Are you a blog addict? Learn how to manage your time blogging more effectively by planning your blog so you spend less than one hour per day writing, reading and marketing yourself in the blogosphere.  A New York Times article entitled "Hooked on the Web" quoted mental health specialists as believing that a full 6 to 10% of Internet users suffer an unhealthy addiction to the Internet – and, get this, they are ready to offer addiction recovery services. Kid you not, there are mental health professionals willing and able to make a buck off your blogging addiction. So far, I have seen the addiction labeled everything from IAD, Internet Addiction Disorder to BAD( Blog Addiction Disorder). This is a MasterCard commercial waiting to happen. Priceless, huh?


So, in the spirit of “helping” the poor, pathetic blog addicted souls reading this post, here is my blogging addiction enabler post: 12 Step Program to Managing Your Addiction. Because after all, you wouldn’t want to just up and quit blogging. Nobody wants to be considered a quitter, do they?

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The 12 Step Program to Managing a Blogging Addiction

1. Admit you have an addiction. Common signs of addiction include: having more “Internet Buddies” than real life friends, communicating with your spouse via comments on your blog and others, keeping your blackberry handy at all times in case you have an idea for a post… 
 
2.  Decide you’re not a quitter and will manage your addiction by being a functioning blogger. Yes, this means you can’t forget to feed the cat or husband because your writing an article, you still have to clean the house and close deals even when an angry commenter is wrecking havoc in your post.

Read also: Top 5 secrets to successful blogs

3.  Select a high quality drug, I mean, blog dealer. Get a good RSS reader so you don’t have to scour the net to read all your favorite blogs. Get all new blog posts delivered right to your feed reader or email. This will save you a considerable amount of time. Using an RSS reader will help you increase your knowledge base, provide you with topics for future blog posts and decrease the amount of time you spend aimlessly surfing the Net. Feed readers I like: Thunderbird, RSSBandit, GoogleReader and NetVibes.
 
4.  Schedule 30-45 minutes a day to research, write, and publish a blog post. Don’t waste time by spreading out your work out over many hours. Commit to yourself that you will focus for one hour and write a quality post then publish it on your own blog and/or ActiveRain.

Read also: How to plan your blog to increase traffic

5.  Promote your posts time effectively. Same thing, commit to yourself that you will spend time commenting on other blogs and syndicating your post to Digg, Real Estate Voices and/or other social news sites.

Read also: How to boost traffic in less than 1 hour per day

6.  Spend one hour per week planning your blog articles, it will save you time later. Losing sleep because you don’t know what to write about? Check out this awesome article on FamousAgents – 106 Content Ideas for the Realtor who has Nothing to Write About.

Read also: 7 Day Plan to Blog Success

7.  Network for blog vacation days. Work on developing relationships with other popular blogmasters in the industry, like Greg Swann, Pat Kitano, Joel Burslem and Jim Cronin or ones in your local area (perhaps your local golf club or chamber of commerce has a blog) and see if they would be interested in being a guest host on your blog. This 1. will help you attract new readers and 2. give you a much needed vacation form blogging. 
 
8.  Podcast, baby. Nothing saves time better than interviewing someone else and publishing the podcast. It’s a fast, cheap, and easy way to create and publish content that people care about. I always keep at least 3 podcasts on hand at any one time so if I need a blogging break, I can push one of those out. 

Read also: How Realtors can use Podcasts

Read also: How to create a Podcast

9. Hold a contest. Need 2 days worth of posts without much effort. Announce a contest on a Monday and then announce a winner on a Friday. Huge time saver right there. Check out my Funniest Real Estate Story Contest, for which I will announce the winner on Friday. When you announce a winner, always offer them a special logo that they can put on their site to show they are a winner. It will help drive traffic back to your site and people like to be winners. It’s literally a win-win situation!
 
10. Break up a long blog into a multi-part series. About to write a thesis on How to Price Your Home Competitively? Take that single topic and break it up into a few blog posts and publish it over a number of days. This is a page from Charles Dickens and it works. Did you know that A Tale of Two Cities along with many other of his works were first published as installments in magazines? Made him a household name! So, what will it do for you? It will keep traffic coming back to your blog for more information on their favorite topic and break up long posts into digestible pieces for people to implement. And, yes, I do see the irony here, I never do this. I, on the other hand, am pathetically prolific.
 
11. Review something. Such a simple post. Take 10 minutes to write a review of a product, service or town project. People like reviews and they can spark controversy. If there is a new restaurant in your town- check it out and write a review. 
 
