How many people can relate to this?

lotto

When you heard that the jackpot was up to 391 million dollars, you rushed out to purchase tickets for the MegaMillion drawing this month and dreamed and fantasized about winning and what you would do with the moneyYou selected the "cash option" so that you would not have to be paid out over the course of 20 years.  Even though you heard on the radio that you have a better chance of being struck by lightening two times in row, you are convinced that you have a real shot at winning.  The MegaMillions site says that the "Overall chances of winning a prize are 1 in 40. Chances of winning the jackpot are 1 in 175,711,536" but you are sure that the next jackpot winner will be YOU.

You wait for the drawing only to be disappointed and upset when your numbers do not match the winning numbers.  But wait a minute! You took a Risk, right?  You had a dream and you took the risk.  Didn't your parents tell you to "follow your dreams" and to "dream big?" After all, it's not impossible there was a Chance of winning the jackpot of 1 in 175,711,536, remember? In Proverbs 12:11, The bible says "He who works his land will have abundant food, But he who chases fantasies lacks judgment." 

We are all guilty of chasing fantasies.  The problem with this is that it can be a dangerous thing to chase your dreams. The realization of dreams is certainly not impossible, but in general, the proverb says that people who chase their dreams, or their fantasies, lack judgment. They are unable to discern what is really possible, so more often than not, they come to ruin.

Maybe the point of the verse in Proverbs is that we need to be more realistic. Taking risks is okay, but taking risks blindly is not. "Chasing fantasies" might be a way of describing people who have desires about how they want to be, or how they want things to be, but not having any idea about the feasibility of it, or the cost of it. That lack of knowledge is expensive, in life terms.

Do you spend more time thinking about the potential rewards of your work than you do actually working? Would you consider yourself to be "a dreamer" and often find yourself chasing unrealistic dreams and goals only to be disappointed when you come to the realization that the dream did not come true?  If the dream is the only thing that keeps you going, then keep dreaming but realize that it probably will not come true.

This can be true about work, so many of us want to be an overnight success and get-rich-quick, after all it is not impossible and there are people who have done it.  I've heard that any "idiot can start a business and be a millionaire, why can't I?" How many of you have had huge, grandiose dreams for your business or personal life that just did not pan out as fast as you anticipated?  Were you disappointed, upset and feeling slighted when things did not go your way?  So many people give up and businesses fail when they are chasing dreams and fantasies instead of being grounded in the reality that there is only ONE thing that will pay off big time and that is hard work.  Sometimes you have to face reality that you might not be the Number one, overnight success that you dreamed of.  A million dollars did not fall out of the sky and land in your lap.

The true rewards in life come from hard work and sacrifice.  "The opposite of diligence and hard work is laziness. The lazy seek to avoid work altogether. Since they must make money to live they turn toward schemes and get-rich-quick offers. Proverbs teaches us that these alternatives to work will not succeed. (1)"

"The one who works his land
    will have plenty of food, (AB)
    but whoever chases fantasies
    will have his fill of poverty."

-Proverbs 28.19

"Whoever works his land will have plenty to eat, but the one who chases unrealistic dreams has no sense."

-Proverbs 12:11.

 

*1. Wisdom and Wealth (Part II) By: Bob Deffinbaugh , Th.M, http://www.bible.org/page.php?page_id=637

 

 
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29 Comments on Chasing Fantasies

SEP
02
2007

Excellent post!  The keep to the realization of your dreams is the implementation of the necessary actions to make those dreams materialize.  

 

Eric Anderson, Team Leader
Keller Williams Realty - Fayetteville
EricAndersonNC@kw.com

10:48pm • #1
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Great post.  I believe it is healthy to chase dreams, as long as those dreams are in the form of goals.  If you attain your goals one step at a time, you will achieve your dreams.
11:47pm • #2
I think the reason so many of us have get rich quick dreams is because we may not be doing what we really love.  If you love what you do it isn't work and you would continue even if you won the lotto.
11:54pm • #3
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03
2007
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Very good post! Really spoke to my heart. Loving your job to me is winning the lottery, making it a success is something entirely different. I rate you a 5      :)
6:48am • #4
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People who buy lottery tickets when multimillion dollar jackpots are in the news are unfortunately ignorant of mathematical probabilities.  The  more people who  enter the lottery, the lower the chances of winning.  That's why the  jackpot got so high in the first place.
9:17am • #5
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Thank you Diane,  I appreciate that.  I hope you love your job!  I know that mine is a labor of love and that I try to constantly improve not because of the promise of huge wealth or anything materialistic but because I don't want to be the "lazy" or useless type, I really do enjoy working most of the time.

Darrel, That seems to be a common thread here, loving what you do.  Thanks for your comment, it's so true.  I am sure that we've told ourselves whether or not we would keep our job if we won the lotto! 

Steve, it is somewhat healthy to chase dreams and goals as long as you keep it realistic.  Like you said, one step at a time.

Thanks Eric,  for the thoughtful response.  I believe that when you "work the land" the crops are sure to grow!  I also believe that if you sit around thinking about & dreaming about impossible dreams, your crops are sure to fail.  It is the "implementation of the necessary actions " that brings rewards.

