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I lived in my "Starter Home" for 27 years

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In real estate, we have this phenomenon called the starter home.  It has been sometimes used as an excuse for buying something that we really don't like very much, but we want to own it anyway.  It only has two bedrooms, and it's really small, but it will do for a starter home.  It's next to the rail track, but it will do for a starter home.  You have to walk through a bedroom to go from the kitchen to the living room, but it's fine for a starter home. 

Many buyers and some of the professionals who help them excuse fundamental reasons for not buying a particular property by calling it a starter home.  Today, there is a half generation of owners of starter homes who are locked into them because of deflated values and negative equity.  The smartest of the presently immobilized half-generation are comfortable and have no compulsion to leave immediately.  Many of them could afford a higher payment, but they bought right when they bought their starter homes.  The fact that they can't presently afford to sell is a minor inconvenience at most.

Smart buyers in 2005, just like smart buyers in all years, understood that they were buying a home that they could have to live in for a very long time.  Some still love their homes, and they wouldn't move if they could.  Some are suffering the consequences of their mistakes.  Some would like to move, but they don't feel that they are in a really bad situation.  They're comfortable enough, and the neighborhood still feels like a good enough fit.

My starter home turned out very well.  That was not by virtue of our excellent insight or expert advice.  We were just plain lucky.  We had made a decision to move to Minnesota from Illinois, and my employment at the time was with an airline.  After growing up next door to O'Hare Airport, I knew that we needed to be ten miles from MSP, and not in the direction of metro traffic.  We drove from Illinois to MSP and headed away from the metro.  Almost exactly ten miles away in Apple Valley was a sign advertising new homes for sale.  We stopped and bought one.  We sold our starter home twenty-seven years later.

If you're looking for a home, don't look for a temporary home.  That's one of the purposes of rentals.  Buy a home that fits you and your family, including those on the way for the next several years.  Buy a home in an area that feels comfortable and stable.  Buy a home you could live in forever.  It will be easier to sell if you want to move, and it will be easier to live in if you need to stay.

Posted by

 Mike Carlier  Lakeville, MN

 

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Shannon Milligan, Richmond VA Real Estate Agent/Associate Broker
RVA Home Team - Richmond, VA
RVA Home Team - Winning with Integrity.

Great point! So many people "settle" simply because they want to be part of the "club" of home ownership. I love that you were in your home for 27 years - that really is a HOME and not a HOUSE!

Jan 30, 2011 04:18 AM
Li Read
Sea to Sky Premier Properties (Salt Spring) - Salt Spring Island, BC
Caring expertise...knowledge for you!

Good alert...a  home purchase may very definitely be "our place" for a substantial timeframe...so important to buy what we "love".

Jan 30, 2011 04:24 AM
Robert Butler
Aspect Inspection - Montreal West Island, QC
Montreal Home Inspector | Aspect Inspection
You make a good point Mike. These homes can also retain their value as retirement or 'finishing' homes if you will. They are small and easy to maintain. Usually only one story and easily adapted to handicapped living.
Jan 30, 2011 04:29 AM
Nancy Conner
Olympia, WA
Olympia/Thurston County WA

Seems like it is always smartest to buy a home that doesn't have any built in factor that will mean you can't stay there long term if you need to - or want to.  I stayed in my starter home just 3 years, then 12 in the next & now am into the 19th year in my current home - don't know if I'm getting better at choosing or just too lazy to move!  LOL  

Jan 30, 2011 05:38 AM
Mike Carlier
Lakeville, MN
More opinions than you want to hear about.

Today, it's a lot easier to convince first time buyers that it's important that they choose a home that could work for them in the long term.  The market has taught most that homes aren't cars or clothing for toddlers.  They should not wear out or be outgrown in a short time.

Jan 31, 2011 02:59 AM
Lindsey Hasford
Edina Realty - Elk River, MN
Bringing you home...

I thought about this post all afternoon yesterday.... Not sure why, but figured I'd better come back and comment on it. So many want to move up the ladder fast or just skip to the top that they don't see the gems that can be found in a starter home. I'm glad that you wrote this post. I was in my first home for three years and had intended on staying longer but an opportunity rose. My choice in the beginning was quite intentional and sometimes I miss it. :)

Jan 31, 2011 03:05 AM
Mike Carlier
Lakeville, MN
More opinions than you want to hear about.

Lindsey, thanks for your comment.  Your choice was as it should be for all first time buyers.  Ideally, a move up should be a choice, not a necessity.  I'm seeing a fair number of folks who have made starter miscalculations who have become renter-landlords.  They're renting out their old places and renting something that fits them better. 

Jan 31, 2011 03:15 AM
Lindsey Hasford
Edina Realty - Elk River, MN
Bringing you home...

That's unfortunate Mike, but I do see that happening too.

Feb 01, 2011 11:19 AM