If you believe that you can or believe that you can't, YOU ARE CORRECT!

Stay Positive, Things Are Not As Bad As They Say.

This is a time to weed out those that are not committed to excellence, and customer service. The strong, dedicated and honest will survive and prosper.

Warm Regards,

Sunny Isles Beach, FL

Mott... I think it was Richard Bach who said something to the effect that 'if you argue for your limitations, then sure enough - they're YOURS!' It is all about what we believe and how we decide to use it. Glad you agree :)

I believe in the law of attraction. Great post, Jennifer. I'll have to kick you in the butt more often! - Tom Plant (president of the Jennifer Bukaty fan club)

Beautiful Affirmations! Thanks for the bright spot in my day.

Tom... I blame this all on you :) Btw... your call was warming and welcome! I hope you found your golden star - the first of many, I just know. I was saute'ing artichoke sauce, so forgive me. We'll surely talk again soon. 

Check out Tom's shiny gold star here...  http://activerain.com/blogsview/194692/1-With-Extreme-Gratitude

Chrissy... Assuming control always brightens my day :) Thanks for commenting! 

Jennifer,

I just love your attitude.  I look forward to reading more of your blogs.  Keep up the good work.

Thanks Sarah... you're support means the world to me :)

Jennifer, I have always enjoyed your writing.   It is inspiring.  Keep up the good work.

Thanks Mom!!!! :)

Jen...way to go with this.

People speak about "The Market" in hushed tones, like it's some evil dark lord popping out from behind every corner.

I was just contacting Marty Rodriguez today...she set sales records in the last down market and is one of the most successful people in the world.  Her attitude is similar to what you shared:

"Buyers are buying and sellers are selling.  Nothing else matters."

There may not be enough business out there for every real estate professional...but there's enough for me!

That's right Joey, and I intend to be the one they use. We have to acknowledge reality with our sellers, but keeping it positive makes a big difference. We need to sharpen our competitive edge - and I believe that happens in our attitude. Thanks for checking in mister :)

Hi Jennifer,
You go girl!  I am with you, you are what you believe you are and you accomplish what you believe you can accomplish. 

I am sick, sick of the media's negativity.   

Nice post Jennifer. I read the title and figured it was about a new super hero.... I looks like it might be!

Cynthia... I am sick, sick, sick of the negativity in the media too! I heard a new statistic in my area yesterday that said there are now 50 listings to every qualified buyer. Everyone moaned, and I got excited! Wow! That means I have a stack of buyers who will definitely find their perfect home! What is WRONG WITH EVERYONE??? Don't they get it?? 

Thanks for your inspiring comment! 

Joe... I've been secretly harboring my little pink cape for just such an occasion :)) What a kind comment! Glad you read it anyway!

Smiles and smiles all around. Good to hear a positive attitude in the morning.

I'm smiling too Keith... it's one of the benefits I get from spending time on active rain!

I love it! 'Attitude is Everything' and you sista have the right one!!!

Very positive and uplifting blog post indeed.

Thanks Stephanie :))

Jennifer, I was browsing your blog today and while I almost went to the Meme you wrote (A semi-trekkie myself, very amateur though) I was drawn to this one. I love the mindset. It is the mindset we all need to have. While I don't necessarily agree that if it's to be it's up to me (I can't do it on my own, I need help) I do believe in the power to shape my own future.

Stephen... I appreciate why you selected this entry to comment upon. I know where you're coming from and admire the trust you have. Glad to have a fellow trekkie onboard though ... even a cadet!! :)

Now that is spoken like a true Oregonian! I'm with you I have stopped listening to the media because I am just tired of them telling my how bad things are when I am helping more people now than I was even two years ago when it was supposed to be good!

People walk away for the water cooler, it is damaging your business!

Excellent post, Jennifer. The thing to remember is that there are opportunities in any market. It just depends on how you want to look at it.

Beautifully put and so true!

Todd... Takes one to know one!! Our market is hopping right now and I'm busier than I've ever been. Let them whine...

Susan... This is true with anything. It's a matter of perspective and intention, and those things are all up to me :)

Tracy... Nice of you to agree :)

Jennifer - I love the attitude and perspective, if only more shared it...including those Media lugs.   You wrote one sentence that is breathtakingly brilliant my dear, "Doubt and fear have never served me - nor have I served them in return."  Hmmm, that's a nice and healthy way to live;-)

Jennifer -- your favorite lipstick was discontinued?!  I AM SO SORRY. 

Aside from that ... girl, you can WRITE. 

Jason... Believe me, it's a daily challenge to keep the doubt and fear at bay. But I do work at it. Because if I fold, I'm not really living at all, am I? I'm glad to know we see it the same way.

Thanks Sarah, you're very kind to say so :)

Thankfully, the perfect shade of pink is on my lips at this very moment :)

stay positive!! Have you ever read The Secret? it describes your destiny and how what you perceive and dream to become reality!!! It REALLY works!!!

Sandy... I do know about it and it's pretty much what I believe anyway. While I don't follow any external code, you could say I'm a 'Jennist' and I believe in the magic in me :) Thanks so much for your nice comment :)

Jennifer,

OMG....you have spoken what I have been trying to preach to my agents for the past six months (elimate the lipstick :-)). You have refreshed my endeavor!

The media rules this country and unfortunatley too many sheep follow that sheperd. If they say it, people believe it! Good for you in not only seeing through the smoke and mirrors, but for speaking out in this regard.

Thank you!

Excellent positive energy and tomorrow I'm going to buy shoes in celebration!

Ski... Don't kid yourself - lipstick is one of the finest tools in my arsenal;) But rejecting the b.s. in the media works pretty well for me too! Welcome to AR new kid on the block!

Michelle... Ooh! Buy me a pair too!  Size 7 and something a little wicked for the weekend! It's almost the witching hour!!

Very nice post!

Positive thinking inspires action!

And check out Clinique's new fall colors.   

What a refreshing post.  Sarah's right.  Girl, you CAN write.  This is the first of your posts I've ever seen, but now I'm off to see what I've been missing.

Jayne you sweetie.... the Black Honey gloss is back for Fall! I actually have a photo of me from sixth grade wearing that exact shade! And it still rocks my world!

Gee thanks a bunch Debbie! Sarah's a sweetheart! And I am genuinely appreciative:-) I can't wait to read yours and see what I've been missing!

MY GOD YOU'RE SMART!

And you express yourself beautifully.

I had written off most of your generation, so you'll just have to become a part of mine.

Bill Cherry

Bill... I am extremely flattered! I will be yours and you will be mine and together we'll change the world!