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Paying it forward- on Christmas...

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 GREC# 169695

Yesterday afternoon I spent part of day going through my address book and calling people.  People who might have been my clients once upon a time, but have become friends.  People who I knew might be feeling a bit like me this Christmas... like something was missing from making it what it should be. 

I called friends who had lost someone last year.  And while my daughter was just at work instead of at home I was feeling a bit empty.  So I counted my blessings that my daughter would be coming home again and started making calls.  I didn't keep anyone on the phone very long, but just long enough to let them know I was thinking of them.  For those who still are local I invited them to stop by the office for coffee and a visit too. 

It wasn't much, but I'm thinking that if I were home alone on Christmas I would be happy if my phone rang.  Make someone's day and give them a call just to say hi.  Trust me, you'll feel better for making that phone call.  It made time pass quickly and now my baby girl is home sleeping off the last 24 hours of work.

Plus I woke up this morning to a light dusting of snow.  Wasn't a white Christmas... but close.

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Joyce Godwin, Realtor, CRS
RE/MAX Elite Properties; Serving Cypress, Spring, Tomball, NW Houston - Houston, TX
RE/MAX Elite Properties

Tammy, What a thoughful thing to do!  You added happiness to their day, while making you feel good inside as well!  This was a good reminder that we should all count our blessings!  Hope you have a wonderful and prosperous 2011!

Dec 26, 2010 08:05 AM
Tanya Nouwens
Immeubles Deakin Realty - Montreal West Island, QC
Montreal Real Estate Broker & Stager

Tammy that is so sweet.  You're absolutely right that when it feels like we're missing a certain something, that's exactly when we need to reach OUT to fill that back up.  Good on you.  Your friends are lucky to have you.

Dec 26, 2010 08:30 AM
Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Tammy, that was a great thing to do, seriously. There are many who are alone every day, and on holidays it must be a hard thing to go through.

I hope your Christmas was wonderful, even if they were scattered to the winds for the day.

Dec 26, 2010 08:49 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Joyce- When I am feeling blue I always start to count my blessings.

Tanya- It really does fill the empty.

Andrea- I think of the days my Grandmother spent alone over the years after she lost my grandfather... makes a difference in me.  And yes, Christmas was wonderful... even with the scattered to the wind of the children.  I also just found out I'm going to be a great aunt... Wooo Hoooo.

Dec 26, 2010 09:29 AM
Mary Douglas
United Country Ponderosa Realty, Red Feather Lakes, Colorado - Red Feather Lakes, CO
REALTOR, Red Feather Lakes, Colorado

Hi Tammy, That's a great Christmas present to give - always nice to hear a friendly voice on the other end of the line.  I've told you this before, but my Dad was a firefighter and worked many Holidays when we were little.  It seems like we just adjusted the schedule and had fun anyway.  Nice touch reaching out to those folks on Christmas day Tammy!  It sounds like you had a wonderful Holiday.

Dec 26, 2010 09:41 AM
Lee & Carol Barbour, REALTORS
Murphy and Hayesville, NC; Hiawassee, Blairsville, Blue Ridge GA - Murphy, NC
Mountain Living Team in Murphy NC and North GA

What a wonderful way to share some Christmas warmth to others, Tammy. It really is the little things that can mean so much to someone - especially over the holidays when many are alone or missing loved ones. Glad the rain stopped and you had a little bit of snow for Christmas. Its been snowing since Christmas morning and we've got 10 inches now.

Dec 26, 2010 09:49 AM
Sheldon Neal
Bergen County, NJ - RE/MAX Real Estate Limited - Maywood, NJ
That British Agent Bergen County NJ

What a nice thought Tammy ! I'm positive you left a bunch of people with a smile they would not have had without your caring idea :o)

And congrats on becoming a Great Aunt !!!!!!!

Cheers !

Dec 26, 2010 10:01 AM
Denise Roberts
New Colony Properties, LLC - Pinehurst, NC
e-PRO, REALTOR - Specializing in Pinehurst, NC Area

Tammy, I think you had the true meaning of Christmas in your heart while making those phone calls!  Very sweet and thoughtful and unselfish thing to do.  I have enought snow up here in Pinehurst for both of us!!!  May you have a very successful and Happy New Year!

