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Maps, Plans and Adaptations

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Home Stager with Transition Stage LLC

Maps, Plans and Adaptations

As children, people ask us what we want to be when we grow up. In high school, we're asked what we'll study in college. In college, we're asked what we plan to do with that degree (with varying amounts of skepticism, based on whether we're studying anthropology or accounting). We get our first jobs, and suddenly the questions become more about our five year plan, or our ten year plan.

There's a school of thought that goes along with this admittedly comical - yet astute - quote from Yogi Berra:



"If you don't know where you are going, you might wind up someplace else."

 

And then again, there's the line from the John Lennon song:



"Life is what happens to you / While you're busy making other plans"

 

So what's the answer? It seems to me that all we can do is to plan, and then adapt to circumstances, and plan some more, then adapt some more. Over time, it all adds up to a life well-lived, with any luck.



"And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make."  *

 

May your Wednesday be a happy one, filled with life's abundance.



* Golden Slumbers/Carry That Weight/Ending by the Beatles

Maps, Plans and Adaptations

Comments (20)

Pocono Luxury Homes The Jeff Rickert Team
RE/MAX Property Specialists - Pocono Lake, PA
Poconos Luxury Homes

 

Thanks for the post. 

Good luck in your area.

 

 

Apr 20, 2011 02:15 AM
Gail C. Harris
Resource Network, LLC SFR, AHWD, ACRE, SMAR Board Director - Chesapeake Beach, MD
Reach the BEACH with Gail C. Harris (cell: 703.868

Isn't this the truth.  :) I love these. Great blog, Judy.  ) Gail

Apr 20, 2011 02:34 AM
Mike Jones
SUNSTREET MORTGAGE, LLC (BK-0907366, NMLS 145171) - Tucson, AZ
Mike Jones NMLS 223495

Judy,

Who wrote "The best laid plans of mice and men..."?  I love your post!

Mike in Tucson

Apr 20, 2011 02:39 AM
Judy Klem
Transition Stage LLC - Shelton, CT
Home Staging, Senior Move Management, Fairfield/New Haven counties

Hi Jeff & Heather - Thanks for stopping by!

Apr 20, 2011 02:46 AM
Judy Klem
Transition Stage LLC - Shelton, CT
Home Staging, Senior Move Management, Fairfield/New Haven counties

Hi Gail - I'm so glad you like it!

Apr 20, 2011 02:46 AM
Judy Klem
Transition Stage LLC - Shelton, CT
Home Staging, Senior Move Management, Fairfield/New Haven counties

Hi Mike - Yep, that one is totally in sync with these. Thanks!

Apr 20, 2011 02:46 AM
Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Judy, today is an AR profound day, and you hit the mark! Thanks! You gave me lots to think about, as did a few others.

Have a most spectacular week!

Apr 20, 2011 07:15 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

I am a planner. If you don't plan, you really won't get far.  Of course, plans do have a way of not happening exactly as you'd hoped. 

Apr 20, 2011 07:19 AM
Liz Wallace
Century 21 Sherlock Homes - Rockville Centre, NY
Broker C21 Sherlock Homes, Rockville Centre, LI, N

If I was you I would remove #1, that do hickey is a lead in to their website.  Also I made maps and wound up in different countries.  My favorite line in any song ---
"And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make."  *

Apr 20, 2011 09:41 AM
Judy Klem
Transition Stage LLC - Shelton, CT
Home Staging, Senior Move Management, Fairfield/New Haven counties

Hi Andrea - Good to know - I'll have to do a bit more reading now that I'm back home again. I'm glad this gave you food for thought. And thanks for that wish - right back at ya!

Apr 20, 2011 11:01 AM
Judy Klem
Transition Stage LLC - Shelton, CT
Home Staging, Senior Move Management, Fairfield/New Haven counties

Hi Chris Ann - I agree that planning usually helps - and that life also comes along to change those plans with incredible frequency.

Apr 20, 2011 11:02 AM
Judy Klem
Transition Stage LLC - Shelton, CT
Home Staging, Senior Move Management, Fairfield/New Haven counties

Hi Liz - Thanks for that note; I'll email them separately - they need the comment guidelines. Isn't that the truth about making maps? Happens to me, too. I totally agree with you about that last line. It's so amazing that songwriters can encapsulate so much truth about life in a single line like that.

Apr 20, 2011 11:05 AM
Norma Toering Broker for Palos Verdes and Beach Cities
Charlemagne International Properties - Rancho Palos Verdes, CA
Palos Verdes Luxury Homes in L.A.

Judy - A wise broker told me early in my career to always plan in pencil and keep an eraser handy!  Adapting to the changes along the way with a smile is a sure way to increase our happiness quotient.

Apr 20, 2011 11:48 AM
Judy Klem
Transition Stage LLC - Shelton, CT
Home Staging, Senior Move Management, Fairfield/New Haven counties

Hi Norma - I LOVE that! It's perfect - as is adapting to changes with a smile. Thanks for sharing that.

Apr 20, 2011 11:53 AM
Judy Klem
Transition Stage LLC - Shelton, CT
Home Staging, Senior Move Management, Fairfield/New Haven counties

Hi Valerie - I have gotten a bit of a hint that you are quite a planner, and have also seen how that leads to your success as seen here in the Rain. And, of course, things don't awlys go to plan, so we adapt and readjust our plans...

It's a quiet day, and I'm catching up on backlogged reading and sorting of materials. I hope your day is going well, too!

Apr 21, 2011 07:48 AM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Judy, and this reminds me of the one you left out about the best laid plans of mice and men...  That's sort of been my week!

Apr 21, 2011 11:12 AM
Charles Edwards Bentonville
Coldwell Banker Harris McHaney & Faucette 479-253-3796 - Bentonville, AR
AR REALTOR, Bentonville Real Estate Agent and Broker

Judy. M. and I are long term planners, always have been. It is great to look back once in a while and realize the benefit of knowing what the goal was and how it was accomplished. One day at a time.

I guess you could say we believe in mapping it out.

Apr 21, 2011 11:12 AM
Judy Klem
Transition Stage LLC - Shelton, CT
Home Staging, Senior Move Management, Fairfield/New Haven counties

Hi Pat - Oh yes, that is also on this continuum...  Sorry to hear it's been a tough week for you! I hope it gets better over the weekend.

Apr 21, 2011 11:49 AM
Judy Klem
Transition Stage LLC - Shelton, CT
Home Staging, Senior Move Management, Fairfield/New Haven counties

Hi Charles - It's great that you and M. have a similar outlook and are long term planners. It's easier to deal with the craziness life dishes out when you've planned well.

Apr 21, 2011 11:50 AM