Have you ever gone back and read your old post and comments?  It's amazing how all of us have evolved. I have been reading my old posts and my old comments...I noticed defining moments.  Events that changed my perspective of blogging.  Events that have opened my world.  


Recently I entered the contest Because of Activerain, many defining moments included there.  These moments reminded me why I joined and it reinforces why I am still here today. 

Defining moments creates clarity. Enlightenment.   With a little action and awareness you'll create defining moments.

When I joined Activerain in 2006, I was with the big dogs.  To me they were the pro's, while I was just reading the Q & A to start setting up my account many were well on their way to stardom...Courage...they have Courage!

I watched and observed how their writing evolved!

At first I was really intimidated.  I posted my first comment in September.  Big Defining Moment! 

For some reason it was painful for me. 

In the beginning Activerain was like too much work. 

Just another task I had to do another thing to master. I really fought it in the beginning. 

I can't believe this is the direction the world is heading.

I craved the social aspect of it and for some reason I wasn't getting it. 

 

Then it happened...another defining moment...A very special message came across one of my posts. It read: 

 
"We wish you a merry Christmas! We wish you a merry Christmas! We wish you a merry Christmas And a happy New Year! Glad tidings we bring To you and your kin! Glad tidings for Christmas And a happy New Year!"

Broker Bryant and The Lovely Wife (pretend we are singing it works better like that) ROAR!

12/23/2006 by "The Lovely Wife"...Broker Bryant's...Wife!   Delete Report as Spam


You may think, yeah so, what's the big deal?   That comment brought me comfort, a warmth, reassurance, the feeling that "Everything will be OK!"   It made me smile.  In my mind yet another defining moment.

My first featured post,Yes my wall of words, heck it's OK I got 32 comments.  Finally it's paying off!  I was proud. The more I wrote the better I became.  

Then things began to change.  I changed.  I reached out!  I participated and became a part of the network.   I made some friends, lots of interactions and looked to bloggers for inspiration and training.  And then it happened, a little excitement on the rain.  

Monika McGillicuddy wrote a post that just knocked my socks off but I saw it differently than the way she wrote it.  An incredible comment exchange began. 

That blog post evolved into the next blog post and then her article featured in a newspaper...I think you get the message...the message is still going strong on the network today

I say recognize the defining moments! Not only recognize them but create them! Read some of your old posts and comments, you'll notice the difference.   I bet you have improved!  It's all about getting better!

Have you had an awesome defining moment?  If not create one!

 

 

30 Comments on Defining Moments...Courage...It Takes Courage!

Hi Midori...that actually sounds like a fun project...I think I'll give it a try!

09/14/2007 08:54 PM by Joan Mirantz- Concord New Hampshire Realtor (Keeler Family Realtors)


Midori - it's amazing how all of have grown - enjoyed your post :-) 

09/14/2007 09:06 PM by Clearwater Real Estate Clearwater Beach Condos & Homes for Sale- Cyndee Haydon (Belloise Realty)


Still attempting to find that defining moment.  Perhaps I am not posting to the correct groups.  {shurg} it will happen

09/14/2007 09:06 PM by Matthew Rosov, Certified Mortgage Planning Specialist (Envision Lending Group)


Midori, great post. Blogging and Forums are 2nd nature to me, and i am fairly new to activerain (1 month).  I haven't reached that defining moment on AR.. maybe it'll be when blog turns into $$

09/14/2007 09:15 PM by Daniel Sundberg Foreclosure Specialist (Crystal Springs Real Estate)


Midori...I am honored and so touched by your words! That was a defining moment for me and I remember our comment exchange and how you helped me spin it positive when I couldn't see it myself. Thank you so much Midori for this post and most importantly for being you!

09/14/2007 09:58 PM by Monika McGillicuddy~REALTOR®~ N.H. Real Estate Broker & Trainer (Prudential Verani Realty/Hampstead)


I regret deleting a few of mine...then I could keep going back and looking how lame they were lol!  I still left many for just that purpose....haha. We all have grown...mine in just six months. Six months. wow...it seems like longer for some reason.

09/14/2007 11:29 PM by Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman (RA), e-PRO HAWAII Real Estate & HAWAII Relocation (Century 21 Liberty Homes -Mililani, Hawaii)


Defining moments, excellent. Oh I have gone back and read quite a few, Yuk. But, we learn and grow and stick with it. Reading others inspires me to do better and better. Commenting forms relationships.

09/15/2007 05:32 AM by Missy Caulk Ann Arbor Realtor Ann Arbor Real Estate (Keller Williams Ann Arbor)


Midori, You brought a big smile to my face this morning. I remember then.. Look at you now! Flagged and a 5!

09/15/2007 06:44 AM by Lysa Napolitano, Call Coordinator ~ Century 21 Sundance (Century 21 Sundance)


Very nice my friend..I look back at some of my old comments I was getting on old posts..interesting just like reading stuff I wrote long ago...seems like we met years ago huh?

