If You Don't Ask Questions, You Won't Sell

Last week, I went on a quest to find a clarinet for my daughter, a beginning band student. Because I am a REALTOR®, I know that renting is basically throwing your money away for little benefit. Sure, I don't have to fork over $250+ up front - but over the course of the school year, I'll have spent nearly that much in rental fees, giving the clarinet-lord money, and I will have what to show for it?

If my daughter decides to switch instruments or quit band, I'll have nothing but a bunch of canceled checks, instead of a nearly new instrument to resell and recoup some of my investment (unlike real estate, especially Wallenpaupack lakefront property, where you are likely to make a profit on your resale.)

Mr. Rice told me to forget the music store I had in mind---I would only find guitars, some drums, and guitar strings there. NothingGuitars else. Bullheaded Irish-Swedish gal that I am, I said I'd give it a try anyway. There might be something used or on consignment.

He shrugs, and says "All right, it's your time..." I probably should have listened to him, as he's a musician (guitarist to be exact) and knows the music stores like the back of his hand. But I'm an Irish-Swede, I'm a woman, and I was on a mission. Get out of my way!

At the shop, I found exactly what my husband told me I would find: guitars. Lots of guitars. A few drums. And lots of guitar strings. I was soon greeted by the salesperson.

nope"Hi," I said. "Do you sell anything beside guitars?"

"Nope," he said firmly, without hesitation. Noting my disappointment, he added: "Well, a few drums, some bass, but that's about it."

"Rats," I said. I could have left the store then, grumbling that Mr. Rice was correct. A lot of people would have said "Oh, thanks, then..." and left. But I am actually compelled by an irresistible impulse to tell everyone what my point is. I feel as if they actually care what I'm doing or what I'm looking for.

"I was hoping you had some band instruments..."

He shrugged and said "Well, I do have a couple of clarinets."

I raised my eyebrows--I thought he didn't sell anything but guitars? And a few drums? And some bass? That's it?

He continued: "Also, I have a sax, and a couple of flutes, too."

I also spied some keyboards that he forgot to mention as well (unless the keyboards weren't for sale.) He got out the two clarinets, told me a little about them, and I thanked him for his time. I had to talk to my husband, blah blah blah.

Leaving the store, I thought: there has to be a real estate lesson in here somewhere.

Ask the right questions or lose customers.

The music shop salesperson really dropped the ball. When I asked about the guitars, he should have responded with "What are you looking for?" or "Yes, we mostly have guitars, but we have some other instruments as well. What is it you need?"

As a buyer's agent, you need to know specifically what customers are looking for. Do not worry about beingask nosy or or appearing clueless by asking your customers a lot of questions - you need to know what customers need in a property to avoid wasting your time and theirs by showing homes that will not work.

Sometimes, customers ask me if there are any Lake Wallenpaupack lakefront properties for sale within a price range of $250,000. I could simply say "Nope," and leave it at that.

The customer walks away dissatisfied, and I miss out on a potential sale. By asking the right questions, we may learn that Jane Buyer is actually looking for any lakefront, anywhere - she just asked about Lake Wallenpaupack because it seemed obvious. Maybe she would be just as happy to have a lakefront home on Paupackan Lake or Lake Westcolang. Or maybe, Jane doesn't really need a lakefront. Maybe Jane will be spending all of her time on the boat, and she really needs, simply, a home with a boat slip. Why let her think she needs to spend $500,000 on a lakefront when a 2nd or 3rd tier home with a boatslip will give her what she needs, at half the price?

There are many questions you could (and should) ask buyers, beyond spitting out a price quote and giving a simple "Yes" or "No" to their initial questions. When you hear other people gushing about how their real estate agent found them "just the right property", do you think he or she was psychic? Of course not--a savvy real estate agent will not only listen to what their buyers have to say, but know what questions to ask along the way.

Don't  be like the music shop salesperson - care what your customer's point is - discover how you can best help  find the home he or she wants to buy.

You won't know unless you ask.

 

 

Maybe you're a buyer looking for the right property in the Lake Wallenpaupack area - or perhaps you would like to sell your home and have questions about its value. Feel free to send an email - I promise to do my best to help you with your real estate needs.

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49 Comments on Don't Ask, Don't Sell...

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09
2007
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Karen - An excellent analogy - love how you put it all together. It is so true - I was thinking about this today. I have started a new  MLS system with PPC and it is always a struggle for me to just get on the phone and call people. Mostly, it is the time it takes and forcing myself to maintain my schedule. What I have found is, people don't really mind..... Many want to remain anonymous, most want an expert who can help them figure out exactly what they need and where. All we have to do is ask the questions. We just have to ask!
9:41pm • #2
excellent post! thank you for the information. All the best!
9:44pm • #3
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Excellent analogy and application.  Asking the right questions is an art that is highly underrated.  Your point about the lake access versus lake front is well taken.  Too many times we assume that we understand what the buyers are saying.  Without the right questions opportunities are missed. 
10:23pm • #4
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2007
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Karen, great analogy for us to adhere to. There seems to always be lessons for us. Asking the right questions and not saying, " I'm sorry but there are no 200K homes with 4 bedrooms and 2 baths in Ann Arbor", stops the conversation cold.
3:54am • #5
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So... I would think that you got a great deal on a clarinet, Karen.  You forgot to tell us the rest of the story!  I'll bet that if you did, you'd have been willing to pay more than they asked.
4:03am • #6
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Hey!  I used to play the clarinet.  (braces alert)  Then I switched to the flute.  LOL

I currently have a silver clarinet, trombone and an antique piano.  Don't play a single one of 'em but they look cool as heck!

