You don't know it yet but this is a discussion about property values, fear, and the advice I didn't take from my Lakewood-area REALTOR® all those years ago.  Indian Valley Elementary SchoolToday is "Walk To School Wednesday" in our neighborhood-- the day when the 'Mommies' of Indian Valley Elementary School either leave the SUVs in the driveway for a day and walk their kids, en masse, up the block to the schoolyard or they carpool the gas guzzlers to a common meeting point at the neighborhood pool and walk the remaining 500 yards.  It's the one day throughout the school year when the near solo ride to school with junior and his "backpack" in the Suburban will get you at least minimal glares from your otherwise fellow global warmers who, for today anyway, have foregone the bumper-to-bumper grind up my street to the drop off area in front of the School Office. 

Kids Walking To SchoolNow don't get me wrong:  WTSW is a national program and a worthwhile endeavor that has merit.  Walking is good for kids and their parents and this is a healthy and a social activity for the kids and the Mommies.  I know it will make junior appreciate his ride to school tomorrow.  And, it gives credibility to the "when I was a kid..." stories the Mommies and the kids will listen to the Daddies tell over their dinner tables tonight.  But "Walk To School Wednesday" shouldn't be a special event.  Walk to School Wednesday should be surrounded, each week, by "Walk To School Monday, Walk To School Tuesday, Thursday, and Friday!  When did it change and become OK to take the car three or four blocks instead of walking or riding your bike?  When was it OK for kids to arrive via chauffeur and queue up for 10 minutes in the circle driveway just to make sure they get dropped off 30 yards closer to the doorway-- the least possible distance from car door to the classroom door? 

I try to get up right about sunrise and walk from my house, past the school into the Open Space, and put in another 3-4 miles on the trails before showering for work.  Despite the crisp air and my tired knees, most mornings I enjoy the walk.  I confess there are mornings where I struggle with my conscience during those last five minutes of the second "snooze button" session and I confess, sometimes the snooze button wins.  But most mornings I make my doctor happy as she struggles to keep me off of the cholesterol medicine the old-fashioned way-- by having me drag my carcass up the block to walk some health into my veins

Mommies seem content to teach their children that driving 3 blocks instead of walking is perfectly acceptable.  Why?  I think it comes down to fear.  Fear of traffic, fear of the child predator, fear of not being able to shepherd and watch over their progeny all the way from front door to school door.  How sad is that?  In our mass media society, one child and one driver in Anywhere, USA has a careless but tragic moment and suddenly all children everywhere must avoid the sidewalks.  One child somewhere is victimized on the route to school by a predator and suddenly every bush along every street hides a potential boogie-man.  One mother loses a child so all mothers build deeper and deeper layers of insulation around theirs.  It's natural.  It's understandable.  It's just sad.

Beaver and WallyMy neighborhood (and I'll bet thousands and thousands of others) used to hear laughter and noise each morning as the kids meandered their way to class.  People drove slower because there were always kids to watch out for along the way!  Same thing every afternoon... though the kids' laughter sounded a little more joyous with the prospect of an afternoon's play ahead.  Neighborhood kids walked by the houses and became acquainted with the neighbors-- friendly or otherwise and the neighborhood became a friendlier place!  The scary Mr. Wilson-type man at the corner who yelled at you for cutting across his lawn became known to the Dennis The Menace kids.  The elderly couple along the way that needed some extra help with the yard-work as they aged found a ready supply of labor walking past their house twice daily.  Kids got exercise, learned the value of hard work in exchange for cold cash, and developed a sense of community by simply running into their neighbors and making their acquaintence.  Kind of "Leave It To Beaver" I know, but it's true. 

Mr. WilsonWhen we bought our home, our REALTOR® tried to guide us off the street where we bought and onto the streets that bisected it.  Her logic was the traffic every morning at 8:00AM and every afternoon at 2:30PM as the Mommies dutifully drove up the block to the elementary school made our street less desirable.  From a property value standpoint, she was right-- homes on our street sell for substantially less than homes that cross it.  But I enjoy being along the route the kids take to class, in the mornings especially.  I enjoy seeing their smiling faces, clean and bright on their way to learn some new and wondrous things each day.  I just wish I could hear them laughing from behind those SUV windows....

