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The Most Important Real Estate is the Space Between Your Ears

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Real Estate Agent with Long and Foster Real Estate VA License # 0225089470

The Most Important Real Estate is the Space Between Your Ears

Since December 23rd, I have managed to get all of my annual/semi-annual doctor appointments out of the way.  Yes, despite running myself ragged my vital systems are in good shape, but that's not the point of this post.  What's been happening every time I go to one of these visits is at least two opportunities per doctor visit (nurse first and doctor later) is a chance to experience the "poor you" attitude they have when they find out I'm a Realtor® this time of year.  The responses are ones I'm sure we're all familiar with:

Oh, I bet you have a lot of free time during the holidays.

Wow (said with the tone of "sorry to hear that") things must be rough for you right now.

How have you been surviving?  (this was literally what one of them said)

Today, I set a dental hygenist straight with my answer to her.  I informed her that I haven't been busier than I am right now.  When she was shocked, I said, "If you are convinced that December and January will be slow, you may miss opportunities to help potential buyers and seller because you will assume they don't need you.  I know I'm going to busy and because of my mindset, I don't miss any opportunities.  I don't turn my brain off during the holidays or during the winter months."

We all have to remember that the most important real estate is the real estate between our ears.  What we think will happen determines to a very large extent how we perceive the opportunities before us.  Where I see opportunity, someone else with a negative view of business this time of year may see someone who will be a waste of time.  After all, the negative mindset has already convinced you that no one shops for homes or needs to sell homes this time of year.

So get your head screwed on straight, as my dear Mom would say and look forward to every day and every month of the year.  It all holds opportunity.  Attitude is everything, so start with a good one.

 

Comments(16)

Chandler Real Estate Liz Harris, MBA
Liz Harris Realty - Chandler, AZ
#ChandlerRealEstateAgent

I think that this is one of the best times to be in real estate. This economical down turn will certainly make it to the history books and we are wading through the real estate transactions to help correct the situation!

Jan 13, 2011 12:27 PM
Anne Clark
Metro Referrals - Gainesville, VA

Correcting a negative attitude or outlook can be very hard, but it's the only way to success.  I don't think I've ever seen a successful person in life with a negative outlook.

Jan 13, 2011 12:32 PM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Liz:  Even the term "wading through" has a negative connotation.  We're doing business, same as we've always done.  The deals may be different than they were five years ago, but they will also be different five years from what we're experiencing now.

Anne:  Overcoming a negative outlook can be very difficult, but it's not impossible.

Jan 13, 2011 12:47 PM
'The Diamond Group' 'A Cut Above The Rest'
The Diamond Group @ Keller Williams - Lubbock, TX
Lubbock Texas Real Estate

Chris Ann, Bravo!  Attitude is everything..........it is focus, it is synergy, it is what drives us to get our unfair share!  You go girl!

Jan 13, 2011 12:51 PM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Elizabeth:  I see I have found a sout mate in you.  :)

Jan 13, 2011 12:53 PM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Chris Ann, I think you totally nailed it with this one!  It's so true and so obvious!

Jan 13, 2011 01:20 PM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Pat:  It's the motto I live by.  Mindset is everything.

Jan 13, 2011 01:22 PM
Karen Baker
Sunset Beach and Beyond Realty - Sunset Beach, NC
Professional Help with Rapid Responses...

Attitude of Gratitude. Something as simple as gratitude can completely transform your life.

Jan 13, 2011 01:30 PM
Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Chris Ann, you are so right! It all starts inside of ourselves. I cannot stand to be around those that do nothing but whine about things. Me? I choose to wake up, be grateful and feel good. Do I fall? Yes indeed, but I get back up on the gratitude horse and keep going forward.

Jan 13, 2011 10:34 PM
Cindy Jones
Integrity Real Estate Group - Woodbridge, VA
Pentagon, Fort Belvoir & Quantico Real Estate News

Chris Ann-To Quote Jean-Luc Picard (you do know who that is right?) MAKE IT SO!

Jan 13, 2011 11:02 PM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Frank & Karen:  I like that...attitude of gratitude. 

Andrea:  Same here.  And having AR as a forum certainly helps to surround us with plenty of agents who understand the trials and tribulations, but need to keep positive.

Cindy:  I do know who that is and I like that saying.

Jan 14, 2011 03:32 AM
Gloria Todor
Premier Property Sales & Rentals - Springfield, PA
& Doug Durren (484) 431-3686 in SE PA

Chris, Like your title.  Yes we are what we think.

Gloria

 

Jan 14, 2011 09:06 AM
Not a real person
San Diego, CA

I always get “How is the market?” When I tell them that if my business is any indication of the market, it’s great! That catches them off guard.

Jan 14, 2011 11:18 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Gloria:  So true.  I'm on a bit of a motivational soapbox lately.  Don't mean to be.  Just sort of happened.

Russel:  I like that!

Jan 14, 2011 12:35 PM
Pat Starnes-Front Gate Realty
Front Gate Real Estate - Brandon, MS
601-991-2900 Office; 601-278-4513 Cell

Thanks, Chris Ann. You are SO right, and no-one needed to hear it more than me!

Jan 18, 2011 08:18 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Pat:  It can get a little dark and depressing in that space sometimes, but if you keep it positive and light, you'll benefit tremendously.

Jan 19, 2011 10:30 AM