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Why Stay Away From Friends of Boyfriends...

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408

I hear frustration in the voice of the agent. He is on the phone with a mortgage broker a lot lately, and his confidence in that he would have the closing before the end of the month is melting away fast.

He is tired of this «tomorrow», as they never come. I ask him how he ended up with this mortgage broker. Or, his client's boyfriend insisted on using this wonderful guy. Of course, this «wonderful guy would do everything, and it starts on a very optimistic note.

Later it gets more complicated, every day there is another request, they become sometimes quite senseless, and it is always the last before you get clear to close, but then another small thing pops up.

Killing the MortgageThis is classic. Every agent went through that. How many times I had customers insisting on using their mortgage guy when they were buying a condo-hotel. On the one hand I admire their loyalty. On the other I know that the guy who helped them buy a house in Lakeland most probably won't be able to help them with condo-hotel.

How many times it was a near breaking the relationship point, and I always was asking for the opportunity to talk to their guy. It usually did not take more than 2 minutes at most when they acknowledge that they have no idea of this product and have never done it before, and at that moment I would give the phone to the customer and their guy would tell them that they better use someone else.

But we did not have to deal with financing for about 3 years already and we have lost the touch with the wonderful field of mortgage brokers. Here we had Homepath financing, the customer has a great score of 800, a steady job, seasoned money on her account. Of course, there is always something you can find, but I think the problem was with the mortgage broker taking this transaction, but having no experience with Homepath.

Finally the mortgage broker gives up. We need to cancel the contract to save the deposit. Calling mortgage people around and every one of them ends up with no, they have not done a single Homepath financing, but they can try to do it... Thanks, we just had one such try already. We finally call the company that has been sending me meaningful e-mails for some time already. The guy sounded knowledgeable, and yes, he is doing these types of deals, and not one, and not two. He does not know the customer’s boyfriend, which is also a plus...

The files goes to them by e-mail, they talk to the customer and ask questions, and in an hour the guy calls me and tells me that pre-approval letter is in the e-mail, and that they can close it April 22.

The agent is putting together a new contract. Life is good.

How good? We will find out come April 22...

* Image courtesy of homesbythomas via Flickr.com under Creative Commons License

MichelleCherie Carr Crowe .Just Call. 408-252-8900
Get Results Team...Just Call (408) 252-8900! . DRE #00901962 . Licensed to Sell since 1985 . Altas Realty - San Jose, CA
Family Helping Families Buy & Sell Homes 40+ Years

I sure hope you found the great one who can get it done.

Mar 31, 2011 06:53 PM
James Harner
Considering Selling Your Home? Call 610-310-7646 first - Royersford, PA
James Harner Group - Philadelphia PA Real Estate

wow...what a mess!

its a good thing that someone is there to "clean" it up and made the process a lot less painful!

will be looking at the outcome on Aprill 22! So be sure to update us..   =)

Mar 31, 2011 06:57 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
Buy Daytona condos for heavenly good prices

Michelle - we hope, too

Mar 31, 2011 07:05 PM
Tim Lorenz
TIM LORENZ - Elite Home Sales Team - Mission Viejo, CA
949 874-2247

It is a mess when the mortgage broker does not know what they are doing.

Mar 31, 2011 07:14 PM
Susan Mangigian
RE/MAX Preferred - West Chester, PA
Chester & Delaware County Homes, Delaware and Ches

This just happened to me last week.  Young man wanted to use his roommate's boyfriend as a mortgage guy.  I followed up closely.  At least 15 times I was assured it's fine.  No problems.  It's a condo.  The day before settlement a friend calls me who is a Realtor and also does a lot of business in the condo association.  "I think you have a problem", he says.  "Your mortgage guy called me this afternoon to see if the development is Fannie Mae Approved".  What?  The day before settlement?  We didn't settle the next day, which was a Friday.  The mortgage guy asked me to change the settlement from 10 to 3 that day.  We all waited by the phone that day.  NO settlement.  Monday?  Same thing, although we were assured the problem was worked out.  Tuesday?  "We're good to go".   Mortgage company only sent 98% of the funds.  It seems they wait until they approve the HUD1 to send the rest.  Spent all day waiting for said approval.  We did settle but it was so nerve wracking.  I told the buyer that I hoped the experience didn't affect his friendship but that I was never going to refer that mortgage person.  

I hope this works out for you Jon!  They all usually do, in the end, it's just the grief you have to go through to get there!

Apr 01, 2011 12:42 AM
Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

Happening here a lot also.  Some of the brokers make big promises and just can't deliver. 

Jon, that's a great photo - Love IT!!

Apr 01, 2011 12:57 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
Buy Daytona condos for heavenly good prices

James - we'll see. Promises are good, we'see if the delivery is there

Apr 01, 2011 02:05 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
Buy Daytona condos for heavenly good prices

Tim - and it happens to a girs, where everything is OK. It is not a difficult case, she qualifies. the broker does not qualify

Apr 01, 2011 02:06 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
Buy Daytona condos for heavenly good prices

Susan - we had to cancel the contract, and this guy is out. Now, after over a month, he is not interested.

Apr 01, 2011 02:07 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
Buy Daytona condos for heavenly good prices

Gabe - it happens everywhere.

Apr 01, 2011 02:08 AM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Jon, people should stick to the knitting they know, and not go out on the limbs with a stretch in areas they have no place being.

Apr 01, 2011 04:56 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
Buy Daytona condos for heavenly good prices

Gary - it was also the fault of the agent. When I asked him why he let it happen this way, he said that he could not do anything, this was the Buyer's wish. i do not agree.

They want their person, then they might agree to bet some money on that, so that if their person fails them, then we at least are compensated.

It is not even the matter of money, but when you put it this way, they often decide not to try their luck

Apr 01, 2011 09:04 AM
Jack Mossman - The Nines Team at Keller Williams in Lodi
The Nines Team at Keller Williams in Lodi - Lodi, CA
The Nines Team in Lodi

Jon I love closing dates ... right up until the "Extension of Time Addendum!"  Still with specialty loan products ... we need to be as firm as possible ... if the lender isn't experienced ... who's the backstop?  If there's no depth on the lender's team ... maybe we should consider another lender ... now ... rather than later!

Apr 01, 2011 02:15 PM