Motivational Power Quote

How to Avoid Criticism

"To avoid criticism,

do nothing,

say nothing,

be nothing."

Elbert Hubbard

    

As I see it. . . . . . . .

How to avoid criticism   

The only real way to avoid criticism is to do nothing take no actions and take no risks.  

Never extend yourself to reach for success because it will take you out of your comfort zone.  

When asked to take on a new job or take on a new responsible just tell them it's not your job.

When something goes wrong find someone else to blame it on.   

In reality there is not way to go through life without being criticized.   

What we just read is a list of lame excuses to fail. 

Jealous people will criticize us throughout our success journey.   

When they see we're achieving success they have a negative reaction and will accelerate their criticism to make them feel better about them self.  They are small minded people that would rather spend their time criticizing others then to work at being successful themselves.    

Consider the source of the criticism, reflect on it and take with a grain of salt on move on leaving the criticism and person behind you.  

We will encounter criticism from people that have our best interest at heart. They consider their criticism very carefully before they share it with us.  

They want to see us succeed and the criticism is meant to either get us back on track or to encourage stretching ourselves beyond our present reach and grow.  Their criticism is meant to help us.

Consider this person as a gift someone that will speak up when it's needed, and someone that will encourage at just the right time. They are a valuable resource on our success journey. 

On your success journey when you're pushing yourself and stretching your limits or you're taking on new challenges things will not be perfect and criticism will occur. Consider the source of the criticism and if it's valid act accordingly.  

Focus yourself on the big picture and work your way through the criticism but never allow the criticism derail you or your success journey.      

Remember how to avoid criticism is to do nothing take no actions and to take no risks. Be the person to take action and calculated risks to achieve your goals at the risk of being criticized. 

©2010 Lou Ludwig, Sales and Management Consultant Success Coach, Speaker, Trainer and Author

 

 
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13 Comments on How to Avoid Criticism

OCT
21
2010
368,092 Points 17 Featured Posts Localism Sponsor Outside Blog Hit Router Called Shot Master

Hi Lou, I have had a lot of criticism lately ... I guess it is cause I have been busy!  :)

10:02pm • #1

I love your blog.  I think everyone should be able to accept criticism from time to time....you may learn something!

10:50pm • #2
1,670,271 Points 138 Featured Posts Outside Blog Attended Rain Camp Called Shot Master

My husband has always told me, "If you haven't made mistakes and messed up, you haven't done anything!" 

11:16pm • #3
316,403 Points 5 Featured Posts Called Shot Master

Lou, thanks for the good read!  You can't please everyone...so I just try to do my best and let the chips fall where they may.  :)

11:22pm • #4
592,595 Points 32 Featured Posts Outside Blog Attended Rain Camp Called Shot Master

Lou this is a wonderful post and I am going to suggest it and reblog!  It seems like we are always criticized about something especially if our seller's home does not sell! 

Thank you for a wonderful blog!

11:54pm • #5
OCT
22
2010
133,500 Points 4 Featured Posts Outside Blog Attended Rain Camp

Lou, thanks for sharing

12:11am • #6
214,288 Points 1 Featured Post

This post could not have come at a better time! Some of our local Volunteer Fire Departments are coming under recent attack from people who would rather sit on the sidelines and criticize than jump in to help fix what they perceive to be problems.

Going to bookmark this one to refer back to frequently.

Thanks!!

6:39am • #8
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Good morning Lou,

Somehow I missed this one but saw it when Judi re-blogged. I'm with Michael..it might be your best one ever! A good bookmark for sure.

6:50am • #9
811,292 Points 20 Featured Posts Outside Blog Attended Rain Camp Called Shot Master

The safe spot is to sit in your room and do nothing. Have a great weekend!

7:36am • #10

I always enjoy a redirection to sanity when the criticizm rain falls heavy.  Thanks for the pocket note during trying times.

11:02pm • #12
OCT
28
2010
549,245 Points 3 Featured Posts Outside Blog

Criticism... is neither good, nor bad, it just is... how you choose to act on it makes the difference...

11:08pm • #13


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