 

 

9:17am • #6
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People who buy lottery tickets when multimillion dollar jackpots are in the news are unfortunately ignorant of mathematical probabilities.  The  more people who  enter the lottery, the lower the chances of winning.  That's why the  jackpot got so high in the first place.
9:17am • #7
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Good point, Brian.  You don't have to be a math wiz to know those aren't good odds! 
10:34am • #8
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I like the book of Proverbs. teaches wisdom and real life applications for the business world.
10:47am • #9
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Nice post but I still bought a ticket. ;-)

Hey, someone has to win and if you don't get in the game it won't be you with 100% certainty.

 

11:25am • #10
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Absolutely fantastic! What a great point of view.
11:44am • #11
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I think you just have to remember the difference between chasing fantasies, and trying to reach an obtainable goal.  Yes, I did dream of being a great real estate agent, but I didn't aspire to be number 1.  I know my limitations, and with 4 kids and a husband who works 55-65 hour weeks I knew I couldn't devote the time and work it took to be number 1.  Maybe someday though right?  But then again, it comes back to the WORK.  Thanks for the post!

 

Lexa 

12:15pm • #12
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My dream is to spend eternity in heaven withmy Lord and i know it is attainable.
1:05pm • #13
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Hi Lacy, Great post!  I love the proverbs, there is so much wisdom to be found!!!  I have had dreamer clients and friends that have ended up in pre-foreclosure/foreclosure and it is so sad.
2:57pm • #14
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Look at that...a STAR from the Active Rain network.......

wow!!!

I am impressed!!

=-)

3:47pm • #15
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Lacey..........Thanks for the great blog.............Makes you re-think what you are doing.

Duane Hosek in the Black Hills of South Dakota

4:30pm • #16
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Lori - Thanks, I am glad you like it.

Jim - I am guessing you didn't win?!  Maybe a dollar or two?? A lot of people tried for that jackpot!

Lexa - It sounds like you already work hard and have the foundation for a very beautiful life with 4 kids, a job and a husband.   Keep up the good work.

Hugh - Thanks for commenting, so true.

Marchel - It is the 'dreamer' type personality that will get into a house they can not afford thinking that more money will magically appear, they put the cart before the horse. 

Yes, Alex, this is my first "star" post.  I feel pretty good about it, I didn't reallly think anyone would read it when I wrote it, it was more personal for me and some things I have been going through in life.

Thank you Duane, I hope this helps. I know it helps me to remember to aim high, but not so high that I can not reach.

 

 

 

 

 

8:10pm • #17
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You would be suprized at who sometimes features a post...there are over a dozen Moderators in Active Rain...most of which we don't even know ..........

WTG!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

9:23pm • #18
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Well, whoever the "moderator" is Thanks!

  

9:57pm • #19
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Hello again Lacey, Congrats on being featured. The harder we work, the closer to our goals we seem to get. Living in paradise was a goal. We did that, and our RE efforts are to support it.

This is an excellent post. Helpful. Positive. On point. Thank you. And again, thanks for taking your time to comment on the advertising piece we just did. It's most appreciated.

10:44pm • #20
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04
2007
I have to admit even I buy a lottery ticket every once in awhile, but you make a very valuable point.
1:39am • #21
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It's ok to have dreams - but then work hard to make them happen. Just my 2 cents.
1:53am • #22
Lacey - good post.  Everyone needs to dream, it is what we actually do with those dreams that counts. 
9:31am • #23
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Lacey,

Very good, I strongly believe in what you wrote!!

Tom Weiss

2:50pm • #24
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I like your post! Also, while the dream of getting rich is great, and certainly wouldn't mind if it happens to me, but I must say, even if I won the lottery, I would continue this job.  It is the first job in my life, that I not only thoroughly enjoy, it even pays well, so I feel rewarded for my work!   (although I can't tell you the last time I played lotto, so guess getting rich fast will not happen any time soon for me)  

If I won lottery, I just could enjoy a few vacations which I would try to make sure they did not interfer with my work schedule - ie 3 business days before end of month......

9:52pm • #25
You know, the first thing I thought of if I had bought a ticket and won......It was building a gym/basketball court for my church for the youth and bought new toys for the nursery. I would have still lived life as usual - except paid my house off and donated a lot to charity.
10:07pm • #26
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05
2007
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Gary - Thanks Again, Congrats on making your goal.  Maybe I will come visit Lake Tahoe again.  I love it there!

Todd - I am guilty too!

Bob & Carolin - Thanks for your 2 cents.

 

 

9:53am • #27
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Lacey - everything in moderation is the key.  If you don't have dreams, you will not be able to get ahead.  And to live in a dream world is obviously not productive.  I think it's a matter of visualizing yourself in a better place while being productive (timing also helps).

Ines

10:23am • #28
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Cheryl-Anne - I agree, If you really want your "dream come true" then dream of something within your reach.

Tom - Thank you for your strong belief.

Ronald - A vacation sounds wonderful, we could all use one.  Even if you don't win any money, I hope you take some well deserved time for yourself to relax and enjoy life.

Rhonda - Maybe you could raise money for your church in other ways on a smaller scale.  That's very kind of you.

Ines - Yes, I agree that moderation is the key.  Some of the greatest visionaries were huge dreamers.  I  think that it is rare that a person who only dreams gets to the 'better place.'

11:33am • #29

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