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A Gift Of Gratitude? Only YOU Can Decide!

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Real Estate Agent with Liberty Homes RS-#62825

We all have our trials and tribulations in life and there is no other holiday so profound for remembering what we are grateful for than Thanksgiving. Of course our holidays are commercialized in hopes of businesses making more money although it's up to you and me to think about the meaning behind the 'day'.

The other evening my husband was doing his usual 'grabbing the tv remote and surfing' the channels like there was no tomorrow. He happened across the PBS channel and for a moment stopped to 'check it out' because it was the same gentleman who gave his 'opinion and input' on our local politicians.

Right at that moment the gentleman stated, "The Thanksgiving holiday is approaching but there are many people who have nothing to be thankful for". (not the same exact words but you get the jest) He started to go on about the economy but my husband pushed the button to go to the next channel.   I looked at him and he said, "Messed up". 

 Yup, we were on the same page.

After many years exploring the possibility of 'change' I managed to hop on that train and turn my life around so that the love came from within. I am thankful for having the ability to take that risk and try MANY things other than the things that kept giving me the same results that weren't working.

This opened many doors to get to where I am today because I learned well...that I had to love myself before I could love another and I had to be confident in myself before I could be successful. Everything else followed.

False pride serves no purpose and true meaning of being thankful comes from within.

Then...and only then....do I feel grateful for everything else around me.

No matter how little or small, take that bit of gratitude

....... and spread it around.

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Celeste "Sally" Cheeseman  is a Realtor-Associate® and Certified Residential Specialist (CRS) with Century 21 Liberty Homes in Mililani, Hawaii. With a sharp understanding that a listening ear is the key to a client's needs  she serves the island of Oahu (Honolulu County) and all Hawaii Military Relocations, Hawaii Retirees, Hawaii Job Transfers and Hawaii Residents, Home Buyers and Sellers.

 

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Comments (16)

Larry Story ALC
Total Care Realty - Greensboro, NC
Beneath it all is the Land, Covering all of NC

Sally,

Very insightful and profound.  Happiness is always from within

Nov 23, 2010 05:44 AM
Vickie McCartney
Maverick Realty - Owensboro, KY
Broker, Real Estate Agent Owensboro KY

Hi Sally~ Being thankful and happiness only come from within! People, places or things do not give you happiness!  No matter how bad it gets there is always something for which to be thankful!  Heck, just having good health and being alive is something to be thankful for! 

Nov 23, 2010 12:13 PM
Richard Weisser
Richard Weisser Realty - Newnan, GA
Richard Weisser Retired Real Estate Professional

Sally...

Thanksgiving is a time for introspection. Our blessings, no matter how small, merit gratitude.

Nov 23, 2010 12:32 PM
Barbara-Jo Roberts Berberi, MA, PSA, TRC - Greater Clearwater Florida Residential Real Estate Professional
Charles Rutenberg Realty - Clearwater, FL
Palm Harbor, Dunedin, Clearwater, Safety Harbor

Sally - while the economy may not be doing as well as we would like, we have so much to be thankful for and I really don't understand how people can forget that. Just living in this country, being born in a country where we are free to express ourselves, to travel freely - there are indeed so many things to be thankful for. Our lives are what we make it and our attitude forms every experience, every action. Great post! And have a wonderful Thanksgiving!

Nov 23, 2010 12:32 PM
Dagny Eason
Dagny's Real Estate - Wilton, CT
Fairfield County CT, CDPE Homes For Sale and Condo

Sally - What a great post!   I am on that same page!   There is so very much all around to be thankful for, and most of the time we are blind to it all.....  Happy Happy Thanksgiving!

Nov 23, 2010 02:47 PM
Greg Nino
RE/MAX Compass - Houston, TX
Houston, Texas

Hey Sally,

I wanted to wish you and your family a HAPPY THANKSGIVING!

I am trying more and more to be thankful every single day of my life! Makes things a little easier. :-)

Nov 23, 2010 03:36 PM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE

Hey Greg...took me awhile to get back here....it's going so slow :(   You have a Happy Thanksgiving too....and well wishes to you and your family during the holiday season!

Nov 23, 2010 03:48 PM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE

Thanks Larry....profound indeed :)

Vickie: If not for just waking up this morning.....I am thankful :)

Well said Richard!

 

Nov 23, 2010 03:50 PM
Jeff Belonger
Social Media - Infinity Home Mortgage Company, Inc - Cherry Hill, NJ
The FHA Expert - FHA Loans - FHA mortgages - USDA loans - VA Loans

Sally.... ah, that wordf risk... ;o)  But I know where you are coming from... and yes, very insightful post.. thanks for sharing and you have an aswesome Turkey day...

jeff belonger

Nov 23, 2010 03:52 PM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE

Barbara: Yes indeed....no matter how small....I am grateful. I lived in Turkey for two years where poverty is every day living. I learned to live the simple life...just from that experience.

Dagny.....and a happy turkey day to you too!

 

Nov 23, 2010 03:53 PM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE

Hey Jeff...you have a wonderful day too....  Stepping out of that comfort zone...

Nov 23, 2010 03:53 PM
Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Sally, I know there are many that will struggle to be grateful this Thanksgiving, but I am not one of them.I have so many things to be grateful for, big and small. I may not have much money, but I am rich. I have 2 wonderful daughters, 2 fantastic grandsons and one more on the way, my husband is my best friend, I am grateful for the fact I am doing pretty well in business, and am presenting an offer today...I am grateful for the dear friends I have, here and in rl... :D

Happy Thanksgiving!

Nov 23, 2010 10:00 PM
Greg Miller
Ruoff Home Mortgage - Sarasota, FL
Florida Home Loans - Conventional,FHA,USDA,VA

Great reminder about false pride and that true thankfulness come from within. Have a great holiday & God Bless.

Nov 23, 2010 10:01 PM
Norma J. Elkins
Elite Realty Group - Morristown, TN
Realtor - Elkins Home Selling Team

Very good post - thanks for sharing --- sometimes we just have to open our eyes and then we can surely see all that we have to be thankful for - Happy Thanksgiving!

Nov 23, 2010 10:56 PM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE

A very warm Happy Thanksgiving to all!

Nov 24, 2010 05:17 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Celeste, We all have a choice. We can focus on what’s not working and create more of the same or we can focus on making changes to create what we want. Congratulations on making the changes to create a love-filled-gratitude-filled life. Happy Thanksgiving!

Nov 25, 2010 04:48 AM