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Mystery or Martha? A Story of Giving

By
Home Stager with Sharon Tara Transformations

Who doesn't love a good mystery?  My brother, Steven, is a successful hair stylist in Boston and he recently found himself at the center of a great one. 

He was busy with a client one day when a woman walked into the Salon.  She told the receptionist that she did not have an appointment, she was just waiting for someone.  She sat in the reception area silently observing.  After Steven offered her a drink and some candy, the woman asked the receptionist if that was Steven.  The receptionist said "yes, would you like me to get him for you?"  Her reply was no and she remained seated. 

money in envelope

 

After about five minutes, she got up and asked the receptionist to give Steven a large manilla envelope which had been hidden behind her back and then she left the salon.

When he opened the envelope, Steven found 25 one hundred dollar bills and a white business size envelope.  Inside the white envelope was another envelope and inside that was a third.  The third envelope had another 25 one hundred dollar bills inside. 

$5000  -  No note, no explanation -  $5000

Steven was shocked and surprised.  Who would do this?

 

Later that day Steven realized that it had been just over a year since one of his clients had died.  He wondered if she had sent the money.   It made sense...it probably would be a year before a person's last wishes would be legally carried out. 

Martha had been a client for about four years.  She lived in Rhode Island and traveled to Boston every four weeks for her hair appointment.  Her four daughters were also clients.

 

Here is the story of Martha's last visit to Steven, just over a year ago:

Steven got a call from one of Martha's daughters telling him that her mother had been diagnosed with cancer.  It was in her spine.  She was heavily medicated and may not be able to travel.  Steven told her that he was going to try and clear his schedule so that he could travel to Rhode Island and do Martha's hair at her home.  Within minutes, the daughter called back to say that her mother was grateful, but she would prefer to go to him...she wanted the visit to be as "normal" as possible. 

orchid

 

Martha, and two of her daughters, kept the appointment.  Steven arranged for the daughters to meet with a wig designer, for cancer patients, across the street while he did Martha's hair.

As soon as the girls left the salon Martha asked Steven to come closer.  With tears in her eyes, she told him that she was in extreme pain, and it was becoming more and more difficult to remain strong for her girls.  She was frightened. 

Steven took her hand and reassured her that she did not need to be strong.  She had raised her girls to be very strong.  She had taken care of them their whole lives and now it was their turn to take care of her. 

 

He told her not to deny her daughters this opportunity, and to give them the gift of allowing them to be strong for her.  He then told her a very funny story and tried to make the rest of her appointment as routine as possible.

When the daughters returned and tried to pay their mother's bill, they were told by the receptionist that Steven was not charging for the appointment.

"Mother, you won't believe this...Steven is not charging you for today," Martha was told. 
Martha's response was "Oh yes he is!"  "Where is he?"  As she turned around, she saw him standing there holding a potted orchid.  He told her it should bloom in the next three weeks.  He wanted her to have something nice to look forward to and something beautiful to look at.

Martha died two weeks later.

Steven was convinced that the mysterious money was from Martha.  He knew how much she appreciated her last visit.  He also knew that she didn't like being recognized for good deeds.  She once told him that she was being honored for some charitable contribution and she wished they weren't doing it.  She said she didn't give for the recognition,  she gave because it was the right thing to do.

It would be just like Martha to want to remain anonymous.

To Be Continued...

Comments(39)

Anonymous
Nancy

Steven..........as beautiful inside as he is outside. I miss both of you.

Nov 07, 2010 01:38 AM
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Ellen Caruso
Daniel Gale Sotheby's International Realty - Glen Head, NY

Sharon, what a great story! I'm glad you can honor your brother and keep the memory of Martha out there for us to know.

Nov 07, 2010 01:48 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Nancy:  Miss you too, pretty lady!

Ellen:  Thank you!  Steven is respecting her privacy (no last name or photo) but he wants people to know the story of her gift.  She was a special lady.

Nov 07, 2010 02:06 AM
Sally Weatherley
EXIT STAGE RIGHT - Vancouver, BC
Vancouver Home Staging, Home Stager Vancouver, B.C

Sharon - Hello - where was the "hanky warning", huh?  What a sensitive, caring brother you have.  You must be very proud.  How odd that the person delivering the money never said who she was - I guess she was under instructions to keep the money anonymous.  I guess my next question would be - what did Steven do with the money? 

