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At some point, we all realize that we have no clue. We are kids that don't even know how to play. Yet then we pick up the ball, bounce it a few times, and fairly soon we are making new friends. 

I’m sure we are all experts in various things- one of my strengths is writing. I’ve written media copy, magazine articles, classified ads, government grants, a book or two, technical manuals, job postings, executive presentations, lines for stand-up comedy, intensive plot for theatre, and a few strange ideas on post-it notes.

When you are an expert in a specific field, you often have a lot of extra information in your head that just comes out naturally. Being an expert also gives you plenty of leeway from readers as they will typically give you the benefit of the doubt (unless you say something that sounds absolutely bizarre!).

As a blogger though, one of the things I like the most is that it gives me a chance to write about things that I may not be an expert in. It gives me a place to write down my thoughts and express my way of thinking on subjects that touch my interests.

So to help everyone with writing- here are some of my 'Ground Rules' for blogging.  

Establish trust. Using a charismatic demeanour with your audience helps establish yourself. The mood of your writing has just as much to say as the content of your writing. Blog readers want to know both the personal and the professional aspects of a blog author.

Do your research. When writing about topics take the time to check your numbers. Even if you are writing about something you know like the back of your hand, take a moment to double-check your information. The more mistakes you make on factual data the more questions will arise in your readerships trust.

Try to be logical. Before writing an article in your blog, take a moment to relax and gather your thoughts. As you finish the article, take a moment to read through it and think of “A,B,C” structure. Ask yourself if your primary points are defined, and does each point in the article flow into the next?

Try to use examples. If you are an expert in a specific field, try to use an example. My article about online communities compares them to birthday parties. You can avoid using industry jargon by describing what you do with a comparative idea.

Be your own technical editor. One of the joys of blogging is that you can hit the ‘submit’ key without a second thought. Try to avoid doing that. Instead take a moment to read through your post and read it out loud. A lot of spelling and grammatical errors will reveal themselves when read out loud.

Use a picture. We all know pictures say a thousand words. Try to find a few images that can add a visual element to your writing. This element is especially important with longer articles.

Write to your audience. Remember who is reading your article. If industry jargon works for them, use it. If a bad joke makes sense, laugh out loud. Do not write technical papers for creative minds, and don’t be impersonal when blogging (its all about being personal!)

Be social. Make friends. No one likes a bully. Think of blogging like being the new kid in a park, play nice and respect people and pretty soon you'll find you have plenty of friends.

(P.S. That photo is my son two years ago!)

 

35 Comments on Why blogging and being a kid are nearly identical

Great tips !!  I try and write blogs that reflect my personality.  Usually no one reads them or responds to them.  What the heck is a tag cloud and how do you use it ?

11/20/2006 07:07 PM by Lauren Corna, Broker Associate, CNS (Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage)


thanks! those are the obvious-yet-so-often missed points that we should all keep in mind. =)

11/20/2006 07:10 PM by Leigh Brown Charlotte NC Broker/Owner (RE/MAX Signature Properties)


The reading the blog out loud works for me. 

Finding a picture that I want to use with the blog some times takes me the longest.

11/20/2006 07:12 PM by George Souto (McCue Mortgage Co.)


Everytime I read it out loud Broker Bryant, my husband, says "What"..."What"..."What"...:0)...TLW...ROAR!

11/20/2006 07:25 PM by "The Lovely Wife"...Broker Bryant's Wife... (Co-Owner Tutas Towne Realty, Inc.)


Barry,

Great post and great points you made in your "Ground Rules".  Those are the things that make a post interesting and entertaining, at least to me and I suspect many others as well.

Ann Cummings

 

11/20/2006 07:30 PM by Portsmouth NH Real Estate ~ Ann Cummings (RE/MAX Coast to Coast - Portsmouth New Hampshire)


Wow, Barry, adorable kid.  Excellent post.  because we are using this channel to promote our businesses, it is so important to remember to be professional and maintain credibility by referencing valuable authoritative sources.

11/20/2006 07:32 PM by Mary McKnight (1parkplace)


Angela- I think we are all kids at heart. So blogging shouldn't be to hard for us. ;)

Lauren- I'll read your blogs that have personality. I'll answer your tag cloud question too. :)

Leigh- I think you nailed it. We often miss the obvious stuff. 

George- I use www.bigstockphoto.com for quick and cheap images. 