 

6:16am • #7
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Paula - thanks for the comments!  Yes, sometimes it's a struggle to ask questions.  I don't want to be nosy!  LOL  I'm the type of person who will tell you everything I'm ready to reveal - and someone plaguing me with a lot of questions annoys me. But most people are not like me.

Bob & Carolin:  Thanks for stopping by and commenting!

Hank - glad you found it helpful. 

6:44am • #8
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Lea - thanks.  And actually a lot of buyers think they want a lakefront, when they don't understand that a 3rd tier home will give them the lake access they need for half the price.

Missy - as always, thanks so much for stopping by!  I appreciate your comments~!  We don't want to stop the conversations, although some clients will interrupt me and say "I just want the price? What is it?!"   

 

6:47am • #9
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Debbie - actually, no, I'm not one who will pay more than I absolutely have to for something.  I actually was nearly choking over the price of $250 for the used clarinets!  LOL!  I asked one of my online buddies who is a clarinetist and she told me to stay away from that particular brand - they're junk!

I visited three more music stores in Scranton (our so-called "big city".)  One truly doesn't carry clarinets at all, and the other two were closed at 6pm on a Saturday night.  What the heck?  So, I'm purchasing a new Selmer online (from a site recommended by my friend) for the same price as the used one.  There are a lot of lessons to be learned here.  Music stores should be open later on weekends.  I would certainly have purchased locally if I could have, but I was sick of the running around trying to find someone to sell me a clarinet! 

6:52am • #10
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Chris - I had a guitar like that!  LOL!  I finally sold it to get the kids a swingset. :-/

 

 

6:54am • #11
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Very good analogy Karen. Customer service is all about the customers needs. Let's hope we don't drop the ball and forget why we are in sales.
7:42am • #12
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It is very important to meet customers in person and establish a relationship.  Often as they relax with you, they will be able to explain their needs in more detail.  I find that these meeting almost always lead to a signed buyer agency agreement.
9:58am • #13
Great analogy Karen!  You have to ask the right questions and give the most information about what services you offer.  Often, there's a marketing lesson in every move we make!  :)
10:03am • #14
Hee hee!  This reminds me of a past colleague who had been in the military.  Whenever you asked him a question like, "Do you know how to fix this report?", he would answer "yes", and continue working!  I learned quickly to ask him open-ended questions, though of course that doesn't always work with everyone as we saw in your story.
10:05am • #15
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We they don't have the initiative to carry on the conversation, sometimes you need to dig a bit deeper.  Aggressive banter is not the answer just a slow conversation drawing out what you need to know.  Kind of like the sport of fencing - dart in and back off.

I like the diligence part in your slogan. 

10:20am • #16
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I was taughyt early on that you need to ask questions "three deep."  If you don't then you don't ahve the real answers.  "The house needs four bedrooms." 

"Four bedrooms?  Tell me about your family.  How many children will be moving with you?"

"Do you need four bedrooms and an additional bonus room?"

"Would a three bedroom with a bonus room acheive the same goal?"

 Like you said, don't end the conversation with, "You will never get four bedrooms in that price range!"

 

10:28am • #17
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Love the analagy.  Thanks for reminding us not to get too lazy!
10:28am • #18
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You are right on!  Asking questions gets you information and information is power.
10:33am • #19

Sounds like the salesperson is an "artist type" (which is fine)  than a salesperson....   

I was lucky with purchasing a clarinet a few years ago - I left the office in Upper Bucks for the long drive to Lower Bucks to the rental company.   Passed a series of signs, each with a little musical snipet on it, and realised "duh" a music store.  Ok, unlike you, I wasn't really in the puchase mode but didn't feel like driving and felt it was worth checking out.   He had a used Yamaha in excellent condition - and it was priced the same as the rental for the school year!  No brainer.

This summer I spent three days looking for an alto sax.  I was spoiled getting such a good deal with the clarinet.  We ended up renting.  Once I know if she will really be able to play it in school, I need to go back into "buy" mode. 

10:37am • #20
Great Post.... I  know that you have to ask the right questions after 30 showing. I guess that I've learned the hard way....What a lesson... Thanks for the tip
Donna
11:39am • #21
Band nerd here!  Great post....I sold my clairnet for beer money in college...my parents were so proud!
11:40am • #22
Great Post.... I  know that you have to ask the right questions after 30 showing. I guess that I've learned the hard way....What a lesson... Thanks for the tip
Donna
11:40am • #23
Great Post.... I  know that you have to ask the right questions after 30 showing. I guess that I've learned the hard way....What a lesson... Thanks for the tip
Donna
11:40am • #24

Good post.  A great reminder that we need to spend time with our buyers before actually "buying"  Thanks.

