making mistakes is human- we just have to accept it, acknowledge it, and do what we can to make it right!  LOVE the picture of your darling granddaughter! 
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Ginger  Thanks, Bailey sure is special! I learn new things from her all the time :)
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