Lovely Wife, I'm going to keep my sense of humour under control otherwise I'd go down a dangerous trail with that comment.

Ann- I'm with you. The things on this list are really what I consider the fundamental aspects of blogging. Sometimes my other writing friends throw me a new one to post on my monitor. :)

Mary- Thank you. I think the best part of that post is my son. ;)

11/20/2006 07:39 PM by Barry Hurd (123 Social Media)


Take on the danger...I'm sure it would be quite interesting...Is that a dare?...That's for you to decide...I promised Mary I would behave. Guess I just broke that promise...I can't do it man...LOL...TLW...ROAR!

11/20/2006 07:50 PM by "The Lovely Wife"...Broker Bryant's Wife... (Co-Owner Tutas Towne Realty, Inc.)


Barry, some really great stuff. I especially like the first point about establishing trust. We need to convey a sense of who we are personally in our blogs, a certain measure of transparency, if you will. Even if your blog is of a factual nature, show how the iinformation you're sharing has affected or impacted your own life, give some practical application. But always try to let a little bit of your soul come through in what you write.

11/20/2006 07:56 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


Thanks Barry, great topic.  Cute child!  Thanks for sharing!

11/20/2006 08:11 PM by Cynthia Sloop (Community Property Manager)


thanks for the good advice. I for one have to think for a while before I write.

11/20/2006 08:53 PM by Rob Wills (Gilpin Realty Inc.)


Great advice Barry.  I, like TLW do the same thing - I read aloud and my husband keeps saying "what, you calling me, Huh?  Hun - who are you talking to?" 

BTW- adorable child.. he looks like he is thinking of a great post....

11/20/2006 09:52 PM by Christine Forgione - Associate Broker (1)


You wrote the ground rules and then you followed them. Good post and how about a more recent photo of your son who is a really cute kid.

www.HomeRome.com

Baltimore,Md

11/20/2006 09:59 PM by Margaret Rome- Baltimore, Md.-HomeRome.com (TREC-Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome)


Barry.... even though Mary McKnight gives some great tips,this was well done....and very refreshing.

And I agree with George....sometimes the pictures take the longest. I just did a blog on Philadelphia Sports. It was a follow up to my previous blog, The city of Philadelphia and the basic information about Philly. The sports blog probably took me the longest to write. About 4 hours.... I had to do a lot of research... wow... I didn't think it was going to take that long.

Anyhow...thanks again for these great tips. And like you said, Leigh hit it on the head. I love reading things that are shared.

11/20/2006 10:36 PM by Jeff Belonger -- The FHA Expert.com -- FHA Loans -- FHA mortgages -- Mortgages (Infinity Home Mortgage Company, Inc)


Will keep these tips in mind when/if I start a blog of my own.  Thanks!

11/20/2006 10:42 PM by Kaushik Sirkar (Call Realty, Inc.)


Hi Barry I don't think we have officially met yet. Is that a Spiderman ball your son has? He is a doll! Very nicely outlined and I am going to bookmark it.

One thing I would add is, I frequently hit the submit button and then go back and edit, uh, two or three times? Even with spell check there are words that somehow escape me, or a point a want to convey, because in draft mode, the letters are small lol  So if you DO hit submit too soon, at least the edit button is our friend!

11/20/2006 11:03 PM by Carole Cohen Realtor®, ePRO (Howard Hanna Cleveland City Office)


Very good info, and ideas here!  I love all the tips. ... the edit button is my friend, too. Somehow the strangest things get past me...

11/21/2006 12:27 AM by Mariana Wagner ~ Colorado Springs REALTOR® (Wagner iTeam -Keller Williams Clients' Choice)


 Great post Barry, especially the points re "Establish trust" and "Write to your audience". Just being ourselves, talking about what we really know and writing the way we talk in everyday conversation helps builds credibility.

11/21/2006 12:55 AM by The Blog Artist - marti garaughty (The Art Of Marketing You)


When I blog, I imagine who I'm writing to/for, put that person in a comfortable chair beside my pool, pour a cool drink for us, and just start "talking".

When I comment on a blog, I imagine that we're chatting our on the dock, watching the boats go off to see the sunset. 

11/21/2006 05:03 AM by Sharon Simms St Pete Florida CRS CIPS CLHMS (RE/MAX Metro)


Gorgeous son Barry and great tips on how to start blogging.  I'm enjoying my new playground!