Kathy

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I swear that flag works. Every post I flag gets a star!
11:45am • #26
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Karen, Excellent analogy, and a warm story to boot!
11:49am • #27
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Good point, we really need to question our buyers to get as much info from them as possible and also look for things they might not be telling us by their actions
12:05pm • #28
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I agree...I am one to get as many questions in on the first initial contact as well as give them info and start them with the process of speaking with an LO to get the price range in. Great post in explaining the pertinent things to grab a potential and turning them into a client.

12:15pm • #29
Very simple concept that is often overlooked.  We can all learn from this as it relates to life and real estate.
2:39pm • #30
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I think that subconsciously you just wanted to prove Mr. Rice wrong! lol a woman after my own heart.  You know how the saying goes....I may not always be right, but I am never wrong. 

Thanks for sharing, indeed an eye opener! ASK, ASK, ASK!

2:39pm • #31
Karen, great post.  Narowing down a clients needs not only will better ensure that they will do business with you, but it will save you time in the long run.  For example, if you there actually was any water front property around Lake Wallenpaupak for $250,000 when Jane Buyer asked that still may not give her what she wants.  Maybe there are 20 homes with that simple description, do you plan on showing her all 20?  Of course not.  Even after you determine you can meet her basic needs, you should continue to probe in order to narrow down the selection to a few homes.  You'll save yourself time, and you'll appear to be very good at finding homes that are exactly what your clients are looking for.
3:32pm • #32
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Karen...

I love the way you related this to real estate. Excellent post :)

By the way I have seen all the "Subscribe To Me" Buttons.

I am thrilled that you found a much more effective use of buttons in a post.

Those are awesome and I bet you get hits from them :)

TLW...ROAR!

4:40pm • #33
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That's great advice, I like to answer a question with questions back.  Granted don't over use this.  If for instance the when you asked "Do you sell anything besides guitars" had he answered "What is it that you are looking for" you conversation would have been much more productive.

5:57pm • #34
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Great way to connect real life to real estate!! 

By the way, I have two clarinets that I might part with. One is a plastic, starter one I used for 6th-8th grade, and the other is my "real", wood one that I was forced to buy if I wanted to be in the higher bands... Band is competetive in my neck of the woods and the instructors are serious about the kids having the best.

6:18pm • #35
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Karen - Congrats on the featured! If I get a request for something we don't have (the house for $125K in La Cueva) I never say we will never find that. I just give them other options. This is so important to remember. Don't shut the door with a NO.
6:24pm • #36
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fantastic post.  I like the way you find a real estate lesson with life's lessons!
6:58pm • #37
That was a great example of a lesson many agents need to remember. So many agents are complaining about the poor leads they have but in reality they just didn't ask the right questions and follow-up.
8:43pm • #38
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2007
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Karen- Congratulations on your feature. Great post. I love how you related your story about the music store salesman to real estate. It is all about relationships and asking questions means you are listening, it also shows you are concerned for another person. I always, say focus the converstation on them, not on yourself. Katerina
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WOW, I can not believe all of the comments! Thank you so much for helping get my post featured, and thank you all for reading and sharing your thoughts.

Michael Delp- yes, it is all about the customer, and finding out what they're coming to you for! 

Joan - I agree; you need to build some kind of relationship with your buyers.  I have heard other agents say "I'm not out to be their friend, I'm out to conduct business with them" or something like that - well that may work in commercial sales, but not in residential, usually.  You need to have a rapport with your buyers, esp. when they have 500 other agents to choose from! 

Richard - I try to find a life lesson in everything that happens!  Then I won't feel like the day is wasted!  LOL 

7:07am • #40
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Karen Very good.  Of course I am partial to analogies! 
7:24am • #41
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Guys, I'd love to respond to everyone now but DUTY CALLS - I'll be back later today to personally thank each and every one of you for reading!  Happy REAL ESTATING!

 

7:32am • #42
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That is the difference between a salesperson and a sales professional! Great Post.

3:47am • #43

Hi Karen,

Great analogy for us to consider in our own business. Of all the information I've have come across, it seems most real estate trainers teach this very thing - ask the right questions.

Thanks for sharing this story.

Aloha from Hawaii!

June Mellor
www.realestateofoahu.com

4:23am • #44
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Many of us do not listen enough and the before you listen effectively, you ask the right questions. Good post.
6:49am • #45

Excellent!  You may have missed your true calling!

Jonathan Dever, Esq.

www.realestatelegalwizard.com

9:35am • #46
I think in our rush to get things done we forget to ask questions and then we wind up going around in circles.
9:41am • #47
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Hello Karen,
Very good post with a good lesson.  Just asking questions and getting the dialogue started can lead to a relationship with a client.  I like the way you think.  Thanks.
7:40pm • #48
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2007
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Karen- Great way of telling a story that has direct impact to all of our incomes! You're lucky you only have to purchase a clarinet... My son needs a new "better" bassoon.... I should be able to pick up one used for 8k.....I sure hope it gets him into college! =)

 

Best,

Scott 

2:14pm • #49

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