In Mar of 1987 I bought a brand new Mercedes 300 E and paid cash for it.  Picked it up on a Friday and had a hole in one at golf on Saturday (but that is another story).  The following Monday I pulled into the parking garage and saw that my boss too had bought a new Porsche (about $85,000 then). 

 

We were drinking coffee and I said" Francis what were you thinking buying a car that expensive with a wife and 2 kids?"  He looked at me and said "It's not expensive, you just can't afford it!"  What a lesson I learned from that message.  And if you stop and think about it, Tiger Woods can buy a $100MM yacht without blinking an eye.

 

In the same vane of not judging a book by its cover, we were working on the 2nd floor mezzanine of our bank in Pearl Ridge.  There were 6 of us.  We were looking down at this guy talking to the branch manager on the platform and she was pointing up at us.  The guy was dressed in a ratty t-shirt, surfer swim suit and flip flops.  Sure enough when he came up in the elevator I drew the short straw. To make a long story short he ended up buying a $2.25 Million Dollar Home putting $1 Million down.  One of the cleanest loans I have ever done.  Moral for today - Don't judge others by your pocket book and don't judge a book by its cover.

 

Good Luck, Good Lending and Aloha

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

17 Comments on Don't Judge others by your pocket book

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Bruce,  wonderful blog.....you're an amazing guy. I'm so glad you're feeling up to blogging and your wit and wisdom is sharper than ever.  Now off I go to ponder your advice....

Jo 

3:58pm • #1
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You are so right.  We so often judge each other as agents by the cars we drive and the clothes we wear, we also judge our potential clients the same way.  Someone may want a $100K home now, but down the road...who knows.   Great post and Great point!!

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Bruce - great post!  I try to live by those words myself because you never know.
4:07pm • #3
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Hi Jo Anne and Nora an dSandy -- Thanks so much for your comments and they are all so true.  Aloha
4:10pm • #4
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Bruce - I have always learned that you never know who is standing next to you.  Also, those who have it don't talk about it.  so treat everyone equally.
4:46pm • #5
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Learned that lesson a long time ago as a stock broker. Thanks for the reminder sir.
5:10pm • #6
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Hi Carolyn and Christopher -- Yes these are old lessons and we just need remember them of an occasion.  Aloha  B
5:47pm • #7
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You know how many times someone walked into our offfice looking like that and I got them in contract? Okay...well a couple of them. Wonder what people think of my casual look....c21 company shirt and slacks and Clarke Sandals!
6:07pm • #8
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Hi Sally - You just never know about people.  Thanks for your comments.  Aloha
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I have had several transactions with strong buyers that you would never expect by first impressions.
8:33pm • #10
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What a great reminder to NOT judge others. Most of us are people watchers, and we make judgements on total strangers based on appearance. Usually this is harmless fun, but when it effects our attitude about others, then it has gone too far.
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This is a great blog Bruce- as always.

It doesn't matter how much money you may have because it can not buy you happiness- it can give the illusion of filling the void but it doesn't buy it!

I wrote a blog a few weeks back "I rather be a realist Realtor"

It has to do with me getting a listing because of being the average Joe rather than walking around like a rich starlit.

10:43pm • #12
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Hi Bruce, it's so nice that you're writing your wonderful posts again.  I love your stories of your past experiences -- they always include a good lesson. 
11:13pm • #13
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Ok, I was...SELLING CARS when I first came to NY- didn't like the NY real estate climate, or the splits, and wanted a new car.  A TOYOTA (my four months there provided 2 new 4-Runners and a 3 year old Lexus at great prices).  Ask me about an engine, and I'll suggest that you talk with a mechanic- I learned NOTHING.  For anyone that has ever wondered what that would be like...don't bother.  Anyway, this...guy...walks in, drenched, in fatigues, long hair.  We saw him walk toward us, fascinating us (we didn't see too many homeless people there) and turn and enter the store.  Of course, Laurie is "UP".  I approached this guy in his 60's with the long hair, and he seemed kind of...cool.  Turns out he bought a loaded four runner that day,paid by check that day, took delivery that day, and was the owner of one of THE most successful restaurants in the Hamptons.
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Hi Laurie -- Thanks for sharing -- I have always thought about selling cars I am glad you shared your experiences.  I had a tough nite last nite and am going to  take it easy today.  Did not get much sleep last night.  Tomorrow will be a better day.  The good news is that the view from my new room is just so relaxing and I have enjoyed it so much.  Thanks again for your commets and thoughts and prayers.  Aloha
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Hello Bruce,
That is a great story and lesson.  I have been told that my great Grandfather when going to buy a new car or truck would dress in old, worn overalls(the only time he wore overalls--LOL) an old shirt and boots and go out of town to a car dealer, park his car a couple of blocks away and walk to the dealership.  From the stories I've heard, the salesmen probably drew straws to see who got to deal with him.  I can imagine their surprise when he bought his brand new, loaded Cadillac with cash.  I've always loved that story.
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Bruce-So true, so true.  One of my CRS Classes was called "Ninja Selling".  The Ninja concept is exactly what you talk about......not judging a book by its cover.  Ninja Agents dont flaunt expensive clothing, wrist watches and cars as a PRIMARY means of impressing someone.  Of course they dress professionally when necessary but that could mean nice slacks form the PX, NEX, Target or Walmart.  The shoes dont have to be Florsheim and they dont need to live in the biggest, grandest house in the neighborhood.  A Ninja Agent is smart enough to realize that things such as expensive cars DEPRECIATE and their money would be much better off invested in real estate.  Sounds like the guy you talked about with the surfer shorts.  Isnt there a book out titled "The Millionaire Next Door" that talks about these kind of people?  Aloha,

David Kucic RA, ABR, AHWD, e-PRO, GRI
First Sergeant, USA (Retired)
Tropic Lightning Real Estate, Oahu, Hawaii

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