Yesterday, I received a comment on my post that I deleted. I wish I had waited. I was exhausted from being up since 1:30am and a full day at the retreat I am attending. Followed that up with a couple of hours at the office and was just dog tired when I finally got around to reading email and blogs.

I deleted that post because it struck me as negative - not negative as in a constructive critique or a differing point of view, but negative in an attacking way. If I were to sum it up it would be something like this - I'm great, the rest of you are full of ____.

I wish I had kept that because maybe I was wrong. Maybe I was too tired to really get the person's point. But here's my point - Who you are speaks louder than words. And in the long run, being a good real estate agent, a successful real estate agent and a person that is an asset to others and the planet is about who you are and not so much about  the words coming out of your mouth.

I was glad to read these posts this morning (after some great sleep!)

Survey Shows Buyers And Sellers Use Technology And Want Personal Services

Blog Finder Series: Red Carpet Keim Will Cooperate

Loose Lips Sink Ships, Especially When Selling a Home

In the latest issue of CAR's Real Estate Trends:

  • 81% - percentage of buyers who used the Internet during their most recent transaction and also used a Realtor.
  • 5.8 Weeks - Average time Internet buyers spent considering a home purchase BEFORE talking with a Realtor, compared with 2 weeks for a traditional buyer.
  • 70% - percentage of home buyers that use the Internet  at some point during the home purchase process vs. 28 percent in 2000.

Part of the point I want to make I talked about on my Keller Williams San Ramon CA blog a while back - The Power of NO

In the long run, who we are determines everything. 

 

2 Comments on Who You are Speaks Louder than Words

NOV
17
2006
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So actions speak LOUDER than words?!?!?!?  I agree!  It's so much easier to give "lip-service" to things than to follow thru and do the good stuff!  Hope you caught up on  your sleep and that you have a restful weekend.
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NOV
22
2006
Thank you for including a link to our post introducing a new blogger. We are always happy to promote new bloggers and those writing under the radar.  We link to any blog that asks. Hopefully one of our readers will  discover a new blog to enjoy.
joseph ferrara.sellsius
10:54pm • #2

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