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GoldfinchThis summer, my daughters and I used to drive past a field of wildflowers every morning.  Some days we’d surprise a goldfinch and see that bright flash of eye-catching yellow flit past us.  Somehow the girls decided that seeing a goldfinch seemed like a good omen, so we always paid attention and tried to see them every morning.  If they saw one, they believed the day would be good, and so it was.

I’m all for creating my own luck.  I went out this weekend and bought a goldfinch feeder.  I have it set up in front of my big living room windows where there is a “cat bench” for my three cats.  (And sometimes the larger of my two dogs.  Yes, I have too many pets, I agree.)  Now my girls will have good days and my pets will have more entertaining Yard TV.

My Little One wanted to know why the goldfinches had to have a different feeder than the regular birds.  I told her to look at the seeds, goldfinch seeds are tiny.  Our other feeder has sunflower seeds (for squirrels, but we don’t mind if birds eat them).  I asked her to think about how the tiny seeds would work in the feeder with the big holes.  Yep, they’d run out like sand and make a pile on the ground. 

Then she wanted to know why we had to have special seeds for goldfinches.  I told her it’s just what they like to eat.  She wondered why they don’t like the other stuff.  I asked her how I would do luring a Little One if I put out a plate of Brussels sprouts.  She laughed, no self respecting Little One would touch that!  I asked how I’d do if I set out a plate of chocolate chip cookies.  Yes, her eyes lit up and she understood.  If you want to bring in goldfinches, use the seeds they like and they’ll come! 

Aha.  Now tell me -- are you setting yourself up to lure in what you want, or do you need to think about what you’re using as bait?
 

Comments(39)

Matthew J Blum - (retired from the business)
Palm Beach Gardens, FL

Sarah,  Great post.  Really like how you used what we use for bait.  This is one of the reasons why I don't buy leads.. It brings out the bottom Feaders that use chum for their bait.

Sep 16, 2007 02:18 AM
Ann Cummings
RE/MAX Shoreline - NH and Maine - Portsmouth, NH
Portsmouth NH Real Estate Preferrable Agent

Good Morning Sweet Sarah!  Love this post - great message in this one.......bait, the right bait for just about anything in life will bring you 'luck'.  We bring about our own luck, and this is why - the 'right bait'!

I have several bird feeders, of different types, so I can watch a variety of birds in my backyard.  And talk about Gold Finches - I have LOADS of them!  Gold, purple, house, barn - all kinds of finches here because I put out the food they like in the feeders that work for them.  Actually the Purple Finch is our state bird up here in NH.  I also have feeders that work for cardinals, nuthatches, chickadees, woodpeckers, and plenty of others.  I LOVE watching them in my backyard.  We get lots of songbirds because of the food we put out - and you should hear their choruses every day!  I feel lucky to get to see all the different behaviors of these birds!  Guess I made my own luck by doing what draws them here to my backyard!

Happy Sunday!
Ann
ps - I'm so with Little One on those yucky Brussel Sprouts!   Ick!

Sep 16, 2007 02:20 AM
Sarah Cooper
Real Estate Shows - Hurricane, WV

Chris - I had to peek.  The most interesting search I have right now is heather o'reilly panties.  I looked 10 pages in and couldn't find me.  They were looking hard for those panties.

Margaret - Good luck!  :o)!!

Neal - I imagine gold does work well for you.  :o)

Granddad - She's little, but she's smart.  :oD

Bryant - I apologize for any words of wisdom you find in any of my posts.  I can assure you, they are not intentional.  ;o)

Bob - You're going to get MWA'ed if you keep talking so sweet to me.  I'll do it, you know!!  (OK, MWA!!)

Dez -  Shhh!!!!

Suzanne - We have humming birds on the back porch.  When I "work" out there (it's debatable how much is really work) they fly around me like they don't even see me.  

Matt - Good point!  ... I almost said something questionable there.  Just don't pay for it.  That's all I'll say.

Sep 16, 2007 02:22 AM
Sarah Cooper
Real Estate Shows - Hurricane, WV

Ann - We feed mostly squirrels and mourning doves.  I love the sounds the doves make when they fly off.  And the squirrels are so much fun!  Tall One and I laughed at a squirrel that STARED when we walked the dogs by it this week -- was the squirrel amazed because we had dogs attached to us by strings, or did it wonder how the dogs captured people and made them do their bidding?

I went to meet with my new team members before we started at the new place recently.  We were at Duck and Georgeann's house and they had a goldfinch feeder, and the whole evening the birds kept coming near where we were sitting.  They had no idea, but it helped me know I was doing the right thing.  What were the chances, right? 

Sep 16, 2007 02:26 AM
Ann Cummings
RE/MAX Shoreline - NH and Maine - Portsmouth, NH
Portsmouth NH Real Estate Preferrable Agent

I got tired of feeding the squirrels, or making it so easy for them is really what I should say.  So I bought those caps that go under my feeders that they can't climb over.  It is quite entertaining to watch them try, and to watch them gauge whether they can launch themselves far enough from the bird bath to make it over the cap to the feeder, which they can't.  But I love watching them try every trick they can come up with.

