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Putting Some "Irish" in Negotiation, Communication & Resolving Differences.

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One of my favorite proverbs is, "May you live in interesting times." Would you agree those times are here and now- ? If you have any doubts, simply travel abroad. You'll view current events from a fresh perspective, as I discovered on our recent trip to. Ireland. Negotiation, communication & resolving differences--possibly no nation on Earth knows more about this than the Irish. They offer us a  history lesson with  flowers to celebrate a recent resolution.

For real estate professionals  who understand the importance of negotiation, communication and resolution, Ireland's long history of conflict, from  the  mid-5th  when St. Patrick (and other missionaries)  brought Christianity, subsumed pagan beliefs and subsequently played a major role in Ireland's history, culture and internal conflict is fascinating. St Patrick

 

               Here I am, a shadow by the stone marking the place where
                                                  St. Patrick is said to be buried.

 

 

 According to Wikipedia,  "...from around 800, more than a century of Viking invasions wrought havoc upon the monastic culture and on the island's various regional dynasties, yet both of these institutions proved strong enough to survive and assimilate the invaders. The coming of Anglo-Norman mercenaries ... marked the beginning of more than 800 years of direct English involvement in Ireland. ...[A} series of military campaigns between 1534 and 1691[and]...an official English policy of plantation ... led to the arrival of thousands of English and Scottish Protestant settlers. From this period on, sectarian conflict became a recurrent theme in Irish history." 

Today, the people of Ireland are choosing negotiation and communication. Resolving differences, they have created a certain respectful peace. How did they accomplish this? They did it through talking with each other. There is an application of this in the practice of real estate, to be sure. 

Getting Perspective: We hopped the bus into Dublin, checked into our hotel and then strolled along a  main thoroughfare.  We could not believe the busy throngs of people walking wide sidewalks on this partly-sunny day. Dublin was really hopping.   Later we'd head out to a pub just down the street. Get some fish and chips.  First, however, I wanted to capture a few shots of Dublin's overflowing hanging baskets.

To me flowers overflowing  are reflective of peace and creativity, simultaneously arrived.                       

Other than the murals (see photos in coming post) depicting recent conflict that finally came to a negotiated resolution, the thing I'll probably remember most about Dublin are those flower baskets, which are reputedly the loveliest in the world. 

I have to say that  my photos on this page don't do the flower baskets justice. But I hope you get a sense of something we all can celebrate .

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Comments(24)

Roberta Murphy
San Diego Previews Real Estate - Carlsbad, CA
Carlsbad Real Estate and Homes
jane-Anne: Beautiful flowers and a lovely perspective on Ireland. Thanks for sharing!
Sep 28, 2007 01:33 AM
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Roberta~ 

And the lessons in negotiated settlement may be useful for those of us in the real estate profession and our clients...especially during challenging times. . .

Sep 28, 2007 01:42 AM
Jeff R. Geoghan
Coldwell Banker Realty - Lancaster, PA
REALTOR, Marketing Manager
You know I'm annoyed at you, of course.  My heritage is deeply Irish and I'd love to visit "the homeland".  Someday...
Sep 28, 2007 02:13 AM
Lysa Napolitano
Daytona Beach, FL
janeAnne, I think your photos are lovely! Dublin is nothing like I would have imagined! Bright colors and bright flowers, how beautiful! I guess I had imagined it more like London.
Sep 28, 2007 02:54 AM
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Jeff~

There was a family of 5 sitting next to me on the plane. The trip was amazingly easy and on time...so possibly in a couple years when the baby is ready, you all will take the adventure and go across the sea to Ireland. I sure hope so...

Sep 28, 2007 03:14 AM
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Lysa~ 

Dublin definitely is like new York or London...but still maintains that special charm. Mayb e that is why the city has attracted so many business interests in recent years...software companies in particular. (Good to note for real estate investors.)

