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Perfection is Out There...You Just Got To Find It.

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Sarah Cooper called me out!  Can you believe it?  Little old me, this Mortgage Broker in Allentown, Pennsylvania...so innocent and so good?  She said I was wrong.  The freaking nerve!  Ok, my SEO quota fulfilled and sarcastic self aside, my turn to retort to Active-Rain's Sweet Little Sarah.

I made mention in a recent post of something that has been on my mind since I was potty trained.  Yes, I was 15 years old and wanted to find that one sentence, one paragraph, that explains the seemingly unexplainable.  I wanted to find that something that explained life, and I wanted it to be real, sincere, and all encompassing in its concise state.  I wanted it to be, well, Perfect.

 

It exists, this perfection I seek.  Though, I haven't found or written that one sentence or paragraph...it's out there.  Perfection exists, if even only one moment in the measurement of our reality called time.

Let's think about this.  Well, I'll think about it, you can just read or unsubscribe to my blog.  Have you witnessed Perfection?  I have.  It's attainable, very much so, if even one solitary second in our lives.

  • In Our Profession, Real Estate, many of you may have experienced what I have been lucky enough to live.  That transaction that from soup to nuts, from start to finish, went perfectly.  Sometimes it takes a little bit of luck and always takes a whole lot of care and competence, but it exists...
  • The World of Sports is a great example.  How often has an athlete in their chosen sport, raced that perfect race, played that perfect game, lived that perfect season?  It happens, just not much.
  • And never forget that perfect song for the moment, that perfect answer to a question, that perfect irony to a situation.  We are surrounded by perfection, we just don't live it enough.

Sure, we are fallible.  We are human.  We make more mistakes than O.J. Simpson on a bad batch of crack cocaine, well, maybe not that many.  The point is, it is there for our taking.  That sentence will surface.  That paragraph will be written.  Perhaps they (the unannounced spirits we seek), are awaiting our very end to this very journey.

Cooper, we probably have more agreement on this than a lack there of.  Then again, I strongly believe in the power of words, the power of our mind (especially the large % we don't use for whatever reason).  Life can be explained and summed up Perfectly, I'm sure of that.  It just will never be lived that way...I'm sure of that as well.

I've never read Douglas Adams, he's probably never read me.  42?  I always liked 13....

Tolstoy didn't do it, Shakespeare didn't do it.  Morrison, Lennon, Blake, Fitzgerald, Sallinger, Dickinson, King, etc...probably never did it. 

I will find that sentence, bring to light that paragraph, and when I do...it will explain the whole freaking thing called life.  Or, I'll just sit back and be Perfectly Imperfect and write every once in awhile...

As far as two words.....Good Night:-)

 

Jason Sardi
Auto & Home & Life Insurance throughout North Carolina - Charlotte, NC
Your Agent for Life
....and those Eagles....I'm just 'Hanging' out:-)
Sep 28, 2007 01:35 PM
Maggie Dokic /Indialantic | 321-252-8696
Magdalena Dokic - Indialantic, FL
Selling the beach in Florida's space coast

I'll stop now.  I realized how pathetic it is that it's Friday night and I'm home.  =/

Sep 28, 2007 01:40 PM
Desiree Daniels
RE/MAX Tri County - Robbinsville, NJ

hmmm  Perfection is a huge goal, but is it obtainable??  Who knows.  I do know that I won't waste alot of my precious time just to achieve one moment to be called "perfection".  I will live each day to the fullest with no expectations - other than to have a great day

Okay those are my deep thoughts for today... you may all rest now :)

Sep 28, 2007 03:08 PM
Tracy Santrock
Santrock Realty Group Inc. , - Cary, NC
Raleigh - Cary Broker
Perfectly imperfect? That's an Oxymoron if I've every heard one.  Hmm..today perfection..and in your next posts you talk about imperfection and some of your low notes...that's quite a pendulum swing.  Yes, we do enjoy reading your insights....:)
Sep 28, 2007 11:20 PM
Jason Sardi
Auto & Home & Life Insurance throughout North Carolina - Charlotte, NC
Your Agent for Life

Shoot Maggie, we should go out for drinks:-)

Desiree - I definately need to go for drinks with you!

Tracy - A puzzle, a anomaly, yup....that me:-)  BTW, thank you!

Sep 28, 2007 11:29 PM
Derek and Mariana Wagner
The Artisan Group- Keller Williams Premier Realty - Colorado Springs, CO
The Artisan Group - Colorado Springs REALTORS®
Whistling in the Dark ... That is all I have to say. Whistling in the dark.
Sep 29, 2007 04:24 AM
Minnesota Home Staging Firm, Minnesota
Minnesota Home Staging Network~ MN's Top Home Staging Firm - Inver Grove Heights, MN
Hmmm....so there is such a thing as perfect? 
Sep 29, 2007 07:45 AM
Jason Sardi
Auto & Home & Life Insurance throughout North Carolina - Charlotte, NC
Your Agent for Life

Mariana - Makes me want to learn how to whistle:-)

I believe there is Beth, I just think we are perfectly unaware to find it on a consistent basis.

