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It was when I still worked as a limo driver in New York. Bill Clinton’s 50s birthday there in August of 1996 was an event in Radio City Music Hall, and then there was a fundraiser in Waldorf Astoria, and for the entourage there was a party in Planet Hollywood at 140 57 St.

I got a job and picked the passenger and drove him from Radio City a few blocks to Planet Hollywood, where I was told to stay and wait. Waiting is always a good job, and I stood to make decent money.

Well, you can’t stay on 57. I know that, the Police know that, but the guys at the door told me to stay. 10 minutes later I got a Police officer telling  me to leave. Guys walked to the Police cruiser and told him to leave me alone. They were National Security, and the Police left. As every other Police officer who showed up there and attempted to ticket me.

$20 - jon zolsky blogI was told to sit in the car and be ready whenever needed. A homeless man in his early 30s was passing by and at that moment a limo stopped at the door. The guy opened the passenger door, and let people out and got a tip. The cars were coming one after another, and he kept opening doors and the money was coming. Good money.

And then he put the money into a Styrofoam cup and walked straight to me and showed me a $20 note.

- Look what I got. They are idiots

I told him to keep doing it, but he said “No, I am done for the evening”. The cars kept coming and coming, and should he stay, he would make a fortune. Especially if he waited till they start leaving and then repeat the whole money rain again.

But he made his money, and he left. He was homeless, who passed on a chance to make enough money even maybe to rent an apartment, and maybe do something with his life… but he just giggled holding a $20 bill…

If I were in his shoes, I would have stayed there opening the doors until there were no more doors to open.

I will always remember that night in Manhattan. It was a great lesson. They were not idiots, they lived good life. $20-note was not the ceiling for them. I often see people with these Styrofoam cups with a $20 bill walking around. It is not that they can’t make more, or better advance in life. It is that they set their ceiling so low, and every time they make their $20, or $200, or $2,000 or whatever, they turn around and walk away. They shut themselves out of the wonderful opportunities.

So often when people bitch about life, I look closer … and closer…and I see the Styrofoam cup with a $20 note.

Comments (35)

Melissa Zavala
Broadpoint Properties - Escondido, CA
Broker, Escondido Real Estate, San Diego County

That is a great story and definitely demonstrates the differences between and among people.

Dec 23, 2010 06:12 AM
Faye Y. Taylor
StepStone Realty, LLC - Floresville, TX
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Jon,

Bill made a valid point.  This was very insightful.  Not all people are insightful.  We set our own limits and many times that is because we are what I would call "lazy" or "short sighted".   The homeless guy met his immediate need and looked no further.  But I would also consider him lazy because he stopped and did meet his future needs.

While it is great to be content in your circumstances and we all need to be, that does not mean we stop striving to do better.

I read what you said for yourself to be "You strive for your best in all things."   You see the potential and go for the potential.  You don't see the immediate but the long term benefit in all you do.

Keep slugging.  I am there with you.

Dec 23, 2010 06:40 AM
Jack Mossman - The Nines Team at Keller Williams in Lodi
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Jon - I apprecaited your story and in general agree with the premise you put forth.  However, it was just earlier today that a colleague and I were talking about "making a living" in the last century.  Today it seems that folks want to work for themselves to be "Bill Gates."  In times past - people worked for themselves to provide for their families, prepare for their later years and be comfortable with life.  Being rich wasn't part of the equation ...

Dec 23, 2010 11:32 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
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Tni - I know. I watch my cat how he eats. He comes, eats a little and walks away. Well, here we provide for the  cat, but in nature they do the same. They can't thnk about the future. Full now, hungry tomorrow. Some people the same way.

Happy with every day, and this every day is taken one by one. But you can't have a family, and act like that. To live like that there should be no responsibility

ANd it is fine that people do that. I wouldn't be able to do it, though

Dec 23, 2010 03:43 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
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Andrea - it is a real story, I did not make it up. Ans sthhisis a kknown phenomemon. My friend worked in the Bronx for a Social Services organization as a case worker. They were providing care from mentally challenged patients setting like half homes for them and trying to teach them how to budget, take care of their home, clean, etc. These people were homeless before...

It was an excellent program, and I was stunned to know that there are always those, who after 3-4 months in thhis program leave and go back to homelessness. They just could not adjust and keep up even with the minimum effort

Dec 23, 2010 03:47 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
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Ginny - it is easy to say that thhis is how some become successful, and some don't, but it would be a huge simplification. But see ing how different we are is fascinating...

