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What Is Your Favorite Color?

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408

I am on a long awaited vacation out of the country and thinking was not part of the plan, but Andrea Swiedler posted Are you just talking the talk? Or do you walk the long, hard walk too? and leaving a comment for her I could not avoid thinking and now I can blame her for ruined vacation (LOL).

I thought about all these things that we often say, which are there to impress. We can say that we would put the ad into real estate magazines, but would not tell the Seller that they do not work. We do not do it just to fool the seller, but we know that others will say that, and it would look like they do something very valuable, and you don’t.

Usually it is not what you do; it is how what you do affects the sale of the property. But it is much easier to give people a list of what you do for the clients and make them believe that you would be running like a bee and the phones would turn red, and offers start coming…

Many years ago I was reading a lot about social research (they called it sociological research), I ran into a book by a German scientist, who worked for The Institute for Demoscopy in Allensbach, then West Germany, “one of Europe’s leading market-research and public-opinion firms, with 100 or more studies completed annually”.

They were predicting the results of elections with exceptional precision. I learned a lot from this book. I learned that it was not that simply asking questions and getting answers, not even asking smart questions and getting good answers. It is way more than that. The way it was built, was so that no matter how skilled you were, even if you were a researcher, you could not figure out what the goal of the poll was.What is your favorite color

One question stunned me.

“What is your favorite color?”

How on earth this question could help them figure out the chances of a political candidate? Well, it couldn’t. But what it did was helping to gauge and cross gauge the interviewed.

So, what if you favorite color is red? Actually the color did not matter. It simply was an indication that you were not really critical, you were content. Because if you were not, then your answer would actually be a counter question:

“Color of what? A tie, a dress, a car?” See, if you were critical, then you would have shown it. And if not here, there were a lot of other smart questions which were designed to do just this.

So, this and tons of other clever questions strategically positioned in the interview helped the scientists not only get the answer, but know how actually people felt about the questions, and about the interview. We are peculiar creatures and lie for convenience. Last time I checked we all looked gorgeous…

I think we ask for a favorite color a lot of it in our business. We may not know the science behind it, but when an agent is telling people about the fact that 87% of people search for houses on the Internet, and we do not have a site (check Andrea’s blog post) and they bite, then we know that they are accepting us, they have good feeling about us.

Because if not, then they should have asked tough questions.

jon zolskyOh, you put it on the Internet… So what? Who will find it there among billions of other records?

Oh, you will put an ad in local Pennysaver, so what happens next? Will it turn into a DollarLost?

What is your favorite color?

Krista Lombardi
Prudential Calfornia Realty - San Diego, CA

Very informative, Jon. Let me share this with others. :)

Feb 10, 2011 04:35 PM
Chirag Shah
Gateway Realty Corp of N.Y. - Mamaroneck, NY
Chirag Shah

Lol, this is so cool! Thanks, Jon!

Feb 10, 2011 05:29 PM
Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Jon, first of all, I cannot believe I ruined your long awaited vacation, which I hope you will tell us ALL ABOUT when you return home. I am feeling quite guilty, well, not really... but anyway, it was such a surprise to see where my post led you! I was wondering, because I am never quite sure where you are going to end up! (LOL)

I got it, took me a few re-reads to grasp what you were saying. So, how does this information translate to us... should we be asking them follow up questions after our blanket statements?

Statement: 87% (by the way, this percentage changes depending on who you are speaking to) of home buyers start their search on the internet.

Follow up question, how would you like them to find your home? With professional style pictures that will draw them in? With descriptions that will weave a story of how wonderful your home and neighborhood really are?

Perhaps I am not getting it, or there is nothing that can be done about it. And now I am thinking that you have ruined my time while you are on vacation!!!! :D

My favorite color for a car is red... red red red... although I have seen an orange car driving around town that is causing me to rethink that color... And yes, my favorite color would depend on what you are talking about. Interesting, I always have a hard time answering that question because my favorite color changes from thing to thing.

Feb 10, 2011 10:01 PM
Edward Peterson
eDrake - Hamden, CT
eDrake; CT

My favorite color is green and throughout my real estate career I have believed that selling service has not changed for thousands of years: If you know people that trust you and you in turn are worth that trust and do things to accomplish what it is the trusting one wants you will be successful, that good deed will spread to people you don't know but will trust you to work for them because of third party endorsement. All the rest are just the sizzle no the steak, most sales people make easy buyers.  