12. Make amends. Now that you have the tools to manage your blog addiction, do what other recovered addicts do- apologize to those you have hurt. If you have a wife, I’m sure she would accept your apology if it were accompanied by a small blue box from Tiffany’s. This is a not so subtle hint to my husband that his Christmas shopping should include a trip to the jewelry store.
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56 Comments on Betty Ford for Bloggers: 12 step program to managing blog addiction

NOV
22
2006
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As always, a great blog.  When and where do the meetings start?  Although I don't have a blackberry - so does that mean my addiction is not as bad?  LOL  Does this mean I have to ask my husband for forgiveness?  Have a great Thanksgiving and thanks for the post.
10:50am • #1
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Well, while my pumpkin pie is baking...I thought I'd take a few minutes to read AR.

Yeah, I know several addicted bloggers...moi included. And, I do do some of the things that you suggest.

And, I don't blog daily...usually twice a week. I mean I do have to sell a house now and then.

10:57am • #2
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Hi, my name is Marc, and I am a BLOGGER.

Great post Mary - I'm probably spending a bit more time here then I should BUT I feel like I'm finally getting successful at it!

Hey - I had 2 posts featured the other day - I was starting to think I didn't care - yeah, right!  I liked it!

Anyway I plan on checking out your suggestions later on tonight - I should probably get some work done now.

Have a Great Thanksgiving!

10:58am • #3
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My name is Rich Jacobson, and I'm a Blog Addict.
10:59am • #4
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Ok. I am crying! I am laughing SO HARD! I need intervention, and your post is EXACTLY what the doctor ordered.

Thank you. 

...and NOTHING about how prolific you are is pathetic. It is only pathetic if it is not interesting, and Mary McKnight is always interesting.

(and what is you hubby's email address. I will spam him with jewelry ads for you...ok?) happy T-Day! 

11:00am • #5
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Excellent, jewelry spam.  Why didn't I think of that?
11:05am • #6
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Mary I was just sitting here thinking about the food I need to be organizing for tomorrow......#11 had me up late last night! I got into sherrif sales and foreclosures in my area and wanted to call people to ask questions...but it was 2am!  I will turn myself over and surrender lol. 

And Happy Thanksgiving!  (well placed post it notes might work for the jewelry too)

11:16am • #7
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My name is Carol Williams and I am a blog addict.  Step one complete. 

Mary, as always an excellent post.  Where do you store all this good stuff in that little body of yours? 

11:16am • #8
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My name is Suzanne Marriott and I'm considering becoming a blog addict.  Will there be a program for spouses of blog addicts?
11:33am • #9
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Hello, my name is Jason, and I am a blogger.  Now for the next rung.  Where is it?  Oh there it is, and it just seems to be out of my reach.  Guess I am going to be an addict just a little longer.
11:45am • #10
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(Ok. I will follow suit.)

My name is Mariana. I am a Blog Addict, and I am prone to relapse. Oops. I already did. ...I better go blog about it...

11:51am • #11
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Mary, REHAB IS FOR QUITERS! I have printed this out and pasted it all over the house. How did you know TLW and I communicate by blog comments? We have been known to be sitting side by side sending IMs back and forth. Hey after 20+ years it's so much easier:)

TLW and I wish you and John and family a great Thanksgiving. That reminds me, I need to call my brother to make sure he has wireless connection at his house.:) If I have the drumstick I can leave my keyboard hand free.

11:52am • #12

LOL BB!!!  I agree - Rehad is for quiters.. I am not a quiter!  I will blog and blog until my fingers bleed..

No - really - I do not have an addiction I can stop anytime I want to.  It does not have control over me..

Christine
1:18pm • #13
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Hi My name is Maureen and I'm addicted to blog.  Here are some of the things I've done to feed my addiction.  Ordered take out 4 times last week so I would have more time to blog. Wondered if anyone had commented on my blog while having a serious conversation with a relative.  Relayed a story I read on an associate's blog as "a friend of mine said..."  It feels good to let it out. 

Now we'll have to come up with a secret code - I'm voting for "Are you a friend of Mary's"  Then people will know you are in the program. 

1:40pm • #14
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My name is Mitchell Hall. I have IAD and am borderline BAD.

 I hope I will not be tempted to try the harder stuff like podcasts and RSS.

