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Honoring Ashley Okland Through A Safer Work Life for All Real Estate Agents

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Services for Real Estate Pros with Moby

Ashley Okland

Two weeks ago our hearts broke as news came that Ashley Okland, a beautifully spirited Iowa Realtor®, was murdered while she was showing a model townhouse. As many of you are aware Ashley was a very active member of her community, who was not only successful with her Real Estate work, but also a kind hearted woman who volunteered her time with charities.

Ashley’s murder touches a soft spot within all of us, not only was she at the young age of 27, but she was only trying to earn an honest living while she was murdered. Worse of all, although there are no definite leads to the murder case, many news sources are reporting that police may be speculating that the murder was committed by a fellow Real Estate Agent.

We would like to share, and ask that you share via Twitter or Facebook, that police are asking anyone with information about the shooting to contact the local police department, West Des Moines Police Department, at 515-222-3344 or Crime Stoppers at 515-223-1400. 

 

Remembering Our Role As Real Estate Agents

Ashley’s murder is a tragic reminder that as Real Estate Professionals, we are exposing ourselves to dangerous situations on a regular basis. Although there we will never be able to completely ensure that we are never exposed to criminals, we can surely reduce the likelihood of this occurring. Below are a few safety tips that we urge all of you to share with your Real Estate colleagues.

  • Carry a Safety Device With You At All Times 

Sometimes safety precautions alone are not enough to protect us from possible crimes. We also need to be prepared to defend ourselves. As our Real Estate Safety Survey revealed, we each have our own comfort levels when it comes to choosing the right self-defense tools:

88% carry a phone
15% carry mace or pepper spray
9% take a dog to work with them
9% carry a baton
9% carry a gun
16% carry nothing.

Our suggestion would be to mix and match your self-defense tools and make sure you are always comfortable using them.Please note that prior to using any self-defense tool, make sure you quickly review the situation and see whether it is safer to just run away instead of fight the criminal.

  • Read As Many Safety Tips As Possible

The key to defending yourself against a criminal is to always be alert and prepared. Having a few safety tips that we can automatically default to in an emergency can save us precious time and help us escape a possible attack. We realize that safety tips are not the most exciting articles to read, but when it comes to our safety we need to ensure we are doing everything possible. Be sure to check out NAR’s Safety Page and Moby’s Safety Blog.

  • Pledge A Safer Work Ethic

Just like we pledge a healthier lifestyle to ensure we are in top shape, we urge our fellow ActiveRainers to take an active step to drastically changing how you practice your safety.We cannot passively think about safety anymore, we need ensure that every time we are out showing a property or hosting an open house we are as safe as we can possibly be. To ensure you stick through with this, share your pledge with a colleague or a family member so you can be accountable if you feel like ‘skipping on a safety precaution’ because of a time crunch.

  • Hold A Safety Meeting At Your Office As Soon As Possible

Holding a safety meeting will not only ensure that you and your colleagues are up to date on the latest safety tips, self-defense moves, but that you are also all committing to a safer work ethic. Holding a safety meeting will reinforce the idea that we are all in this together and we need to watch out for each others’ safety. Moby has created a Safety Seminar complete with facilitator notes, for anyone who would like to jumpstart the safety meeting. Please e-mail us with your request and we will send you a PowerPoint copy. 

We would also suggest you look into attending a professional Real Estate safety seminar, such as Realtor® safety guru Andrew Wooten’s national seminars.

Please share your thoughts on how to create a safety movement in the comment section below. We are really hoping to create a momentum where we show everyone that we will not stand idle when it comes to the safety of all real estate professionals.

Take care and be safe everyone!

The Moby Team

 

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Tracy McPeek
Cottonwood, CA

My thoughts and prayers are with her family and friends.  It is truly sad and heartbreaking.

Apr 20, 2011 08:55 AM
Robert Bob Gilbert
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Anderson Properties - Katy, TX
Your Katy TX ( West of Houston) Real Estate Expert

WHAT TRAGIC LOSS AND OUR HEARTS GO OUT TO HER FAMILY.

Apr 20, 2011 10:02 AM
Tami Vroma
West Michigan Real Estate Specialist-Five Star Real Estate - Grand Haven, MI
Realtor, Grand Rapids MI Real Estate

That is so sad!!  I normally would never do this but I did write a blog about what I do to keep myself safe.  I did check on Moby and they don't have it for Android.

I wrote this post several years ago.  http://activerain.com/blogsview/1164022/safety-steps-for-women-realtors-don-t-make-yourself-a-target-

Like I said, normally would never post a link but I do have quite a system.  I have ammended it now.  I actually ask them for their drivers license the second we meet .  .outside or in a busy area.  I then use the barcode scanner on my phone and scan their drivers license and then email it to my saftey person.  They know where I am and if I do not text the correct combination of words at least every 15 minutes, they call the police.

Its scary out there and I will install moby as soon as it becomes availble on Android!