09/15/2007 07:21 AM by Neal Bloom-Realtor ® Assoc.-CRS-Weston FL (RE/MAX Premier Associates)


Midori - Since I've been blogging and commenting vitually since day one, it's hard to pick one moment, but there are a few that stand out in my mind.  The first one was having George Tallabas guide me through the Google maze and inspired me to change my profile so that it was Google-friendly.  This is an obvious difference.  The other defining moment came when I commented on Desiree Daniels blog "My Destiny......"  It was about 9/11, but it was about a month early.  I shared a lot of my personal story and at that moment I realized that I wasn't just here to wax on about real estate, but rather to connect with people.  Thanks for sharing your defining moment and for this blog which should make us all reflect back.

09/15/2007 07:47 AM by Adam Waldman - Long Island REALTOR® (RE/MAX Best)


Hi Midori - I dare say we've all changed quite a bit since joining AR, whenever that might be.  I joined last July 2006, and had no clue what I was doing.  Not that I'm full of clues now, but I do have a great network of friends all across the country that I didn't have before, that's for sure. 

I looked back at my old posts not all that long ago, and I could pinpoint exactly when I learned different things here, such as inserting pictures and links, etc.

Ann

09/15/2007 08:52 AM by Portsmouth NH Real Estate ~ Ann Cummings (RE/MAX Coast to Coast - Portsmouth New Hampshire)


Midori - Excellent. I have not read any of my early stuff but I will take a read. I hope it got better! Midori, I do like your graphics you use in your post! What is your source? Do you create them?

09/15/2007 11:13 AM by Gary Waters - Real Estate Agent Viera Suntree (Century 21 Baytree Realty www.moving2brevard.com)


Wonderful post, Midori

I have many defining moments in life and a bunch of them here on AR. There is a lesson in each of them and a fork in the road. I think my latest one just came within the last day.

I loved reading about your journey here on AR and the defining moments along your way..well done!

Jo 

09/15/2007 12:54 PM by Jo-Anne Smith-Belleville, Quinte and Prince Edward Region Real Estate, Ont. (Royal Lepage Proalliance Realty, Brokerage)


Hi Midori, I have gone back though my old posts but not recently. They are all excellent!!! OK maybe not:) What I did find is I have gotten a lot wordier. I just can't seem to write a short post anymore. I'll keep trying though. Thanks for the mention by the way.

09/15/2007 02:45 PM by Bryant Tutas-Tutas Towne Realty, Inc


Hi Everyone...I'm sorry I haven't been here to respond or reciprocate...I've been busy doing the week in review localism which is about to come out shortly.  I can't wait...... I am taking a little activerain vaca til Monday.  Have a wonderful weekend and see you on your post!

09/15/2007 02:50 PM by Midori Miller-Daytona Beach Florida Real Estate Trainer (CENTURY 21 Sundance Realty)


I see that I'm growing. My first blogs, was like riding a bike for the first time. Someone let go and GEE I COULD RIDE!

09/15/2007 03:11 PM by Diane Velikis Luzerne County Real Estate (Coldwell & Banker Busch Real Estate)


Midori...

Sometimes when I look back on my blogs I laugh and call myself a goober :)

By the way ... It is amazing what a little song can do for a person :)

TLW...ROAR!

09/15/2007 03:15 PM by "The Lovely Wife"...Broker Bryant's Wife... (Co-Owner Tutas Towne Realty, Inc.)


Midori,  I just went back and read 'both' of my posts...  I think a defining moment will come when I do the next one. 

BTW is it tomorrow yet?

TLW...   goober   thats funny, thats what I used to call my two boys.

09/15/2007 08:40 PM by Albert Terwilliger (Homequest USA INC.)


Joan-I had a good laugh going through some of my old comments.  I actually saw  some of my posts that I would like to rewrite now.  I also saw good material that I could make better.  I say go for it!  It is fun and really enlightening.

Hi Cyndee-Thank you...yes I think everyone on the network can claim they are better at blogging.  Thanks for commenting and see you on your post.

Matthew-it will happen!  Keep writing...its like anything else, the more you do it the better you become.  I have now subscribed to your blog.  Thanks for commenting and I will see you on your post. 

09/16/2007 11:18 PM by Midori Miller-Daytona Beach Florida Real Estate Trainer (CENTURY 21 Sundance Realty)


Daniel-If blogging and forums are second nature...then you know better than anyone you have to build your readership. ....it's a numbers game.  I have generated 4 pieces of potential business plus friendships and contacts all around the world.  Imagine you didn't have to pay a dime for it...it's free!  Thanks for commenting and I will see you on your post.