Dec 23, 2010 03:49 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
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Bill - I wasn't thinking about rich... I understand that living in peace with yourself with little that you get is a great skill. The sun is shoning for all if us... But a homeless guy content withh his life in the street is far from that ideal.

Dec 23, 2010 03:51 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
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Nicholas - thank you. I am honored... again... Tis the Season!

Dec 23, 2010 03:52 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
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Jill - and by the same token poor and hokmeless is not for everyone either

Dec 23, 2010 03:53 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
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Melissa - the life without the roof over your head is what I do not know, and what terrifies me. I was close when we were trying to get on the feet, and that was scary. THe guy I met at Planet Hollywood was not scared. He seemed to get used to it

Dec 23, 2010 03:56 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
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Faye - Yes, he was not looking for the opportunity, he was simply passing by and it happened that he could make some money easily, and as easily he walked away. It was like finding the money in the street when nobody is around. he picked and walked away

Dec 23, 2010 03:58 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
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Jack - I thhink your point is very good. There is too much of stuff that we could live without. Live simpler, and with less.

Dec 23, 2010 04:00 PM
1~Judi Barrett
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Jon, I love this post.  It speaks the truth.  I was surprised not to find the gold star.  Suggested. Merry Christmas to you and yours.

Wishing you a prosperous and healthy 2011.  I know you've been a good boy  this year so I'm sure that Santa is coming to your house tonight!

Judi in Extreme Southeast Oklahoma

Dec 24, 2010 12:17 PM
Virginia Hepp - Mesquite NV REALTOR
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Hi Jon,  my husband was a dice dealer in Reno - a guy would come in every nite and play, he was a very good tipper and a nice guy.

After a few nights, my husband was chatting with him and asked what he did for a living.  The guy said, "I work for food."

He was one of those guys who stood by an onramp to the freeway with a sign that said, "Will work for food".

He said he made $300 a day.  Sometimes he made it in a couple of hours, sometimes 6 hours.  But that was his goal, $300 a day.  He 'worked' 5 days a week, shorter hours and more money when there was snow on the ground.

I work for food, too.

Dec 24, 2010 02:01 PM
Tim Maitski
Atlanta Communities Real Estate Brokerage - Atlanta, GA
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Jon,  It's just the way you look at it.  He had enough to make him happy.  Would anything more be greedy?  I hear many people gripe about how greedy people are.  Here's a man who just took what he needed.

You mention the cat and the need to plan for the future.  I always have trouble with that too when I try to match that up with the Bible where Jesus says not to worry about tomorrow and that God will take care of you just like he does the animals.  It makes me wonder if that homeless man is living a more spiritual life than many who worry and plan for the future.  Things to think about on a day like this.

Dec 25, 2010 05:03 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
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Tim - yes. This blog is as much about him, as it is about me. You might be right, though I do not buy it when we are talking about homeless. Often these are people who succumbed and lost will.

But because it is as much about him as about me, I am frightened that I could be there, but if I were, I would be trying to get out at all cost.

I hope that I will not succumb. Of course, it is the way I look at it. I am an atheist, I do not have anyone to put faith in, and then wait.

Thank you for an interesting comment

Dec 25, 2010 10:28 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
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Judi - thank you so much. Merry Christmas and best wishes to you and your family. It is nice that somebody thinks that I was a good boy this year, but will see if Santa concurs

Dec 25, 2010 10:31 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
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Virginia - oh, this is so familiar. And the rate is the same for panhandlers in New york. $300 a day. Then change, get into a car and go home.I was a limo driver spending nights in Manhattan, and I watched it every day, and I knew some and chat with them.

These were the creme of the homeless world, and there are not that many.

Dec 25, 2010 10:34 AM
Mike Frazier
Carousel Realty of Dyer County - Dyersburg, TN
Northwest Tennessee Realtor

Jon, I don't know how I missed this post. You bring so much depth in your posts and you have an understanding that many of us do not have.

Dec 26, 2010 07:24 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
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Mike - thanks for kind words. I do not have any more of understanding, simply in terms of life experiences I was closer to him than to  many others. I was not far from him as I was still a newcomer, and me ending in the street was still an option, which was scaring me into doing anything I could.

Dec 26, 2010 09:39 AM