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Let Your Light So Shine (Revisited)

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Home Inspector with Jay Markanich Real Estate Inspections, LLC 3380-000723

I posted this a couple of Christmas holidays ago.  Since there is a different readership of my posts now, I thought you might enjoy this post again.  Enjoy!

LET YOUR LIGHT SO SHINE

This is my favorite time of year! It is the season of light. The Reason for the Season was announced with a new light in the sky. This Reason is the Light of the world, a lamp unto our feet, and actually confounds darkness, which cannot stand in its presence.

I think we should all let our lights shine.

Such an opportunity was presented to me just this weekend. I was driving in town, minding my own business, in the left lane of two. A young lady pulled up beside me on the right, and as we drove together I saw she was saying things to me through the glass, which I could not hear. At the same time she reached completely across her body and with a single finger of her right hand told me in no uncertain terms that I am number one!

I could only wonder what I did to deserve this great compliment! Going too fast? No, it is a 25 mph zone and I was not going fast. Was she upset at my SUV? No, it is a hybrid, so it couldn't be that. I had no idea what I had done to deserve this emphatic number one!

But I thought, I AM number one!

We pulled to a red light together. As I glanced over she was complimenting me with even more emphasis. Our windows were closed so she was yelling, but I could not hear what she was saying. And her gesturing now included an up and down motion with her hand! Wow, what a compliment this had become!

I thought, "Gee, in this season of goodwill and peace I should return the favor." So I did.

On the seat to my right lay an important tool. I call it Enlightener. It is a special flashlight, 1,000,000 candles in brightness, which can light up an attic space like no body's business! It is so bright there is a little sticker on the front that could not have been written by a lawyer. It reads simply, "Do not look directly into the light."

Well, I can tell you that this is true. I have a couple of times by accident, and they are right, you shouldn't look into it. The spots go away after a couple of minutes, but it is one bright light!

Without looking, but out of the side of my eye, I could see that my new friend was still gesturing to me her very persistent message. I picked up Enlightener, pointed it in her direction, and turned it on.

As I did, out loud I said, "Let your light so shine, Baby Doll!"

Well, the cabin of my SUV lit up like it was suddenly filled with concourses of angels! My surrounds filled with light!! I glanced over and my new friend's gestures had been replaced with an odd assortment of squints and blinks.

I felt warm inside. I had let my own light shine!

As the light turned green, and I pulled away, there was even more satisfaction upon hearing a series of blaring horns to my rear as, apparently, my new friend was wisely waiting for the spots to disappear.

Were they letting their lights shine too?

Well, it seems there was not much seasonal goodwill and peace behind her!

And I thought, I AM number one! And don't you forget it ... Baby Doll!

This is my favorite time of year! Let YOUR light so shine too!

And Merry Christmas to all...!

 

 

Posted by

Jay Markanich Real Estate Inspections, LLC  

Based in Bristow, serving all of Northern Virginia.

Office (703) 330-6388   Cell (703) 585-7560

www.jaymarinspect.com


Comments(17)

Nor Yeretsian
Envoy Capitol Realty Inc. - Toronto, ON
Envoy Capitol Realty Inc., Brokerage Toronto

Jay, thanks for this post and the inspiration.

Cheers

Nor Yeretsian

Dec 10, 2010 10:30 PM
Richard Iarossi
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - Crofton, MD
Crofton MD Real Estate, Annapolis MD Real Estate

Jay,

The spirit of the season strikes us in so many different ways. You are #1 in our book...even without the special wave.

Rich

Dec 10, 2010 10:46 PM
Jay Markanich
Jay Markanich Real Estate Inspections, LLC - Bristow, VA
Home Inspector - servicing all Northern Virginia

Thanks Nor, but this was meant to tend toward the comic.

This post was intended toward the inspirational: 

http://activerain.com/blogsview/2005096/38-degrees-45-53-5-n-by-77-degrees-33-43-0-w

Richard - well, I appreciate that very much!  But in this girl's book number one was conveyed a bit differently...

Dec 10, 2010 11:07 PM
Phil Leng
Retired - Kirkland, WA
Phil Leng - Retired

Hi Jay,

I was dissappointed by the story and your response.

Revenge and road rage aren't very inspirational.

A different ending? You roll down the window at the light, actually have a civil conversation, and apologize to her if there was cause for her anxiety...

Perfect response? She is surprised at your humility and you leave the stop light with friendly waves.