Dec 26, 2010 10:06 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Mary- used to be a sweet lady that I rented space to put a sign on her land... that I would always take a plate of "goodies" to around the holidays.  Sadly she passed on this year and I think often of all the people who don't have family or who have no family close by to share the holidays with...   I was thankful that my mother in law had my brother in law and three grandchildren at her house.  We've got to make a plan to get out to see her very soon.

Carol- wow... that's a lot.  And as pretty as it is I'm sure glad we didn't get that much.  My family will have to be out driving in it very soon.

Sheldon- I have lots of babies in my family... all are little cousins, but until I married my Donald, no nieces or nephews and now... a GREAT AUNTIE for the very first time.  I'm just a tad bit excited.  And I hope it will be a little girl.  (of course I'll love either one, but I really hope I get to buy pretty pink dresses)

Denise- I was quite happy with a "dusting"  And well while I was missing my daughter... it just seemed like the thing to do.

 

Dec 26, 2010 10:31 AM
Cynthia Larsen
Cotati, CA
Independent Broker In Sonoma County, CA

Tammy - I know this has been a tough Christmas for you without your baby at home. But those phone calls meant the world to some of those folks!

Dec 26, 2010 11:11 AM
Melissa Brown
Helen Adams Realty - Charlotte, NC
Realtor - South Charlotte NC Homes for Sale

Tammy, I am so certain that you made so many people's day when you made those calls.  Kudos to you for taking the time to let people know you were thinking about them!  Chin up!

Dec 26, 2010 12:32 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good evening Tammy,

What a nice thing for you to to do..you brighten up many people's Christmas and yourself by reaching out!

Dec 26, 2010 01:52 PM
Christine Hooks
Pino Agency - Pennsville, NJ
Celebrating 25 Years in Real Estate!

Your actions were very, very sweet.  What a perfect Christmas.  Thinking of others and reaching out.  We should all take the time to do so....even on non-holidays, huh?!

Dec 26, 2010 02:00 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Cynthia- more than words could ever explain... except maybe to another mom, and yes it made me feel better, so it meant the world to me.

Thanks Melissa- and I'm doing my best to do just that.

Dorie- Lifted my mood a lot.

Chris- you know that's a super good idea too. 

Dec 26, 2010 02:34 PM
Carra Riley & Declan Kenyon
Brokers Guild Cherry Creek Ltd - Westminster, CO
Helping people Transition at all ages!

Tammy ~  What a wonderful way to pay it forward.. just thinking about how someone else might feel.. I think that is the watch word of 2011.. thinking about how others might feel. Thanks for showing us the way!

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Dec 26, 2010 04:27 PM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

So nice that you made those calls on Christmas Day to people who may have been alone, I'm sure it meant so much to them Tammy..............very nice.

Dec 26, 2010 09:19 PM
Ann Allen Hoover
RE/MAX Advantage South - Hoover, AL
CDPE SRES ASP e-PRO Realtor - Homes for Sale - AL

Tammy, those little phone calls mean so much......I know I love to hear from folks unexpectedly.

I hope you and your family had a lovely Christmas!

Dec 27, 2010 12:51 AM
Donne Knudsen
Los Angeles & Ventura Counties in CA - Simi Valley, CA
CalState Realty Services

Tammy - First and foremost, sorry you were feeling blue on Christmas, hopefully, your Christmas calls cheered you up because I'm sure they cheered up the ones to talked to.  I've actually been doing that for more than a week now and visiting as many as I could.  I even went and visited one on Sunday because we weren't able to get together before Christmas.  I've been having a blast!!!  Really puts a whole new attitude on the season.  Have a good day Tammy and a wonderful week.  :)

Dec 27, 2010 06:39 AM
June Tassillo
Owner/Broker RE/MAX Elite Realty - Franklin, NC
Let me help you with the next phase of your life!

Tammy ~ It never fail to look outside yourself and the blues go away like magic.  I do the same when I am blue, I start counting the ways I am blessed or a walk outside to get with nature usually does the trick too but as you know we have the mother load of snow up here and now the wind makes it too cold to go out.

Dec 27, 2010 06:55 AM
Ron Marshall
Marshall Enterprises - Saint Michael, MN
Birdhouse Builder Extraordinaire

I think June is right.  No matter what our troubles if we concentrate on someone else, our burden becomes lighter.  You are a very fortunate person and have had your shares of trials and tribulations.  You have a good heart and you do what you can to help others.  Have a great closing today!

Dec 16, 2012 09:20 PM