Rest assured though, they don't go hungry.  The birds drop enough on the ground that they could dine here forever and be perfectly sated forever.  Good bird food isn't cheap, so I like to make sure that most of it goes to those I really want to feed.  The spillage is just a freebie to entertain the squirrels so they can entertain me with their antics.

it's all good!!
Ann

Sep 16, 2007 03:06 AM
Pat Hommel
Annapolis Plaza CB Residential and Commercial - Annapolis, MD
Annapolis, AA Co., Md. Real Estate Sales
Sarah,  This is a delightful analogy. I love how you explained why the finches need special food and feeders to your Little One.  Of course vegetables would not attract A Little One, but cookies would.  So we need to use more chocolate chip cookies in our advertising!
Sep 16, 2007 03:06 AM
Tricia Jumonville
Bradfield Properties - Georgetown, TX
Texas REALTOR , Agent With Horse Sense

Sarah, our ranch is on a major migration route (everything from redwing blackbirds to hawks - a "flock" of hawks migrating is an amazing sight! - to Whooping Cranes have stopped off here for a little breather on the way), so I really love this post.  And I've been thinking lately that I need to sit down and analyze my seed mixture and tweak it a bit - thanks for the gentle nudge.

 

Sep 16, 2007 04:15 AM
Patsy Turner
Keller Williams Realty Lanier Partners - Gainesville, GA
Hall County GA Real Estate

Love your post! When my mother passed away, at her funeral in a little white church in the North Georgia Mountains, a small bird pirched on the open window sill just chirpping away. I held on to that moment and many times since then, as I sit quietly pondering life and sorting out my thoughts, a small bird has pirched nearby and fearlessly sat with me.  This happens usually in a down moment and leaves me feeling at peace with myself, the world and confident in my thoughts.  Small messages from above that all is well, soulfully connecting!

Sep 16, 2007 05:12 AM
Candy Henthorne
Results Realty - Spring, TX
Spring Texas Real Estate
Sarah, You certainly have a way with words.  Very nice post, and food for thought.
Sep 16, 2007 05:30 AM
Jennifer Monroe
Indigo Home Team powered by Compass - Charlotte, NC
Real Estate REALTOR®/Broker/Designer

Bait... hmmm... I've never thought of it that way, but maybe I should. I work by referral and yet have never asked for a referral outright. Now you have me really examining what exactly it is that I actively do to bring in clients. I know this: I'm so disgusted by all the traditional techniques used by Realtors from back in the days of yore. So maybe that's my appeal.

Interesting post. 

Sep 16, 2007 05:59 AM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE

are you setting yourself up to lure in what you want, or do you need to think about what you're using as bait?

Good Morning lil sis. This can be pondered upon in sooo many ways.

Sep 16, 2007 06:48 AM
Sarah Cooper
Real Estate Shows - Hurricane, WV

Jon - LOL!  I never thought about it that way.  It's like taking them to an ice cream parlor and letting them peek in, then leaving.  Shame on me!

Ann - We actually prefer to feed the squirrels, but if the birds eat it I don't get upset.  I'd never set up bird resistant feeders, though!  LOL!

Pat - I do give out candy bars as advertising!

Tricia - Thank you for the Cowbell link!  :o)!!!  Flocks of hawks would be amazing!!  Make sure to get pictures and blog about them, OK?

Patsy - I think that's one of the sweetest things I've ever heard.  And I completely believe it's more than coincidence. 

Candy - Thank you!  :o)

Jennifer - Completely disgusted with the traditional -- I like you, Jennifer.  :o)

Sally - Yes, it can and should be.  I didn't mean what I said, I meant what I didn't say.  :o)  

Sep 16, 2007 09:25 AM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE
Ha!  I sure caught that one.
Sep 16, 2007 09:36 AM
Sarah Cooper
Real Estate Shows - Hurricane, WV
That's 'cause you're one of the few who gets me.  :oD
Sep 16, 2007 12:07 PM
Thomas Weiss
Thomas R. Weiss - West Palm Beach, FL

Sarah,

Great idea, I could any luck.. Plus I like Animals so I will easily do it :0)

Tom Weiss

Sep 16, 2007 01:10 PM
Thesa Chambers
West + Main - Bend, OR
Principal Broker - Licensed in Oregon
I will take the chocolate chip cookies also - great reminder that we get more with sugar than with vinegar too.
Sep 16, 2007 03:20 PM
Robert Hammerstein -
Christie's International Real Estate - Hillsdale, NJ
Bergen County NJ Real Estate
What a great analogy!  And now I must ask - have you ever seen an upside down feeder for goldfinches?  They're the best and most entertaining to watch.  They're no more expensive and your daughters will love it!
Sep 17, 2007 10:46 AM
Robert Monk
100% Realty, Inc. - Santa Rosa Beach, FL
Florida Real Estate

Beautiful picture!  Haven't seen any of those here in northern Florida.  Thanks for sharing.

Robert Monk 

Sep 17, 2007 11:18 AM
Trace Galle
Designs by Trace - Kelowna, BC

Hi Sarah,

Great blog! Yes, we sure do have to watch what say and do. 

Sep 18, 2007 09:08 AM
Karen Anne Stone
New Home Hunters of Fort Worth and Tarrant County - Fort Worth, TX
Fort Worth Real Estate

Hi Sarah:  What wonderful slices of your life with Tall One and Little One you continue to share with us.  Again, you have brought tears to my eyes.  Warm tears, good tears.  Although you have written about your daughter and the goldfinch, what you have written is much deeper than that.  I find myself missing my own daughter tonight.  But... in reading your post... somehow she feels nearer to me.  Thank you for that.

Over and over, through your thoughtful posts, I have seen you touch the hearts of so many people.  Time and time again.  Have you ever thought of collecting all of these heartfelt posts of yours, and putting them in a book ?  I think it would make an awesome Christmas gift.  Take care, and thanks so much for your post.                Karen Anne

Sep 18, 2007 06:49 PM