Hey, Mommies!  If I'm 'mean 'ol Mr. Wilson I'll understand you trying to pad all the world's corners for your kids.  But to me, I'm just the guy with $20 and some weeds in the yard that would love to find a kid willing to learn the value of an afternoon's labor!

Chris Hendricks

 

 

15 Comments on Are The Mommies Ruining Our Kids' Health While They Destroy Property Values?

OCT
03
2007
Oh, man, don't even get me started on the many ways well-meaning parents are screwing up these days.
1:34pm • #1
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Karen: I know their hearts are in the right place, but it makes me think we're raising a generation of 'never had a skinned-up elbow' children.  And that's truly scary!
3:34pm • #2
I don't own my house but I wonder... is there a free online tool somewhere that can tell me what the general property values on my street here in Alameda are?
10:01pm • #3
OCT
04
2007
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Trish:  Start with www.zillow.com but don't hesitate to consult a REALTOR® for a more accurate assessment of your specific neighborhood.  Zillow is a starting point but not a substitute for qualified local knowledge and expertise.
11:08am • #4
OCT
05
2007
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Chris - This is interesting.  Where I live we have universal busing.  No one walks or drives their kids to school.  I wish there were neighborhood schools in my area.  My kids schools are a 15 minute drive from our house.  It would be nice though. 
3:07pm • #5

Chris,  I lived behind a small town school campus for 2 years.  K-12 were all housed in 2 separate buildings on either end of campus. My elementary school aged boy had to go the farthest as his school was on the other side of campus from where we lived.  On those days that I had to work either in the morning or the afternoon and couldn't walk with him, he was required by the school district to ride the bus.  The drive was across the parking lot to the high school to pick up those kids, then out onto the main road, travel 50 feet and then let my son off.  Sadly, it's not just the mommies of the world creating this scenario.  My son (now in middle school) now has to travel much farther to school and prefers to ride his bike than take the bus.

Sorry for the long comment.  Great post!

3:17pm • #6
It would be great exercise for both of them. We lived a couple of miles from school but we rode the bus.
3:19pm • #7
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Maureen:  I wish we had buses here but apparently the district hasn't figured out that for every bus you can NOT have 80 SUVs trudging through the neighborhoods clogging the school driveway.  Seems the cross traffic is so much worse because commuters are interrupted by school drop-offs as well-- and that the City would think the bus solution would make cross-town traffic infinitely better to manage.  Go figure!
6:33pm • #8
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Kathy:  I know, I know.  Bureaucracy without a lick of common sense is one of my hot buttons.  I bet there's a liability lawsuit somewhere in the District's past that makes them so crazy about this.

Vicki:  I have nothing against the bus when you live far away.  I struggle with every Mom or Dad driving their one kid separately-- especially when they live blocks away!

10:47pm • #9
OCT
08
2007
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Chris - When I was 12, in an attempt to set the all time speed record for skateboarding downhill I experienced a high speed wobble on the very same hill you pictured.  Nobody padded the corners for me (and my palms grew new skin too!)


 

 

2:14pm • #10
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Mike:  Like mine, your skateboard was made with old roller skate wheels nailed to a board, right?  You didn't have one of those fancy-pants boards with actual ball bearings in the wheels did you?

2:18pm • #11
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Chris - When attempting to set a World Record you have to use only the best equipment.  Mine had the high tech Urethane wheels!  LOL  If the wobble didn't get you the dip at the bottom of the hill would.  I bailed more than once into the bushes.


 

2:24pm • #12
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I knew I was "old school" and you've now confirmed it!
2:27pm • #13
DEC
16
2007
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Enjoyed reading this post, thanks for the trip down memory lane.  Terrylynn, Realtor, Walnut Creek, California
10:29pm • #14
DEC
21
2007
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Terrylynn:  Now you weren't one of those 'kid-totin' Volvos that brought the traffic up my block every 7:50am were you?  ;-)
11:42am • #15

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