I recently finished up a highly successful active adult community for a national builder. The process afforded an ear to this buying contingent- and their
ideas varied as widely as the offerings for adult communities on the North Fork.

For many, “cashing out” equity in their existing home and down-sizing was the primary objective. With many still working, and planning to do so for several years, the consideration of a move in the sudden absence of children underfoot and too much space, combined with the idea of lower taxes and less “to do”, made it a non-negotiable move- it just sounds too good to be true.

A breakdown of the process as told to me by this buying contingent:

The kids leave; college tuition lingers; there’s a big, empty house. That it’s full of “stuff” delays the decision until it becomes JUST TOO TEMPTING…

Iwww. A “retirement” community. “WE’RE TO YOUNG.” Often, the next thought. Being “too young”, whether in years or spirit doesn’t deter…just looking around. If this buyer hasn’t yet hired someone to take care of the yard work, it is often one or the other that starts the looking process- weekends are tediously full.

One of the first lessons learned, if a buyer is presented the right active adult community, is that somehow, the “retirement” part- the inactive, reclusive “old age” perception dissipates. While this is crass and inappropriate, this next concern was voiced by a customer of mine. “I was worried that it would be a bunch of old people pissing in their beds.” This was not said “jokingly”- rather, it was offered when, to his delight, the community that his wife located had an abundance of still working active adults. REMEMBER: medical facilities are not offered at active adult communities, nor is maid service, nor are meals.

We ALL dread, to some extent or another, that vision of permanent care. For the active adult contingent, it is simply not appropriate- not to mention, premature.


The ultimate goal of a retirement/active adult buyer includes shorter, as well as longer term goals. The years coming up AFTER retirement may involve travel. The convenience of having a gated, secure environment in which to leave belongings is NICE. Nicer than locking up the house, re-routing the mail, leaving the landscapers check under the front mat, etc. It’s a more secure feeling, those shared walls and now known neighbors. The friends from the old neighborhood have moved, many of them- it isn’t the same.

These buyers are often the “sandwich” generation, assisting parents as well as children. Sometimes, concurrently, health issues with spouses come into play. This is a group of people who have found themselves involved enough in the interpersonal play of relatives that it is just TOO MUCH to worry about a house that is now too big. MY HAT’S OFF TO THEM. I’ll be making the same decisions in eight short years- they’ve provided me with insight that in it’s absence, would have created a longer process for me.

In the final analysis of this buyer, adding up the benefits for use of pool, tennis, clubhouse, perceived increased security, lower taxes, a paid for house with savings accrued in the old house at the ready…all permit for a bit of well-deserved peace of mind.

For a list of ALL properties available for the 55 and better set, contact Options Realty- we’ll make it easy.

 

12 Comments on Over 55 and Looking for an Active Adult 55-plus?

Laurie,  GREAT info on over 55 communities.  We have some here and they go quick!!  They are a great option for folks that want a low maintenance property.

09/21/2007 09:43 PM by Stephanie Edwards-Musa, Realtor ® The Woodlands, TX Real Estate (Prudential Gary Greene, Realtors ®)


I ski with a group called The Over the Hill Gang, and they are nowhere near ready for rocking chairs!  Many ski 100 days a year in the winter and then go on bike trips all over the world or hike 14,000 foot tall mountains in the summer.  "Active" is the operative word when you are talking about them!  Great post Laurie...too many people make assumptions that just are not true!

09/21/2007 11:14 PM by Summit County, Colorado Realtor l Joanne Hanson (Coldwell Banker Colorado Rockies Real Estate)


Hi Laurie:  Thanks for a great and well-written story about your experiences.  Your descriptions are excellent, and your thoughts as you delve into their various motivations share very well their "customer mindset."  Thanks for writing...   Karen Anne

09/22/2007 12:22 AM by Fort Worth Real Estate - - - Karen Anne Stone (RE/MAX Trinity)


Laurie - Well written post.  This subject has been on my mind.  Some seniors move to my area and purchased much smaller homes but because they are not in a community like the one you described they are bored and wondering how to connect with other seniors who are very active.   The type of community you spoke about would have solved the problem.

09/22/2007 06:16 AM by Jennifer Fivelsdal, Rhinebeck NY (Keller Williams Realty)


Jennifer- WCI  is doing a community like this near you--it's a really nice piece of ground- check their website.

Thanks for visiting, Karen- there are some great alternatives for people looking for life after too much life!

Joanne, people in their 70's are running out here (North Fork) and many use bikes to get to their destinations- more active than I am, as a person in her late 40's.

Joan, thanks!  Thought the bed comment was dicey, but the truth can be dicey sometimes.

Stephanie, they are NOT always how people perceive them- and gaining in popularity, once this contingent discovers that they're in good company.

Sally Jo, COME ON DOWN!

09/22/2007 08:46 AM by Options Realty


Laurie, The retirement communities of years past are SO different they they are now....I look forward to the day, taking care of a house is getting to be too much and I want to downscale.  They have some wonderful things and activities in retirement communites, not anything at all like years ago.  Great post!

09/22/2007 11:26 PM by Carole Provenzale Owner, Feng Shui Long Island & New York (Feng Shui Long Island & New York City)


Laurie, great post and insight into the Baby-boomer generation.  I have had my SRES for years and concur with all that you say.  Active communities are a place that simplifies an active lifestyle and enables them the freedom to be more active!

09/24/2007 08:04 AM by Lake Norman Real Estate ~ Diane Aurit (RE/MAX at the Lake)


Laurie - Heck - I am almost there and know I would not enjoy an active lifestyle community. At the same time, I do need a smaller home. Sometimes though we don't want to give up space too soon. My dadaalways told me the children keep the front door rotating - so don't go too small. It is a stressful decision!

09/24/2007 10:40 PM by Indianapolis Real Estate | Paula Henry (ReMax Excel)


Laurie:

 Great information thanks for taking the time to share it with us.

09/24/2007 11:59 PM by Alan Kirkpatrick Austin Texas Real Estate (Austin Texas Homes)


Paula, it's a different experience for each person- some find comfort in the proximity and ease; others aren't quite ready to give up a single family home- there are some great alternatives that are single family homes (considered condos) but the maintenance, etc. is done by the HOA...

Alan, you're welcome.

09/25/2007 08:18 AM by Options Realty


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