Monika-You have no idea how much that interaction meant to me.  It changed everything for me..I loved the fact that you ran with it and made it into something huge..I absolutely love what the Patriot Guard Riders stand for..I feel proud to be an American..They remind me...You Remind Me...I knew there was a reason I admired you....I can remember in the early days how much I enjoyed your post and am still today a huge fan.  Thanks Monika for all of your great posts and thoughts.  I do hope you and I have an opportunity to meet someday.

Sally-You are like a sponge....girl...you soaked it up right away!..you are made for blogging.  I love every word you write...I always have...even in the early days.  I can count on you for a smile or a lesson.  WooHoo Sally....Keep on writing............

09/16/2007 11:27 PM by Midori Miller-Daytona Beach Florida Real Estate Trainer (CENTURY 21 Sundance Realty)


Hi Missy-I had to laugh...today I was going through some old comments and on my second featured post...Neal gave me a huge set of clapping hands!  I remember talking to him about them...it was funny then and it is funny right now!  Thanks Missy for visiting and I will see you on your post.

Hi Lysa-Yes, how could you forget?  That is all I talked about that day was Monika and her awesome post!  Thanks girl....see you on yours.

Neal-that is what is so amazing to me.  I feel like you and I have known each other for a long long time.  I thought of you....today with the big clapping hands.  I still laugh everytime I think of them or see them.   

09/16/2007 11:32 PM by Midori Miller-Daytona Beach Florida Real Estate Trainer (CENTURY 21 Sundance Realty)


Adam-I had many defining moments.  Another one which made me realize it was a social network and we are all live real people was when Nima was in the hospital.  I remember I was feeling so sad for him and I wanted to go visit him.  That was another defining moment.   I would have included it in my post expcept I could not find a comment or a post about it!  To me still the most amazing part....it's FREE!  How lucky are we.  Thanks for commenting.

Ann-Yes, we have all changed and improved! It's amazing...the knowledge I have gained on the network overflows into other parts of our lives.  I know what you are saying when looking at post.  I loved that Glow in the Dark Cool Text and still use it once in a while.  It was my graphic of choice!  Its funny and all good!  Thanks for commenting. 

Gary-Thank you...will send you an e-mail tomorrow! (well today).  Thanks for commenting. 

09/16/2007 11:53 PM by Midori Miller-Daytona Beach Florida Real Estate Trainer (CENTURY 21 Sundance Realty)


Hi Jo-Anne-Yes, Congrats on the contest.  And yes, something else is going on.  Didn't read much of it. People are people, and people are gonna do what people do.. What they want...they judge and at times quite harsh.  Not sure how it happened but I can overlook all of it. Thanks for stopping by and commenting.  You are a good lady!

09/16/2007 11:58 PM by Midori Miller-Daytona Beach Florida Real Estate Trainer (CENTURY 21 Sundance Realty)


Nice post.....I went back the other day and saw my first 7 posts only had 1 comment for all of them :) :)  My defining moment was reading TLW's post on reciprocating comments....that is when I learned, and really started enjoying all the great things offered here.

09/17/2007 04:15 PM by Kathy McGraw ~ Calif Broker (CELLing Realty)


Bryant-I don't think you had any bad articles...yes you are wordier but we have more xplaining to do right?  I mention you both because it meant a lot!  Something that is probably natural to both of you and customary meant so much to me!  

Diane-Thank you...did you check your coments too?  That was so fun for me!

The Lovely Wife-That song meant lots...you have no idea!  Meeting you meant more....Goober? nah, you could never be a goober not even on your dorkiest day!  

Albert-you made me laugh.....get posting....

Kathy-So true she is a good teacher isn't she!  Thanks for commenting... 

09/17/2007 05:41 PM by Midori Miller-Daytona Beach Florida Real Estate Trainer (CENTURY 21 Sundance Realty)


I love going back and reading my old posts.  It gives me great insight to what I was thinking at any given time.  Some of them are embarrassing because they are SOO bad, but I am not deleting them.  They are what they are!  I haven't been blogging that long.  I can't wait to look back a year from now!

09/17/2007 10:47 PM by Ginger Wilcox, Marin County Realtor (Pacific Union, Marin Real Estate)


Hi Ginger-I left most of my old post but rewrote many.  I can see the progress I have made through the year!  You are doing an awesome job and the truth is the more practice we get the better we are.  I appreciate you commenting.

09/18/2007 11:18 AM by Midori Miller-Daytona Beach Florida Real Estate Trainer (CENTURY 21 Sundance Realty)


I've been on AR about 2 months and felt apprehensive at first.   I see my confidence improving; I gleen from the wealth of information provided by the AR community.  I've written 7 blogs to date and have a goal of writing at least 2 blogs a week, as an opportunity to impart information to others, as well as a way to challenge personal growth.  Thank you for an insightful blog....

09/24/2007 11:45 PM by Cesar Bautista - Santa Maria CA Realtor (Keller Williams Realty Coastal Valley~ Santa Maria )


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