1:40pm • #15
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Mary.... great blog and some things to remember. I liked what Cynthia Scoop had to say....  Cynthia, don't get one then...  lol

Mary..back to your blog. I just wrote a blog on Philly sports and that took me about 4 hours. I did what you said not to do. If I kept at it, it probably would have taken me a solid hour from start to finish. Maybe 1 1/2 hours, because of the pictures and the researching. So, I am guilty of #4. But I won't admit to #1.... lol

And in regards to your introduction.... how can someone spend only 1 hour a day writing a blog and reading other blogs... and commenting. That seems hard to do. I guess I spend 2 to 3 hours a day...Well, if I had to average it from Sunday to Saturday, it might be closer to 3 - 3 1/2 hours a day.  Too long?  ;o(

2:04pm • #16
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Yikes, an hour a day?  It is addicting and time consuming!  Even an hour a day is long when we have kids, careers, and holidays!  I just don't know if I could cut down though....  (Even with Mary's fine suggestions!)
2:15pm • #17
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"The Lovely Mary"

So what happens when a married couple both say "Rehab is for quitters"? You gotta solution for that?

  • RainFood-anything from the frozen food section at the grocery store.
  • RainCash-the money we save by keeping me on my laptop instead of inside the Mall.
  • Rain de Vous-two rainers doing lunch.
  • RainCorns-the callouses on our fingertips.
  • RainWear-Pajamas and Slippers. 
  • RainBrain-when all you can think of is getting back to your blog.
  • Rainizzare-one who leaves comments in a box that are hard to understand.

I love that last one...:0)

What I just did is called RainSpeak. We invented it with the help of a few other members. It's buried in my blog...

Do you think if we invent a new language to go with our addiction we have gone off the deep end?

TLW "The Lovely Wife"...This Is A Rainuzzle...:0)...ROAR!

2:18pm • #18
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My name is Ines and I am also a blog addict - it's been 5 minutes since my last blog and I see a relapse coming especially after reading REHAB IS FOR QUITTERS. 

I think I'll join TLW and Bryant better - this is too much fun.

Have a great Thanksgiving Mary - what a creative and entertaining post....I'm starting to see what all the hoot about you is.

2:50pm • #19
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Any advice for the blog addicted READERS??? :)
3:02pm • #20
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Mary you should create your own blogging center and call it "The Mary Ford Clinic".  Be sure to charge a lot of money though....LOL
3:21pm • #21

Mary, I need some recommended drugs from your #3... my wife just asked me if I have a new mistress?!...! I said, don't worry, honey, I'm here at the pharmacist window...lol.

Eli   www.AbsoluteFloridaMortgage.com

3:31pm • #22

Mary,

Thanks for another great read. You do realize that you are an enabler... 

Jim Messenger
3:46pm • #23
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Mary,

Very timely post as I have just come to terms with my addiction.  After a few modifications, I believe I am set...

On second thought, I just realized the need to install a frig and a microwave!

4:18pm • #24
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Hey Mary.. every day you come up with a winner, you're like the Auerbach's Celtics (a fact too old for you, but I'm sure you appreciate  ...) I've institutionalized my addiction by offering "office hours" every weekday evening between 9:00 and 11:30pm PST (sorry Right Coasters...). I'm always glad to talk about blogging, real estate, business strategies and life with you... send me an email at pat (at) transparentre(dot)com.
4:28pm • #25
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Hi, my name is Rich, and I am a new to blogging, but yes I am addicted, already!

Help me, somebody, please.  I can't stop.  (Heck, I don't really want to stop!)

4:48pm • #26
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Mary I am going to suggest that all our new bloggers at the office read this to help get them started.  Great ideas..
4:58pm • #27

Dear Mary,

My name is Mike. I think I have a BAD wife. Any suggestions?

 

5:14pm • #28
NOV
23
2006
191,054 Points 6 Featured Posts Outside Blog

Mary,

Check me in...BTW have you heard the term co-dependent?

12:04am • #29
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Mary, As always informative. But I have questions and I have a true belief that maybe I just don't get it. Maybe If I were as beautiful as you and a harvard education (although I have paid for one) someone may actually care what I write. I have blogged and noone cares. I have never as much had a single person comment on one of my blogs. I am starting to believe that I am the only one that cares what I have to say. I read what you have to say And I do try to incorporate your wisdom. But what mental issue do you have when you feel that no one cares what you have to say. Do I pop a mouse? Do I snort a keyboard? Do I inject some cyberblog or do I just go on the wagon and just quit cold turkey. Go ask Alice when your ten feet tall
12:27am • #30
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I am definitely addicted.  Fortunately it is not all bad, I have gained new knowledge.

As I posted in a previous blog, we should start a support group.  We could meet on Active rain.

12:45am • #31
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Great idea, Randy! You could have a Carnival Blog regarding your recovery.

I will not participate tho, as I have now decided (after serious contemplation and blogging...) that I do not have a problem. It is 12:13 am, and I am here on AR. I do not have a problem.