Nov 07, 2010 02:17 AM
Laura Pearlman Broker Associate
Gold Crown Unlimited, llc - West Palm Beach, FL
Excellence Through Experience and Resourcefulness

As someone else above said, I also had tears in my eyes. What an amazing, thoughtful and inspiring post. Thank you for sharing Martha and Stevens special story.

Nov 07, 2010 03:12 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Sally:  Sorry, I guess there should have been a warning of some kind.  Hope it was a good cry...clearing the sinuses and flushing the eyes!  The whole delivery scenerio is a bit odd...seems a little too over the top.  Why didn't she just hand over the envelope?  I guess we will never have the answer to that one.  Your "what did he do with the money" is a great question...but you will have to wait for part two for the answer! 

Laura:  Goes to show that you too are a sensitive person!

Nov 07, 2010 03:22 AM
Judy Klem
Transition Stage LLC - Shelton, CT
Home Staging, Senior Move Management, Fairfield/New Haven counties

Hi Sharon - Wonderful and compassionate. These kinds of stories make our connection to each other so much stronger, and the message helps us all reach out to each other with kindness.

Nov 07, 2010 03:48 AM
Joshua Zargari
MJ Decorators Workshop LI staging and home decorating - Lynbrook, NY
MJ Decorators Workshop

I was moved by this story Sharon.

Nov 07, 2010 04:56 AM
Sonja Patterson
Keller Williams - BV - College Station, TX
Texas Monthly 5-Star Realtor Recipient for the Hou

Sharon, what a beautiful story. :) Gave me chills reading about the orchid...Now, I'm off to read part II!

Nov 07, 2010 09:04 AM
Joan Valverde
HomeSmart - Colorado Springs, CO
GRI,CDPE,CNE,MRP,SRES Colo Sprgs, Blk Forest, Monu
Sharon, it sure sounds like your brother Steven, is a FULL SERVICE guy, how wonderful for him to take such great care of his clients, turned to good friends. You know he made Marthas day by listening and caring so much for her.
Nov 07, 2010 09:13 AM
Patricia Erickson
Windermere Real Estate - Edmonds, WA
Sales and Marketing Specialist

All that you put into the lives of others comes back into your own.

Nov 07, 2010 09:15 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Judy:  And we can sure use more of that!  Thanks for stopping by!

Joshua:  So glad to hear it.  Thanks.

Sonja:  The orchid is such a nice touch!

Joan:  He is full service, and he takes his clients' comfort very seriously.  Only the best for them!

Patricia:  So true! 

Nov 07, 2010 09:41 AM
Anna Dovger
Add Value Home Staging LLC, 281-704-6607 - The Woodlands, TX
Home Staging -The Woodlands, TX

Sharon, this is an amazing story. Thank you for sharing.

Nov 07, 2010 12:59 PM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Anna:  You are welcome, so glad you are enjoying it!

Nov 08, 2010 01:07 AM
Laura S. Baker
First Weber Inc - Lake Mills, WI
Realtor (920) 728-4118, First Weber Inc

Oh dear, I don't know if I can read part two with tissues in my hand and my eyes, well must be allergies, and nose running!  Your mom and dad sure did something right to have two such incredible children!

Nov 08, 2010 06:43 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Laura:  Those darn allergies!  On behalf of my parents, I thank you!

Nov 08, 2010 08:52 AM
C. Bartch
Newark, OH

Ok Sharon what a story, what a brother...I'm off to read part 2 now. I've been off AR for a bit so I need to catch up!

 

Nov 10, 2010 12:25 PM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Cynthia:  I'm so glad you didn't miss the series.  Glad you stopped by!

Nov 11, 2010 03:22 AM
Pat Haddad, ABR, CRS, ePRO, GRI
Keller Williams Indianapolis Metro NE - Carmel, IN
Carmel, Fishers, Westfield IN Real Estate Expert

Sharon---I am reading this way late to suggest it, but I am suggesting it anyway.  I am sure I will want to suggest parts 2 and 3 as well.  Steven could not have been any kinder.  What an amazing story.  I am off to read the other installations!

Nov 21, 2010 02:12 PM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Pat:  Thank you for the kind words and the suggest.  Steven was very kind to Martha and I wanted the story to be shared to inspire others.

Nov 22, 2010 01:40 AM