Ok, I got to be careful here. God forbid somebody reads this and hates me forever. I learned a long time ago and it has been written here, that beware of what you write in cyber space, you never know who may be reading. So, I'll try to be subtle, I'll try to be diplomatic, I'll try to make popularly parsimonious statements that help Real Estate Professionals and the people. I will try my hand at political correctness, I want to make sure whoever is reading doesn't get the wrong idea.
Real Estate Professionals can be IDIOTS! When there is a paycheck flashing in front of your face like a carrot on fine wire, its human nature to reach. I got a call today from a gal that was reaching....and I felt kind of bad telling her the truth.
Years ago, I made a crucial mistake. One that I won't make again. A friend referred a couple of co-workers to me and based on their application and credit, I handed them a pre-approval letter. It was a sketchy deal but I knew it could be done and wasn't overly confident they were buying anytime soon. I figured, with a little direction, they would be in a better place when the time was right. Silly me, two weeks after their application, a sales agreement was signed and I was on the hook to make sure they were taken care of. I gathered the documentation and facts behind their application and soon found out that I'd be lucky to get them a loan at all. By the way, I make mistakes, that was one of them. We closed their loan but I'll never put my clients or myself in that position again.

Today's phone call was from a Realtor who referred me a deal. I consulted both parties on what needed to be done to have the client qualify for the type of financing they would need to get them in the house. Collections needed to be paid off and documentation needed to be in my hands, it was a work in progress in my estimation. I thought I made that clear.
Yet, I was asked by the Realtor if I could hand her a pre-approval letter on this client. I reminded this Realtor of the situation and told them that me giving a pre-approval letter would be a slap in the face to any seller encountered. After all, this client isn't pre-approved...........not yet at least.
I told the agent I wasn't going to get anything over to them without having the documentation to back up what I could do for the buyer. I told that agent, "I can send you over a Pre-Approval letter with contingencies out the behind and more holes than a Whiffle-ball. Or, we can abide by patience and make sure the buyer can be properly financed? Your choice?"
The agent said they would get back to me and haven't. SHOCKING! Without a Good Faith Estimate (encompassing the costs associated with the loan you are taking out) and a Lock-In Agreement (Locking in the Interest Rate you were quoted), the terms and price of your loan are suspect. Regardless, make sure you can get a loan in the first place, make sure the Pre-Approval you've been given doesn't have all those holes. The terms and price of your loan is based upon the accuracy of your application and approval. I like paychecks, but I'll never make a mistake like I did then, again. Go look at houses, I'll make sure you can get financing and we'll make sure it is affordable.