11/21/2006 05:36 AM by Chris Tesch College Station, Texas Real Estate (RE/MAX Bryan College Station)


"Christine" aka NY Chick...I have decided to use the duct tape on his mouth while I Blog. He really interferes with my concentration...:0)...TLW...ROAR!

11/21/2006 06:32 AM by "The Lovely Wife"...Broker Bryant's Wife... (Co-Owner Tutas Towne Realty, Inc.)


And as kids, the more we play, hopefully the better we get at it.  It's called practice, practice, practice.  Having some great coaches doesn't hurt!

11/21/2006 09:38 AM by Suzanne Marriott, Associate Broker, CLHMS, e-PRO (Keller Williams Realty Professional Partners)


If blogging had been around when I was a kid, I would likely be a whole lot better at it now than I am currently.  Following directions from Mary McKnight and others, I feel like I'm making progress!

11/21/2006 10:32 AM by Tony Marriott, Associate Broker, CRP, CLHMS, CRB, CRS ~~ Phoenix Arizona (Keller Williams Realty Professional Partners)


Barry wrote: "Do your research." 

Research? 

I was accused once of having done research on an Active Rain blog once.....Maybe a lot of research was the problem.  If you are a good enough blogger can't you just pull posts out of your

Great stuff Barry.

 

11/21/2006 12:00 PM by Maureen McCabe - Central Ohio real estate (Real Living HER)


Wow. I leave my computer for the night and get a billion responses.

Thanks for the comments everyone. This really goes to show that the users on AR are not just users, they are a community. It is refreshing to hear some like-minded comments and some good-natured jokes. 

I have to agree with people on the 'edit' button. If only my real world life came with an edit button I would be sooooo happy. ;)

11/21/2006 02:59 PM by Barry Hurd (123 Social Media)


Barry, I will take one of those "edit" buttons when they become available. I already have an "ignore" button on my cell phone. And it really works!

www.homerome.com

Baltimore,Md

11/21/2006 03:04 PM by Margaret Rome- Baltimore, Md.-HomeRome.com (TREC-Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome)


Barry, I like your new profile picture. Definitely improves your marketing appeal.

11/21/2006 03:06 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


Try the mute button on the remote. Sometimes that works for me!...:0)...TLW...ROAR!

11/21/2006 03:12 PM by "The Lovely Wife"...Broker Bryant's Wife... (Co-Owner Tutas Towne Realty, Inc.)


Rich-  I'm amazed anyone looks at my picture. I thought it would scare off people. :)

Laughingly almost all my photos look like I'm wearing sunglasses because I have very sensitive photo-gray lenses that darken even in a regular room. 99% of my photos are with my glasses on (otherwise I'd be bumping into things all day!) 

11/21/2006 03:23 PM by Barry Hurd (123 Social Media)


I guess I just tend to be somewhat visual. Your current pic is just more personable and down-to-earth. The other one was too "Hey-I'm-a-ski-bum-toolin-around-in-my-Beamer" kinda thing.

11/21/2006 03:27 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


Very good points and well written!  I'm always careful to proofread what I write, but I will be even more aware of the flow from now on - thanks! Your son is a cutie! I had to resist adding photos of my three little grandsons and that is no small feat...:-) But it's your blog!

 

Deb

11/21/2006 07:32 PM by Deb Salkeld- - Your Real Estate Virtual Assistant (Diversified Data Solutions, L.L.C.)


Wow Barry,

Just yesterday we were talking about chips and headsets and look where you are today!

I thought your picture looked different but attributed it to dementia.

Very nice blog, we all need help here. Some, more than others follow your first rule.   TLW, for example is very personal, if you haven't read her blogs, here one. Be prepared b4 you read it:)

11/21/2006 08:56 PM by Karen Hurst ~ Real Estate Broker ~ Warwick ~ Rhode Island (Storm Realty LLC)


Cute kid , i agree that using logic is key...........

11/22/2006 02:00 AM by Eddy Martinez (Nationwide Funding Group)


I just had to leave you a comment to say that you are so inspirational!  I always love reading your writings, no matter what the topic. As for blogging...I'm not so up to speed on the whole underground world, but with you as a friend and a teacher, I'm sure I will find my way! :)

11/22/2006 08:25 PM by Angela V.


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