Moving can be stressful for kids. The change can be overwhelming, but there are ways to make it easier on them.
It's important to inform children about your plans to move as soon as you can. The more time they have to prepare, the easier it will be for them, say child psychologists. Let them participate in the decision-making. If children feel included and take ownership of their new home, the transition will go much easier.
Moving is a family process. Share the excitement and responsibilities with every member of the family. Give everyone an age-appropriate responsibility. Kids will enjoy decorating our boxes. And then, once you are in your new house, it will be easier for them to find their stuff.
Throughout the move, stay as upbeat and calm as you can. Give your children a chance to express their feelings and try to be honest about your own feelings. Most children will feel some anger, sadness or may worry about the move. Reassure them they aren't alone and it's OK to have these feelings.
Involve your kids in the packing process and start packing items you will not need ahead of time. Sentimental items your children treasure like special blankets, beloved stuffed animals and photo albums should be kept in a separate bag or box you can bring with you.
Make sure children say goodbye to the important people in their lives, especially when moving long distances. Help children prepare a list of phone numbers, e-mails and addresses of important people in their lives. Prepare cards that have their name and new address on them to hand out to friends. Child psychology experts agree if kids know they can stay in touch with loved ones it will make the move less traumatic.
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