"The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers." ~M. Scott Peckmy daily insights

I love this quote.  It serves as a great reminder to us all that the adversity we suffer truly does make us stronger.  We all have the opportunity go learn and grow especially when times are tough.

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A Red Marble

During the waning years of the depression in a small southeastern Idaho community, I used to stop by Mr. Miller's roadside stand for farm fresh produce as the season made it available. Food and money were still extremely scarce and bartering was used, extensively.

One particular day Mr. Miller was bagging some early potatoes for me. I noticed a small boy, delicate of bone and feature, ragged but clean, hungrily apprising a basket of freshly picked green peas. I paid for my potatoes but was also drawn to the display of fresh green peas. 

I am a pushover for creamed peas and new potatoes. Pondering the peas, I couldn't help overhearing the conversation between Mr. Miller and the ragged boy next to me.

"Hello Barry, how are you today?"

"Hello Mr. Miller, Fine, thank you. Just admiring those peas...sure look good."

"They are good, Barry. How's your Mother?"

"Fine. Getting stronger all the time."

"Good. Anything I can help you with?"

"No, Sir. Just admiring those peas."

"Would you like to take some home?"

"No, Sir. I don't have anything to pay for them with."

"Well, what have you to trade me for some of those peas?"

"All I have is my prize marble here."

"Is that right? Let me see it."

"Here it is. She's a dandy."

"I can see that. Hmmmm, only thing is this one is blue and I sort of go for red. Do you have a red one like this at home?"

"Not exactly...but, almost."

"Tell you what. Take this sack of peas home with you and next trip this way let me look at that red marble."

"Sure will. Thanks, Mr. Miller."

Mrs. Miller, who had been standing nearby, came over to help me. With a smile she said: "There are two other boys like him in our community, all three are in very poor circumstances. Jim just loves to bargain with them for peas, apples, tomatoes or whatever."

"When they come back with their red marbles, and they always do, he decides he doesn't like red after all and he sends them home with a bag of produce for a green marble or an orange one, perhaps."

I left the stand, smiling to myself, impressed with the man. A short time later I moved to Utah but I never forgot the story of this man, the boys and their bartering.

Several years went by each more rapid than the previous one. Just recently I had occasion to visit some old friends in that Idaho community and while I was there learned that Mr. Miller had died. They were having his viewing that evening and knowing my friends wanted to go, I agreed to accompany them. Upon our arrival at the mortuary we fell into line to meet the relatives of the deceased and to offer whatever words of comfort we could.

Ahead of us in line were three young men. One was in an army uniform and the other two wore nice haircuts, dark suits and white shirts...very professional looking. They approached Mrs. Miller, standing smiling and composed, by her husband's casket. Each of the young men hugged her, kissed her on the cheek, spoke briefly with her and moved on to the casket. Her misty light blue eyes followed them as, one by one, each young man stopped briefly and placed his own warm hand over the cold pale hand in the casket. Each left the mortuary, awkwardly, wiping his eyes. Our turn came to meet Mrs. Miller.

I told her who I was and mentioned the story she had told me about the marbles. Eyes glistening she took my hand and led me to the casket. "Those three young men, that just left, were the boys I told you about. They just told me how they appreciated the things Jim "traded" them. Now, at last, when Jim could not change his mind about color or size...they came to pay their debt.

"We've never had a great deal of wealth of this world," she confided, but, right now, Jim would consider himself the richest man in Idaho."

With loving gentleness she lifted the lifeless fingers of her deceased husband. Resting underneath were three, magnificently shiny, red marbles.

We will not be remembered by our words, but by our kind deeds.

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11 Comments on Motivational Monday

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Karen, I would agree that sometimes these moments occur during OUR greatest discomforts... but they can occur as well when we meet others who are facing their own greatest discomforts... and we somehow have the "presence of mind" to help them.

A great post.  < suggested >

** Yikes, I just noticed that I have not subscribed to your blog.  I thought I had done that like a year ago.  So... I have subscribed.  Please forgive my oversight.  Duh.

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Karen

Congrats on  a great post, and a great subscriber in Karen.

11:26pm • #2
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Karen - I'm honored.  And yes, it's we are so fortunate to be able to learn from others.

Scott - Thank you.

12:02am • #3
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What a wonderful and inspirtional story.  These kinds of tales always make me realize that I really could be doing more to make the world a better place...

12:12am • #4
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Karen... I am honored that you are honored.  < smile >  I am also a doofus for not realizing I had not subscribed long ago.  Note to anyone reading this post.  Karen is a great blogger... and I suggest you subscribe to her blog.

12:34am • #5
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Karen, what a great quote and thanks for the link - I'm definiately signing up.  Some days, a little boost is needed, like today!!! 

Karen Anne, Karen is the main reason I really got into the notion and value of blogging - she's AWESOME!!!!

12:42am • #6
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Karen, It's a touching story, and you wonder how many Mr. Millers are hiding among us, doing the good works that need done.

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Karen, just like gold is refined through fire, so are we refined by life's fires that we walk through.

2:58pm • #8
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Karen, how very true...the little things we can do. I met two home inspectors today...they are well know for the gift basket they bring to each home while inspecting it. The highlight has to be the bottled water with their faces on it. LOL

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Janna - so glad you enjoyed the story.  I think it also reminds us that we make more of an impact than we realize.

Karen - Thanks so much - now the pressure is on - I'll do my best not to disappoint you. 

Juli - I'm blushing! 

BLiz - I'd venture to guess there are a lot of Mr. Millers here in the Rain - yourself included!

George  - well said.

Ellen - it really doesn't take much to make us happy, does it!

 

10:11pm • #10
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Karen, very touchy story.

We are recognized by what we do - little things matter a lot...

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