Sep 28, 2007 03:21 AM
Lola Audu
Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate - Grand Rapids, MI
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Hi janeAnne, I am a lover of flowers and all things beautiful.  What a delightful sight to see in a major city.  Apprecaited your observations here regarding the power and value of communications in settling conflicts.  A hard fought lesson...and one from which the entire world can benefit.
Sep 28, 2007 02:01 PM
Jason Sardi
Auto & Home & Life Insurance throughout North Carolina - Charlotte, NC
Your Agent for Life
janeAnne - I agree, these are interesting times indeed.  It's peculiar, I use that proverb all the freaking time.  "May you live in interesting times."  I love that line!
Sep 28, 2007 11:34 PM
Mary McGraw
GLREA - Rockford, MI
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The flowers are beautiful and demonstrate the care the residents have for their homes and businesses in Dublin. I agree that we live in "interesting times!"
Sep 29, 2007 01:18 PM
Jeff R. Geoghan
Coldwell Banker Realty - Lancaster, PA
REALTOR, Marketing Manager
We will do it someday...
Sep 29, 2007 05:39 PM
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Lola~

The more I get outside the box, so-to-speak, of my own small territory, the more I am able to open my eyes to wise choices being made in cities and nations....ones that may surround me every day, but that I may miss...

You mentioned..."the power and value of communicationsin settling conflicts.."  just one example from which we all can take heart...and so applicable in the practice of real estate.

Sep 30, 2007 01:22 AM
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Jason~

"...interesting times...." if we can just keep our focus on the interesting and not get into fray, we all may win....again,  applicable in the practice of real estate, do you think?

Sep 30, 2007 01:24 AM
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Mary~

You pointed out that..."flowers ...demonstrate the care the residents have for their homes and businesses ..."

I am thinking now that here, too is something to bring to our a practice of real estate...
By sharing the "curb appeal"  (so easy to make happen)
 our clients (we) can bring a positive sense to our work. I'm all for that...how about you?

Sep 30, 2007 01:29 AM
Eva Armstrong
Environmental Visions - Tallahassee, FL
Environmental Visions
janeAnne-  Great photos -- and it sounds like you thoroughly enjoyed Ireland!  I visited in 1993, and fell in love with the land, the people, it is a wonderful place and I am so glad they have chosen the path to peace.  It is hard to believe a country that beautiful was so torn by war....Thank you.
Sep 30, 2007 02:09 AM
Michael I. Pulskamp
Mainstreet Brokers - Jackson, CA
REALTOR, EcoBroker, GREEN Desingnee

JaneAnne,

I'm jealous, I want to go back. Sounds like you had a great time, did you do any of your own driving or were you on a bus? I LOVE driving in Ireland. they sure do have many things worked out that we could learn from.

Are you familiar with the instant run-off voting system that they use? What a great system. No throw away votes, for the candidate that you want, but don't vote for because the vote would spoil your second choice.

Did you get up into the occupied counties? That is often quite the education in itself.

I hold out hope for this round of talks, but I will always be skeptical of the politics involved there. "Once bitten and all that". You do know that the recent "Troupe pull-out" did not actually mean that the British army removed their troupes. Just redeployed to barracks duty, in other words, right there!

 

Sep 30, 2007 08:15 AM
Susan Trombley
Trombley Real Estate - Wake Forest, NC
Broker/Realtor, Raleigh, Cary, Wake Forest, Youngs
Looks like you had a great time and it was hard for you to come back. Way to much fun. But look at it this way, you can always go back.
Oct 01, 2007 05:51 AM
Ann Cummings
RE/MAX Shoreline - NH and Maine - Portsmouth, NH
Portsmouth NH Real Estate Preferrable Agent

janeAnne - we do certainly live in interesting times, that's for sure!  Your pictures are wonderful, and I love how you brought Irish philosophies into this post.....we could all do with a little help in resolving conflicts at times.

Ann

Oct 06, 2007 04:00 AM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE
It's nice to know that they are taking an alternative route to resolving their differences...or at least making an attempt. Long overdue.  Beautiful flowers!
Oct 06, 2007 07:56 AM
Diane Velikis
Coldwell & Banker Busch Real Estate - Luzerne, PA
Luzerne County Real Estate
Jane Ann, I hope that they are able to live in peace once and for all! I have a friend who visited Irland and she told me of the beauty. Your pictures are truly spectacular!
Oct 06, 2007 08:16 AM
Debbie Malone
Londeree's Real Estate & Property Management - Lynchburg, VA
From Lynchburg To The Lake (434) 546-0369
St. Patrick's Day ClipartGreat Post Jane Ann, Love your photo's and hope to one day go back to Ireland myself!
Oct 08, 2007 12:29 PM