Feb 11, 2011 12:30 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
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Sheila - it is really not. Same as when a guy asks you about your occupation, and in one case you would gladly tell him what you are doing for living, and in the  other you suggest that his minds his own business.

Nothing about your occupation, but everything about the context of the situation

Feb 11, 2011 12:37 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
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Jack - I think than you just know that. If everything is attacked, you just knnow that the person sees life in all shades of grey, and is in a miserable state of mind at this point.

Feb 11, 2011 12:44 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
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Krista - it is all yours

Feb 11, 2011 12:45 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
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Chirag - I am not sure I understand what is cool here, but hey, thanks for stopping by.

Feb 11, 2011 12:46 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
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Andrea - but it never was a rebuttal, or a direct responce to your blog. It was an inspiration. This idea came when I was reading your blog.

Of course, it is not about the color. We have favorite colors, it is a matter of choosing how to respond.

To simplify it, there are two answers:

1. It is red

2. None of your freakin business

And then you can interpret it in regards to color, or in regards to a state of mind of the person, his mood, and your chances of chmoosing him/her into byuing something, or even listening to you

Feb 11, 2011 12:51 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
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Edward - I think 80% to 90% of my business come from internet. Trust on the internet is different that how it was 50 years ago.

Feb 11, 2011 12:58 AM
Jill Sackler
Charles Rutenberg Realty Inc. 516-575-7500 - Long Beach, NY
LI South Shore Real Estate - Broker Associate

This is a really informative study. I would never have known that a simple question could be so telling about one's personality. I actually love the color yellow but I don't have a single possession (clothing, car or otherwise) in that color. Now, what does that say about me?

Feb 11, 2011 01:02 AM
Mike Saunders
Retired - Athens, GA

Jon - interesting, my favorite color suit is none. I would guess that my favorite color pants is some shade of khaki. Good questioners don't leave a clue as to what they are looking for. However, we need to be a bit more obvious with buyers. And with sellers also.

Feb 11, 2011 01:56 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
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Jill - the color you love says nothing about your personality, or your mood. But the manner you volunteer the infomation about it, or not volunteer a lot can tell others whether you were perceptive to the message or the messenger.

Feb 11, 2011 02:48 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
Buy Daytona condos for heavenly good prices

Mike - selling is a skill and not about niceties. We use words, we ceate impressins, and whether we like it or not, we are manipulating with our knowledge and presentation skills.

So, we can either do it well, or poorly. Honesty is great, and I would not want to deal with dishonest people, but it is not the only thing we need.

We need the skills, the set of skills, and gauging the process is not a bad thing at all. Being able to recognize the signals that the other party sends us is important.

But it is not always a natural process..

Feb 11, 2011 02:53 AM
Karen Kruschka
RE/MAX Executives - Woodbridge, VA
- "My Experience Isn't Expensive - It's PRICELESS"

My favorite color is whatever goes with my white hair - anything pale is a loser

Feb 11, 2011 08:49 AM
Faye Y. Taylor
StepStone Realty, LLC - Floresville, TX
Country Living with City Convenience -Wilson Co TX

I love this post and the comments.  My favorite color changes with time.  One year it might be blue, another brown.  So would  I respond:  In what year?

Loved Jack's comment.   You can tell if they are shades of gray by their attitude.

Feb 11, 2011 12:19 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
Buy Daytona condos for heavenly good prices

Karen - I thought everything goes with white...

Feb 11, 2011 12:27 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
Buy Daytona condos for heavenly good prices

Faye - I guess it would be fair to say that we get more information from the answer, than just the answer itself.

Feb 11, 2011 12:28 PM
Rebecca Gaujot, RealtorĀ®
Lewisburg, WV
Lewisburg WV, the go to agent for all real estate

Jon, it is late for me to be reading this post...I did read it twice! i'LL JUST SAY my favorite color for clothes is red....

Feb 11, 2011 01:51 PM
Geri Sonkin
Douglas Elliman Real Estate 516-457-7103 - Merrick, NY
Long Island Real Estate & Staging Expert

I find this intriguing.  It would never have occured to me to ask "color of what"  about my favorite color.  I love your comment "we get more from the answer than the answer itself."  How true.

Feb 11, 2011 04:29 PM