In Mar of 1987 I bought a brand new Mercedes 300 E and paid cash for it. Picked it up on a Friday and had a hole in one at golf on Saturday (but that is another story). The following Monday I pulled into the parking garage and saw that my boss too had bought a new Porsche (about $85,000 then).
We were drinking coffee and I said" Francis what were you thinking buying a car that expensive with a wife and 2 kids?" He looked at me and said "It's not expensive, you just can't afford it!" What a lesson I learned from that message. And if you stop and think about it, Tiger Woods can buy a $100MM yacht without blinking an eye.
In the same vane of not judging a book by its cover, we were working on the 2nd floor mezzanine of our bank in Pearl Ridge. There were 6 of us. We were looking down at this guy talking to the branch manager on the platform and she was pointing up at us. The guy was dressed in a ratty t-shirt, surfer swim suit and flip flops. Sure enough when he came up in the elevator I drew the short straw. To make a long story short he ended up buying a $2.25 Million Dollar Home putting $1 Million down. One of the cleanest loans I have ever done. Moral for today - Don't judge others by your pocket book and don't judge a book by its cover.
Good Luck, Good Lending and Aloha
Bruce, wonderful blog.....you're an amazing guy. I'm so glad you're feeling up to blogging and your wit and wisdom is sharper than ever. Now off I go to ponder your advice....
Jo