Phil

Dec 10, 2010 11:07 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Always good to read about your experience on the road. Thanks for sharing.

 Happy Holidays!

Critter ornament at the Brandywine River Museum

Dec 10, 2010 11:14 PM
Jay Markanich
Jay Markanich Real Estate Inspections, LLC - Bristow, VA
Home Inspector - servicing all Northern Virginia

Unfortunately, Phil, this is an area where that kind of "road rage," as you call it, is common, especially by young ladies!  Roll down the window and have a civil conversation?  She followed me down the road over a mile!  I thought my response was calm and polite!  And I am not perfect, but I am number one...

Thanks for stopping by Roy.  Have a Merry Christmas.

Dec 10, 2010 11:18 PM
Kenneth Cole
Weichert Realtors Appleseed Group, 2043 Richmond Ave. S.I.N.Y. 10314. office phone 718-698-9797, Appleseedhomes.com... - Staten Island, NY
NYS Licensed Real Estate Salesperson

Good morning Jay;  I guess I'm not the only one that had an unpleasant experience this week.  I wrote about it im my post, if you are to visit.

I've learned not to look at those kind of drivers, but to just say a little prayer for them.  It works.

Dec 10, 2010 11:33 PM
Kathryn Maguire
GreatNorfolkHomes.com (757) 560-0881 - Chesapeake, VA
Serving Chesapeake, Norfolk, VA Beach

That is funny that you should post this. I was walking with my ten year old son to his next holiday performance (he performs with a local community theater group) and there was a woman in the parking lot screaming words that I did not want him to hear.  All I could think was "Nice attitude, lady."

Dec 11, 2010 12:19 AM
Jay Markanich
Jay Markanich Real Estate Inspections, LLC - Bristow, VA
Home Inspector - servicing all Northern Virginia

Ken - it's too bad this seems to happen so much during the holidays!

Kathryn - we experience that too, even in the grocery store and in line at the movie theater!  It's too much!

Dec 11, 2010 12:39 AM
Lydie Ouellet Dickinson
Realty Executives Tri County, Bellingham MA - Bellingham, MA
Realtor

Jay, your attitude should be duplicate! This time of year, it is so easy to get frazzled with our environment. I shall take the "Jay" attitude today, when I head to the mall! I am also #1! Great blog!

Dec 11, 2010 01:42 AM
Charles Buell
Charles Buell Inspections Inc. - Seattle, WA
Seattle Home Inspector

Jay, she couldn't leave the intersection until she finished singing: "You Light Up My Life...."

Dec 11, 2010 02:08 AM
Steven L. Smith
King of the House Home Inspection, Inc. - Bellingham, WA
Bellingham WA Home Inspector

Jay,

Didf you have any clue whatsoever as to what she was mad about. Did she think you cut her off or something? Events similar to this have happened to me, never to that degree, but at least I could figure out what slight the person thought I had forced upon them,

Dec 11, 2010 02:39 AM
Jay Markanich
Jay Markanich Real Estate Inspections, LLC - Bristow, VA
Home Inspector - servicing all Northern Virginia

Lydie - I thought it a pretty quiet response.  You should have seen her face and mannerisms!  Very volatile!

Charlie - I did, at least until the welder's spots went away!

Steve - Never did!  And we were on a divided highway going through town, never more than 25 mph.  I had not changed lanes and was not going too slow.  Don't know!  Maybe she knew I was a Redskin fan...

Dec 11, 2010 03:51 AM
Charles Buell
Charles Buell Inspections Inc. - Seattle, WA
Seattle Home Inspector

Jay, people that drive 25 in a 25 piss off everyone :)

Dec 11, 2010 11:32 AM
Jay Markanich
Jay Markanich Real Estate Inspections, LLC - Bristow, VA
Home Inspector - servicing all Northern Virginia

But, Charlie, on that road there are some of the county's finest waiting for a fly to get caught in the net!

Dec 11, 2010 01:05 PM
Randy Ostrander
Lake and Lodge Realty LLC - Big Rapids, MI
Real Estate Broker, Serving Big Rapids and West Central MI

Great story and love the way you told it. Shine on my friend.

Dec 12, 2010 03:19 AM
Jay Markanich
Jay Markanich Real Estate Inspections, LLC - Bristow, VA
Home Inspector - servicing all Northern Virginia

Randy - it can be a tough time of year for some people!  Apparently on this young lady...

Dec 12, 2010 08:01 AM