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No Excuses....Period

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Wilmington Real Estate 4U Wilmington, NC

Excuses....we all make them.  Or do we? 

Everyday we hear an excuse, usually they sound like "sorry I'm late", or "I forgot to call", or maybe "Sorry I really f...d it up this time"  Have you heard that song yet?

Anyway, yesterday one of my web site techies said " I goofed, I did not do it right"  I'll fix it!"

What? No Excuse? He did not blame somebody else, took the blame like a man.  Wow!  How many people do we meet in a day that would do or say something like that?  Would you?  Reminded me of a book I read some 20 plus years ago,  about a parachute jumper, title was "No Excuse"... author?  (this is my excuse for today) He jumped out of the plane and you guessed it... the chute would or did not open! 

 Picture this...You are jumping out of a plane, ground is getting closer, your life is passing by, and you are blaming someone else for not packing the chute correctly, or the string broke, or your bad luck, or WHATEVER....You are going to die. 

Unless, unless you stop making excuses and think what you need to do to fix your problem. There are no excuses when the ground is coming at you fast.  You fix the problem, you and you alone, you fix it!

Yesterday's problem wasn't as serious as losing your life, but he owned up, he did not make an excuse.  It made my day!  Thanks! 

Dick Beals

Dan Edward Phillips
Dan Edward Phillips, Humboldt and Del Norte Counties, CA - Eureka, CA
Humboldt and Del Norte Counties, CA

Good Morning Dick and Sandy, thank you for sharing your input.

Nov 23, 2010 01:52 AM
Jessica Leimback
Agave Homes & Investments - Mesa, AZ
Broker,SFR,CNE,CSSPE

When I was in the military they were big on no excuses. They did not like for us to pass the blame. That way nobody would miss anything because we would all worry about making sure our job was complete.

Nov 23, 2010 01:52 AM
David Beckham
Realty Executives Bayou Properties - Alexandria, LA
Your Louisiana Real Estate Connection

That was a great post Dick. If more of us quit making excuses I think it would help all of us. I must be honest.... in the past I did make excuses as a new agent sometimes. Today as a more experienced Realtor I never make excuses and face any problems or mistakes head on.

Nov 23, 2010 01:58 AM
June Tassillo
Owner/Broker RE/MAX Elite Realty - Franklin, NC
Let me help you with the next phase of your life!

Dick ~ This is one of my pet peeves.  The sorriest excuse I have heard come out of a women's mouth was: "I can't make it to the meeting my Goat is sick"  WHAT???  I do not like excuses, I do like action to find a solution!

Nov 23, 2010 03:36 AM
Dick & Sandy Beals
Wilmington Real Estate 4U Wilmington, NC - Wilmington, NC

Dan, thanks

Jessica, the military does do a great job!

David, thanks it is so much easier isn't it

June, a sick goat is a new one on me too.

Dick Beals

Nov 23, 2010 08:44 PM
Larry Bettag
Cherry Creek Mortgage Illinois Residential Mortgage License LMB #0005759 Cherry Creek Mortgage NMLS #: 3001 - Saint Charles, IL
Vice-President of National Production

Great post!  If you're going to play....pack your chute to open!  Otherwise the results can be devastating!

Nov 29, 2010 03:17 AM