1:10am • #32
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Hi...my name is Kengo and I'm a blogger!!!  The first blog I made was a featured blog and that got me addicted.  I've recently gotten control of my addiction by forcing myself to work instead.  That was hard but I think that I've conquered it.....oh wait....I'm on again!!!  Good post Mary!!!  Thanks for the eye-opener. -Aloha
2:34am • #33
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Thanks for the info Mary. you know how to satisfy the geekiest of the geeks. (me).  I'm still having having trouble with step 1... and how did Robert get a graphic of my new bathroom plans?!

your posts are great and full of information to satisfy us all. I'll be lurking around here for awhile.
Happy Thanksgiving.. :)
nick

7:15am • #34
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Mary,

I am not addicted. It's Thanksgiving Morning and I was not going to sign in here, but here I am. Just a Quickie!

Is there a difference between being a commenter or a blogger?

I may be addicted to commenting.

Again wonderful blog Mary, I will bookmark this also for my "spare time reading"

7:35am • #35
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Mary, I just have one question:

What exactly does your blog have to do with candy?  I have been trying to figure that out, but being new to this blogging thing and all.........

Happy Thanksgiving ;)

 

9:05am • #36
166,190 Points Outside Blog

I am denial!!!!!!!!!!!! What addiction? I dont have a problem? :)

happy thanksgiving to you and your family 

2:54pm • #37
Gold Mary, Gold.
11:55pm • #39
NOV
24
2006
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Thanks Mary. One of the days, I'm going to start putting all your helpful suggestions into practice.
10:06am • #41

Hillarious! great post.

Jason Schut

4:26pm • #42
NOV
27
2006
Something to think about
3:51pm • #43
APR
05
2007
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As I stumble blurry eyed out of bed bypassing the bathroom, I head to the computer and wiping the sleep out of my eyes I turn on the computer. Then the while the email is coming in I have time to start blogging for the day.  Great post LOL funny.

1:38am • #44
MAY
28
2007
364,863 Points 62 Featured Posts Outside Blog
I followed a link trail that lead me here, six months after the original post.  Funny! Very funny!
6:29am • #45
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29
2007

 

Read <a href="http://sfbay.craigslist.org/sfc/bfs/384292051.html">The complete 1-70 Horde Leveling Guide</a>

 

Chris Shields
3:46am • #46
FEB
06
2008

That is so funny.  I'm actually a recovery drug addict who just recently started blogging about my recovery. I've been told that addiction effects all areas of our lives.  I'll have to bookmark this page in case I need this advice in the future!

Julia

http://addictsdorecover.com

Julia LeGene
6:10pm • #47
APR
13
2008

HI Mary

I have had more laughs tonight reading blogs and comments.  Thanks

2:17am • #48
MAY
22
2008

Hi Friends

Comprehensive resources for those looking for recovery from addiction. <a href="http://www.addictionrecovery.net">http://www.addictionrecovery.net</a>

sai
2:26am • #49
MAY
30
2008

Comprehensive resources for those looking for recovery from addiction.

anitha
11:40pm • #51
MAY
31
2008

Incase you feel you are addicted, you definately need help to get out of it.

 

Mark Osborn

Suffering from an addiction. This website has a lot of great resources and treatment centers. http://www.treatmentcenters.org

<a href="http://www.treatmentcenters.org">http://www.treatmentcenters.org</a>

Mark Osborn
11:44am • #52
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Addiction aside, and I had some withdrawals this morning because I was getting a 505  server error all morning. It did let me keep focused on cleaning the garage.

Structure is the key, I think, for a positive experience in AR.  I am just over a month having joined, so I am still learning my way around.

But it takes an hour or so, to sort out good posts and comment on some. I do not comment to comment.

Your rules above, posted almost 2 years ago, are very helpful structuring principles. I thank everyone for commenting so that your post was back to the front of the group.

Thanks,

Richard

1:15pm • #53
JUN
06
2008

Addiction treatment in a different method id very helping for the teens to overcome from it..specially the spiritual way is very easy method to bring them out from it..it will keep them very relax and cool..spiritual solutions controls their emotions and their mind and body..force them self to think whats good and whats bad whats right and whats wrong for their life..good job..keep it up..

shreedevi
4:38am • #54
AUG
23

Now a days teens are not in a situation to know what is right, They go in manner they want. Addiction treatment helps the youth to move them in a right way. This treatment helps them to think a little bit before doing anything, which will make their life move in a best way.Youth are stepping stones for the development for the country.

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john

 

http://www.drugaddiction.net/massachusetts

john
4:18am • #55
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07

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