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Friday Funnies: Relator: (Pronounced Reel-uh-tor) a relative that dabbles in your real estate transaction.

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Relator: (Pronounced Reel-uh-tor) a relative that dabbles in your real estate transaction.Friday Funnies: Relator: (Pronounced Reel-uh-tor) a relative that dabbles in your real estate transaction.

 

Usually the person who magically appears AFTER the potential buyers have utilized your services by claiming they have not been working with someone.

 

  • You get them pre-qualified
  • Research available properties
  • Drive them all around town

 

And when it comes time to signing paperwork on their dream home, get a "We need to think about this overnight."

 

You call the next day, checking to see if they're ready and you get... 

 

"Velda's nephew's sister's auntie on her mother's other side, twice removed, is a Relator and we decided to give her the business since she is family and could use the money but thank you for your time!"

 

"You were very helpful."

 

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Buying or selling a home in southern Utah? Call me at 435.632.9374 or contact me at wanda@buynsellutah.com to help because Wanda Can!

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Catarina Bannier
Compass - Chevy Chase, DC
DC Real Estate The Smart And Fun Way

Ouch, Wanda--not very funny, actually, isn't it?  Happens way too often.  And I have yet to see the agent who will insist on their procuring cause case; it's just not worth the pain.  But maybe I'm wrong about that...there are a lot of people out there that approach this a little nastier!

A referral fee might be in order, though.

Mar 25, 2011 02:13 AM
Mary Yonkers
Alan Kells School of Real Estate/Howard Hanna Real Estate - Erie, PA
Erie/PA Real Estate Instructor

Wanda--Unfortunately this isn't funny when it happens to you and yes, more than once if we have been around for awhile.  Love the graphic, too.  I suggested this post for Featured Post.

Mar 25, 2011 02:47 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally
Obviously, I've been paying my dues to the wrong organization, as I didn't realize it when considering how many times I've been a Reel-uh-tor! Thank you for the clarification
Mar 25, 2011 03:16 AM
Carla Wade
Charlotte, NC

Sorry to hear that Wanda.  Procuring cause is exactly where I was going.  But you are right Catarine, it usually isn't worth the pain.  And I hear a buyers agent agreement doesn't stand up in court.  So, sometimes Realtors get tossed aside like a dirty dish rag.

Mar 25, 2011 03:23 AM
Chris Smith
Re/Max Chay Realty Inc., Brokerage - New Tecumseth, ON
South Simcoe, Caledon, King, Orangeville Real Esta

Wanda, when I started I spent a lot of time with buyer prospects only to lose the sale to another agent.  I now work on securing the relationship with a buyer agreement before I spend a lot of time working with them...

Mar 25, 2011 03:27 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Wanda,  Wish we never had to have this happen to any of us agents, but it does way to much.  Of well, we keep working at this because we love OUR jobs!

Mar 25, 2011 04:25 AM
Liz Wallace
Century 21 Sherlock Homes - Rockville Centre, NY
Broker C21 Sherlock Homes, Rockville Centre, LI, N

Make sure they hold onto your phone number, they may need a kidney down the line and you have two.

Mar 25, 2011 04:27 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!

Another reason I completely adored you Liz Wallace, your raucous sense of humor. I miss you!

Nov 02, 2018 07:40 AM
Gerry Michaels
Glasswork Media Arts - Gettysburg, PA
GettysburgGerry Social Meida

No do not tell me that happened to you, this year we have certainly had our share of stinky clients, that sucks plain and simple. Just as bad my client who listed with another agent at the price I TOLD him to list at. Some people....I feel for you Wanda

Mar 25, 2011 04:30 AM
Craig Rutman
Helping people in transition - Cary, NC
Raleigh, Cary, Apex area Realtor

And when they say that I tell them to have ""Velda's nephew's sister's auntie on her mother's other side" to call me because since I was the procurring cause on this transaction I'll be happy to pay her a referral fee.

Mar 25, 2011 04:39 AM
Catarina Bannier
Compass - Chevy Chase, DC
DC Real Estate The Smart And Fun Way

@Liz (#11): I'd say, let the relat-ors take care of those kidney donations!!

Mar 25, 2011 04:51 AM
Rita Fong
RE/MAX REAL ESTATE TODAY, Executive Broker 901-488-9590 - Marion, AR
Realtor - Marion Arkansas Homes for Sale

Wanda, auntie, uncle, cousin, agent down the street, it doesn't matter who they are.  What is the right thing to do and loyalty, they don't exist anymore :(

Mar 25, 2011 05:01 AM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

"Velda's nephew's sister's auntie on her mother's other side is a Relator and we decided to give her the business since she is family and could use the money but thank you for your time!"

"You were very helpful."

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!

Mar 25, 2011 05:31 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Wanda - Reel-uh-tor and Reel-it-tor … classic … and hearing both make me crazy. Hearing that someone lied and used me … makes me angry.

Mar 25, 2011 06:31 AM
Tom Braatz Waukesha County Real Estate 262-377-1459
Coldwell Banker - Oconomowoc, WI
Waukesha County Realtor Real Estate agent. SOLD!

Wanda

What's funnier is how many times that actually has happened to me

Mar 25, 2011 07:00 AM
Ted Tyrrell
RE/MAXCamosun (Chatterton) - Victoria, BC
Selling Homes in Beautiful Victoria

Yup, I guess it's happened to all of us. They can make us feel Realtorn up!

Mar 25, 2011 11:29 AM
Nick T Pappas
Assoc. Broker ABR, CRS, SFR, e-Pro, @Homes Realty Group, Broker/Providence Property Mgmnt, LLC Huntsville AL - Huntsville, AL
Madison & Huntsville Alabama Real Estate Resource

Wanda, that has happened to me once or twice.  Once someone told me that they decided to use someone else because that agent was just starting out, needed the business and that I looked so busy, but thanks for all your help...what are you going to do...it happens. 

Mar 25, 2011 05:03 PM
Todd Clark - Retired
eXp Realty LLC - Tigard, OR
Principle Broker Oregon

I thought thanks to Charlie Sheen it was not Real-duh-tor (Winning) but I could be wrong. I was drinking my Tiger's blood wondering how I was going to get business tomorrow. (I guess just go to someone's family reunion and tell them I'm poor and their long lost uncle)


Mar 25, 2011 07:01 PM
Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

Wanda, funny, sad and true - all in the same post.  Well done.  I'm suggesting this one.

Mar 26, 2011 01:13 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Scott, A buyer's agreement helps!

Gary, You just have to laugh, crying is not an option!

Alan, So true!

Kenneth, It probably has happened to us all, unless we're the relator!

Catarina, It pays to get an agreement in place.

Mary, Not funny at the time for sure!

Ed, You're welcome!

Carla, Not the way I like to be treated by any means!

Chris, A relationship is based on trust from both sides.

Will, This is one experience I can do without!

Mar 26, 2011 04:24 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Liz, Ha-ha! You think I'll be compatible?!

Gerry, Lesson learned!

Craig, I do like that!

Rita, Loyalty is something I take very serious!

Roger, Grrrrrr indeed!

Kathleen, I like Craig's answer!

Tom, Now that's not funny!

Good one Ted!

Nick, It does happen unfortunately!

Ha-ha Todd! Let us know how that works out!

It is all of the above Gabe, Thank you!

Mar 26, 2011 04:33 AM