Apr 20, 2011 10:20 AM
Anonymous
Amy Austin

Very, very tragic! Safety can be an easy thing to forget when it's a matter of putting food on the table. My prayers are with Ashley and her family.

Apr 20, 2011 10:38 AM
#18
Anonymous
Anonymous

I am sick to my stomach. Although I did not know the woman I grieve for this terrible loss of human potential. I am sorry for everyone who knew her. My sincere condolences.

Apr 20, 2011 11:06 AM
#19
Anonymous
Anonymous

Such a tragic loss - my heart goes out to her family and her friends and colleagues at this time of profound grief. "Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for a while, leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never, ever the same."(Flavia Weedn)

Apr 20, 2011 01:57 PM
#20
JulieAnn King
RE/MAX Central- Freehold, Manalapan, Marlboro, Old Bridge - Freehold, NJ
Broker Associate - Freehold, Manlapan, Marlboro Re

With deepest sympathy to Ashley's friends and family.

Apr 20, 2011 04:01 PM
Pam Holzem
The FireStar Realty Group - Hastings, MN

A sad reminder to all of us. My prayers go out to her family and friends.

Apr 20, 2011 04:07 PM
Anonymous
Jeff Armbruster

Tragic!!

We really need to get the word out about being safe.cc

Apr 20, 2011 04:20 PM
#23
Moby
Moby - Santa Monica, CA

Rhonda, thank you for sharing your safety tips with us!

Bernadine, very true that we cannot let our guard down as a real estate professional.

Karen, we ask the same questions ourselves!

David, very unfortunate indeed.

Lance, that was a very close call! Glad that you trusted your instincts and that both you and your son were able to avoid a possible confrontation.

Fernando, a very sad day indeed.

Dave, we’re very happy to hear you will be brining up this topic in your next office meeting.

Mike, we obtained the statistics from the Real Estate Safety Survey we conducted last year.

Bob, we are all hoping that justice prevails as soon as possible.

Melisa, very scary reminder indeed.

Pam, we couldn’t have said it better ourselves!

Chris, very right in that a commission is never worth our personal safety.

Rosalie, it would be a very sad turn of events if it was indeed another Realtor who committed the murder.

Mark, exactly! Nothing should be more important than our safety!

Tami, thank you for sharing your post with us!

Jeff, we are trying our best to ensure that we are always reminded to prioritize our personal safety.

 

Apr 21, 2011 06:29 AM
Evelyn Kennedy
Alain Pinel Realtors - Alameda, CA
Alameda, Real Estate, Alameda, CA

Moby:

Oh My goodness, the authorities think another Realtor killed Ashley.  What a shocking development.  I hope it is not true.  We have bad enough press as it is.  I am so sorry for Ashley's family.  What a terrible loss.  Thanks for the reminder to keep our guard up. 

Apr 25, 2011 05:43 PM
Phil Leng
Retired - Kirkland, WA
Phil Leng - Retired

Hi Moby,

Sorry to hear.

I am a person with no fear.

When you do have doubts it is certainly better to trust your instincts.

Thanks for sharing the tragic news.

Phil

 

Apr 25, 2011 10:31 PM
Fernando Herboso - Associate Broker MD, & VA
Maxus Realty Group of Samson Properties - Clarksburg, MD
301-246-0001 Serving Maryland, DC and Northern VA

I sent you an email and I would like to have the power point presentation. .

Thank you

Apr 25, 2011 11:26 PM
d r
Andrews, SC

Prayers going out

Apr 26, 2011 01:04 AM
Jack O'Neal
HomeSmart Elite Group - Gilbert, AZ

Be aafe it's a mean world

Apr 26, 2011 03:35 AM
Anthony Daniels
Coldwell Banker - San Francisco, CA
SF Bay Area REO Specialist

Very unfortunate and even more so, if it is determined that the suspect was a fellow real estate agent.  Our business and life in general, requires not just book smarts, but more so, requires plenty of street smarts.

Human beings are naturally wired with instincts.  Learn to recognize them and react accordingly in every situation.

Apr 26, 2011 03:52 AM
Moby
Moby - Santa Monica, CA

Fernando, we just recieved your e-mail and will be sending you a copy very shortly! 

Apr 26, 2011 07:17 AM
Nellie Lytvinenko
Homes by Nellie-Working with Buyers & Sellers - Raleigh, NC
919-210-9992, Raleigh - Cary NC Real Estate

I just learned about Ashley's death today - through your post and several others.  Thank you for all the information.  I've reblogged just in case there are others who may have missed it.

Nellie

May 19, 2011 09:18 AM
Moby
Moby - Santa Monica, CA

Thanks Nellie, we need to spread the word so that we can all be a safer on the job! 

May 19, 2011 11:31 AM
Kerrie La Guardia
ActiveRain, Community Manager - Kirkland, WA
Let it Rain!

I am so very, very sorry to hear about this.  She was very beautiful and I'm sure she'll be missed.

May 19, 2011 12:59 PM