This is a true story and the lessons are important for Buyers and Sellers. It all started when the Buyer agreed to a condition in the contract, regretted it later and tried to get out of the contract. As the back and forth went on between the parties the good will and excitement were replaced with negativity and mistrust.
Through it all the agents on both sides were performing miracles trying to keep the clients focused on the end goal. After many delays the deal was moving to closing. However there was one more thing the buyer wanted. The home inspector suggested that a HVAC expert examine the furnace. The buyers insisted that they hire this inspector since they did not trust the Seller. The Seller agreed on the condition that only the agents be present at this inspection because he did not trust the Buyers.
At the day of the inspection, the Buyers come on to the property, having previously agreed not to. The infuriated Seller cancels the contract. Both parties lose money and three months of the summer selling period and the opportunity to sell and buy.
What should the Sellers and Buyers learn from this story?
- Understand the contract and all the implications of what you are committing to. Understand the precise meaning of words. If it says “ documentation”, specify what kind of documentation. You may not be able to go back and make changes after the lawyers approve the contract.
- Act in good faith. Do not try to get out of the commitments made by parsing the words in the contract. It undermines the trust between the parties and creates problems along the way.
- Understand the Inspection provisions - how many inspections and what kind, who will perform them, what would be the follow-up procedures,etc.
- Use agents as intermediaries and trust their advice and opinions –that’s what you are paying them for. The agents can separate the emotion from the reality and help parties focus on their end objectives.
- The property belongs to the Seller until the end of closing. Buyers should understand this and not come to the property without the Seller’s permission. It is against the law.

If you have any questions regarding buying or selling your home in Princeton, NJ area, please call Faina Sechzer at 609-553-4175.