Being a mortgage broker, I have been present at numerous settlements.  It is our company policy that we attend our settlements. A policy that I whole-heartley agree with.

My customer currently lives in New Jersey.  She has an hour commute to work every day, each way. Therefore she decided to buy someing here in Pennsylvania.  She found a home close by in Emmaus.

As usual, the settlement was going rather well, since I pre-closeall my loans.  I do not like surprises at the settlement table. In attendance besides me was my customer and her husband (the buyers), both buyer's and seller's REALTORS®, the seller and her 2 sons.

The seller, Anna, is 88 years old.  She and her husband built that house and raised their two sons.  She has hshbeen widowed for several years now and taking care of the house was getting to be too much on her.  Until today, the seller had been a resident of her home for 56 years!   

The closing agent started to explain the paperwork to Anna for her to sign to complete the transaction.  She began to cry.  This was very difficult for her because this is her home, her life, the place where she watched her boys grow up. 

I glanced at her sons and saw that they, too, had started to tear up.  That's when it hit me:  What type of investment is a house? 

moneyWhen I think of an investment, I immediately think of money.  Many people discuss investing in real estate for profit. I learned today that is an assumption.

Anna had invested her life there.  She spoke of how much fun she had throughout the years with her neighbors, she told stories of her boys mischief and laughed.  And she began to cry again.  After all the papers were signed, she asked my customer, the new owner, to take good care of her home, and gave her well-wished for all the fond memories that she was about to create.

Anna walked away with quite a bit of money.  Unfortunately, she was sad because she felt like she lost her investment. 

 

 
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15 Comments on What kind of an investment is Real Estate?

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2007
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Ann - Sounds like Anna's wisdom knows what really is important in life and it's not green paper.
4:00pm • #1
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My last seller was 95. He built and lived in the house for 60 years. It was also quite emotional.
4:08pm • #2
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Ann, you're striking a chord with me. I have listed my house and wonder about the day I close the door behind me.  I had buyers in today.  They loved it....I'm nervous.  They're fit to be owners of MY house but I'll still be torn when it comes time to sign on the dotted line.
5:04pm • #3
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Ann, my parents retired to Virginia in 1993, my dad passed away four years ago and today my mom closed on her condo. I was fine with the packing and moving til I got to the pantry. For the last 14 years, the grandchildren's growth was charted on the inside frame. How do you take that with you? I was near tears.
9:42pm • #4
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Hi Ann - Just goes to show how much having a "home" is worth compared to just another property.
9:46pm • #5
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Ann, I also attend all my closings, and most of them are happy ones but I have had a couple that you could see the emotional attachment that that the Seller had to the house.  I can think of one in particularly where there was not only an emotional attachment, but the reason for selling the house was not by choice.  The wife broke down crying several times while signing the papers.

10:05pm • #6

Ann, thank you for attending the settlements.  As a realtor, I appreciate it when loan office do.

Many of my transactions are emotional ones.  I've seen many tears shed.  My last two have been feel good settlements.  Sellers loved the house and young couples were able to buy it for their first homes.  Although the only one crying at the last one was the 5 week old baby! 

 

10:30pm • #7
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01
2007
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Well written Ann. I gotta admit, I got a tad emotional while I read this. The investment angle is thought provoking and insightfull. That's probably what makes you so good!
9:23am • #8
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Jason-Some things are not about money.  It's a good quality to have

Wayne-I can't imgine living in the same place for 60 years

Chris-As nervous as you may get, it will all work out.  Good luck and AZ or bust!

Debbie-You can take it.  That's why the doors have hinges and we have home depot.

Ilyce-Home is where you heart is. 

George- I think I would have been teary-eyed at that swlltement

2:39pm • #9
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Judi--I will gladly come to every settlement for the customers whom you refer

Scott-Thanks Scott

 

2:49pm • #10
OCT
02
2007
As a mother you really wear your heart on your sleeve.  It is nice to see. 
11:12am • #11
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Ann, Great thought provoking post. It shows you care about your clients.
12:38pm • #12
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Gita-I do care about my customers.  Many of them become my friends.

Dan- Thank you

4:04pm • #14
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03
2007
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Ann - Somehow I think the buyers walked away with something too - knowing the home was so special to the previous owner.  As a buyer I'd almost feel a responsibility! 
1:10pm • #15

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