Sep 29, 2007 07:50 AM
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/ - York, PA
Dare to dream, I say!  But it seems it would be a long sentence :)  
Sep 29, 2007 01:17 PM
Jason Sardi
Auto & Home & Life Insurance throughout North Carolina - Charlotte, NC
Your Agent for Life
Lol Jeff, perhaps even a paragraph:-)
Sep 29, 2007 01:58 PM
Jennifer Monroe
Indigo Home Team powered by Compass - Charlotte, NC
Real Estate REALTOR®/Broker/Designer
I have quite the assignment for you Mr. Sardi! I hope you can swim...
Sep 29, 2007 02:54 PM
Jason Sardi
Auto & Home & Life Insurance throughout North Carolina - Charlotte, NC
Your Agent for Life
I can do backstrokes if need be Jennifer...:-)
Sep 29, 2007 04:33 PM
Paul Slaybaugh
Homesmart - Scottsdale, AZ
Scottsdale, AZ Real Estate

Oh my God, Jason, you sound like all of my buyers right now!  Stop giving them ideas before I run out of (in no certain order):

  • Gas
  • Patience
  • Ammunition

Perfection is indeed out there, and I am quite confident it can be found in one of the 250 houses we've looked at!

Sep 29, 2007 05:18 PM
Jason Sardi
Auto & Home & Life Insurance throughout North Carolina - Charlotte, NC
Your Agent for Life

LMAO Paul!

To All Paul's Prospective Buyers,

Perfection exists in the last house you looked at.  It is the perfect price in the perfect market with perfect features in a perfect neighborhood.  To top it all off, you have the perfect Realtor in 'Perfect' Paul Slaybaugh.  Now get on with that Perfect Purchase!

Regards,

Jason Michael Sardi

Sep 29, 2007 11:30 PM
blreast therealty4u
Beach and Luxury Realty, Inc. - New Smyrna Beach, FL

 

perfection-  such a little word, yet so many connotations...

a perfect life... does that mean including having  a perfect death as well....

a perfect marriage.... for some does that mean no marriage at all....

a perfect job....    that includes outgrowing it as well, right?

having perfect kids..... if they're yours... must they be perfect in your eyes or the worlds estimation...

Or is it rather a defined word for a conceptual process that rather than achievement  seeks to allow for infinite striving in search of  its attainment. 

(think a perfect score of 18 on every 18 hole  round of golf  on every course in the world under every weather condition on all the days of your life!-and no matter how the greens-keeper changes things up!) oh wait, is it possible to make two holes in one with the right bounce... perhaps perfection then requires... one stroke per 18 holes... through out the known universe...) Ah Perfection the unattainable goal. 

Perhaps for some  to even be considered "Perfection" then it  must be beyond the realm of mortal man....

Maybe some of us like the 'biblical definition of the word translated often as "perfect" - which more fully means "MATURE"....  oh so...

does that really mean we come closest to perfection...... when we are mature enough to know:

WE'RE really NOT?

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so yes, Virginia.... maybe "Perfection is OUT THERE..."    beyond where the touch of  human hands can spoil its reality.

 

Oct 02, 2007 04:09 AM
Jason Sardi
Auto & Home & Life Insurance throughout North Carolina - Charlotte, NC
Your Agent for Life
WOW!
Oct 02, 2007 04:14 AM
/ /
/ - York, PA

I will end your search, Jason.  Others have jumped all around and over it.  I will offer you this from a book a know of.

 

In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.  John 1:1

 

That, my friend is perfection. 

Oct 02, 2007 08:41 AM
Jason Sardi
Auto & Home & Life Insurance throughout North Carolina - Charlotte, NC
Your Agent for Life
Not bad at all Jeff, not bad at all.
Oct 02, 2007 08:56 AM
blreast therealty4u
Beach and Luxury Realty, Inc. - New Smyrna Beach, FL

 

Now Jeff,if that is under the definition of Jason's concise and profound you're seeking.. for concise "perfect"  perhaps best to go a couple of thousands years back in the Judeo tradition.. and simplify it further..

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when asked by Moses who to say he was , God's  recorded (actually only one WORD!) reply,

 

                                                                        "I AM"

What more need be said, what more need be explained, its the metaphysical, the past, the present, the future, the authority, the possessor, the possessee, and contains and provides  full & complete cognitive awareness....

When one realizes such  'I am that I am' awareness  then has not a movement towards perfect not been fundamentally made?  Though again only the one who can utter the one word- translated "AM"  & possess it in infinite  totality has approached attaining "perfect"....under that definition.

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Oct 02, 2007 09:20 AM
M A
Boston, MA

I have found the perfect sentence...to me.  It helps me unwind if I get wound up.  It helps me put the little things into perspective.  It reminds me that no matter how bad things might seem, it could be worse.  The sentence that I find perfect and I know, it is stolen...borrowed...from my favorite shirts.  But it helps me none the less.

"Life is Good"

Oct 26, 2007 05:21 AM