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What I Learned about Blogging from "The Fighter"

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Services for Real Estate Pros with Happy Grasshopper

For this weeks movie night, I gave up my chick pick and let my beau choose.  It was a good call, he picked one with a super hottie. The Fighter chronicles the story of Mickey Ward and his journey to a Welterweight Title.  if you haven't watched it yet, its out on DVD and you should definitely rent it.

Ward was known for his left hook to the body and his ability to take a lot of punches while waiting to land it.  In fight after fight he was basically declared dead before coming back to drop his opponent.

Sometimes we all feel like we are being beaten down by a faster, better prepared opponent.  But, like in so many stories, it seems to be those who can take a bit of punishment that can end up victorious.  Mickey was prepared to take a lot of punches when he stepped into the ring.  Like all fighters, he was trained to take them.  It got me thinking that if I was prepared to take more punches, it might be easier to get to those late rounds and enjoy more victories myself.

If Mickey Ward Wrote a Blog:

  1. He wouldn't worry if no one read or commented on it.  He'd refocus and write some more.
    Who says that you can't rewrite a headline, tweak and repost a blog, or revisit a subject.  Writing a bad blog post will help you write a better one next time.
  2. He wouldn't worry if he didn't know what to do.  He'd go back to fundamentals, "head, body, head, body"
    "Keep it Local" -- and when all else fails, write about a movie :)

  3. He wouldn't worry if someone booed him or asked the ref to call the fight. He'd keep his hands up and prove them wrong.
    If someone disagrees with what you wrote, welcome the conversation and start the debate.
  4. He wouldn't walk into the ring unprepared. He'd know the other fighter inside and out.
    Doing a little research can turn just another blog post into a great one.
  5. He wouldn't go it alone. He'd make sure that he was surrounded by the people he knew would help him win.
    What else can I say - "Why wouldn't you use the power Active Rain."

 

Keep on blogging,
Celeste

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Jim Courtney
OklaHomes Realty, Claremore Oklahoma - Claremore, OK
CRS, GRI, AHWD

You can repost a topic?? I wrote a public blog that I thought was awesome but apparently Google didn't. It showed up on page 2. Maybe I should study for reasons why, rewrite the blog and post it again. Perhaps getting on page one might get me over the dumps from the last posting. Hmmmm. :)

Apr 12, 2011 07:46 AM
Happy Grasshopper
Happy Grasshopper - Tampa, FL

Jim, If you follow my blog you would know that I have worn out the topic of getting referrals from follow up with friendly email.  You can write and write on a topic until it is ice cold - good luck and let us know how it goes.

Apr 12, 2011 07:58 AM
Sussie Sutton
David Tracy Real Estate - Houston, TX
David Tracy Real Estate for Buyers & Sellers

You are such a better person than I am.... I hate boxing movies... I'd rather take a beating ;0)  than watch one!

Apr 12, 2011 09:20 AM
Jackie Ovad
Jackie Ovad, Realtor - Keller Williams Legacy - Reisterstown, MD

Hi Celeste.  I watched The Fighter over the weekend and I really enjoyed it.  Great analogy on your blog.  You are very right about it, we just have to stand up for what we are and persevere to be victorious. 

Apr 12, 2011 09:59 AM
Chris Smith
Re/Max Chay Realty Inc., Brokerage - New Tecumseth, ON
South Simcoe, Caledon, King, Orangeville Real Esta

I haven't seen The Fighter yet, so I will take your word on Mickey's thoughts on blogging... I hope I do not think of this when I finally get around to watching it ;-)

Apr 12, 2011 12:37 PM
John Todaro
Homeowners Financial Group - Scottsdale, AZ
We Close Loans On Time

What a great movie that was...such a good analogy you have described!  Keep punching and never stop hitting the body.

Apr 13, 2011 06:38 AM
Scott Fogleman
New Home Team - Richmond, VA

Great post! Soemtimes I get down on my blogging...But your right, stand in there (just like its a fight) take a few blows and keep swinging (learn when a swing misses and make a change).

Apr 13, 2011 06:39 AM
MaryJane Sheppard
The Van Dyk Group - Real Estate - Long Beach Island, NJ

Hi Celeste....love your post and I LOVED "The Fighter"!  So in the morning, when I am the only agent in my office who's blogging, I will be singing to myself "here I go again, on my own...."  just like Mickey!!

Apr 13, 2011 07:21 AM
Happy Grasshopper
Happy Grasshopper - Tampa, FL

Mary Jane, I completly forgot about that.  What a great blogging song!

Apr 13, 2011 07:47 AM
Linda D. Pufford
Stage with Divine Style - Home Staging - Novato, CA
ASPM, Marin/Sonoma Home Stager

Celeste,

Great Post and Encouraging Words!!!  When we find our passion... we need to do everything we can to keep it alive and never give up the fight!  Congratulations on the feature!!

Apr 13, 2011 08:03 AM
Larry Lawfer
YourStories Realty Group - Newton, MA
"I listen for a living." It's all about you.

Celeste, Living up here in Boston, that story resonates with all of us.  Just lasing the winters makes you stonger here.  Great post and very positive in it's approach. Congratulations.

Apr 13, 2011 12:03 PM
Mike Yeo
3:16 team REALTY - Frisco, TX

Great points especially #3. Everyone have their own opinion and will voice their own. Stay positive for any kind of feedback or response. Thanks for the post.

Apr 13, 2011 01:21 PM
Dave Halpern
Dave Halpern Real Estate Agent, Inc., Louisville, KY (502) 664-7827 - Louisville, KY
Louisville Short Sale Expert

I didn't watch the fighter. But I have a sign on my office wall that says "Never, Never, Never Give Up"

Apr 13, 2011 02:38 PM
Phil Hillerman
Crye-Leike Realtors® - Rogers, AR
Crye-Leike Realtors®

Thank you for this post.  You always have great posts. 

Apr 13, 2011 04:03 PM
Christine Donovan
Donovan Blatt Realty - Costa Mesa, CA
Broker/Attorney 714-319-9751 DRE01267479 - Costa M

Celeste - It sounds like there was a lot to learn from The Fighter, especially if you pay attention.

Apr 14, 2011 03:30 PM