I know this subject gets beaten to death, but it is so easy to get off track in this business. It is often difficult to determine whether the course you have chosen is the right one, whether you should continue, adjust or abandon a certain direction or decision.  Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence.

This 5 Point Plan, from "The Success Series" focuses on the importance of staying the course, especially remaining true to what you believe in. If your heart has guided you, and logic supports you, don't be blinded by worrywarts and naysayers, stay the course, go the distance.

1. Understanding Perseverance: Perseverance means to continue steadily in some state, purpose, course of action, or the like, in spite of opposition. Perseverance means to never give up. Failure is what happens when you quit, not when you continue. The road to success is dotted with parking lots, filled with the failure of those that were not willing to get up, and try again.

2. Avoiding Pessimists: It has been said that difficult goals and incredible dreams take time, and impossible ones take a little longer. Expect resistance as you travel the road to success, especially from those who don't understand, or from those who might be embarrassed by your success. Stay clear of the pessimists and intentionally get close to positive re-enforcement people and messages with strong, uplifting themes that feed your dream.

3. Staying Focused: Even before physical stamina comes into play, your mental attitude must be able to pull you through. Staying on track is vitally important. Of course you need to adjust your sails for the changing wind but know your goal and don't lose focus, don't loose interest and don't loose your drive.

4. Pacing Yourself: If the journey you've selected is a long one, pace yourself. The race is not always won by the swift but very often by those that keep on going. Your goal is to reach the end ... remember it's a marathon and not a sprint. Ignore short term difficulty and rejection - they are mere parking lots full of broken dreams.

5. Learn from the Best: If your goal is a Mount Everest then seek out a climber that has already scaled the peak and reached the summit. The best advice usually comes from someone who achieved a similar goal to yours; there are very few truly unique challenges in life. You can also gain guidance from those that have persevered and triumphed over adversity by learning never to quit.

Ninety percent of the perseverance battle is knowing that what you are doing is right and worth the fight. In the midst of doubt and fear, perseverance can get forced out like water through a sieve. Plug the holes. Remember why you are doing this.

This article is part of "The Success Series" by Stefan Swanepoel. He is author of 13 books and reports.

For more information, visit http://www.swanepoel.com/.

 

6 Comments on Don’t be blinded by worrywarts and naysayers

SEP
25
2007
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The market is never quite as bad as all the pessimists would have you believe - neither is it as good as the media would suggest during boom times!
3:55pm • #1

That is so true Kaushik.  The news is always full of doom and gloom for the housing market these days. 

4:00pm • #2
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These are words to live by.  Your post has been featured in Blogging & SEO.
7:08pm • #3
I make it a point to avoid the chronically negative. We all know at least a few of them. I'm far from a new-age kind of guy, but i do believe in the power generated by a group of positive, dedicated people.
8:47pm • #4
OCT
03
2007
159,695 Points Localism Sponsor Outside Blog

Bruce,

Very true and thank you for sharing.

If you listen to TV/radio talk shows all you get is the bad.....I on the other hand fight the good fight to be positive and hope that I can even the field for me and my peeps.......

Keep the faith!

9:49am • #5
NOV
16
2007
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Words well spoken!  Focus and persistent will help you keep the ship afloat and on course in rough waters.  Life is a journey but so many folks want to make it a 40 yard dash!
5:02am • #6

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