I think for the men in the audience at least the phrase
I'd Rather Play Cards Than Fix The Fence
has some truth in it when it comes to maintenance on a home. Always more honey do's on the list than weekends or time to complete them. Maintenance on homes, especially large ones I am convinced more than anything else gets put off because of CHOICE. Other things we prefer to do in life. Surely there are money issues with repairing a sink, roof, fence, new landscaping, foundation work, addressing plumbing leaks etc. as well as finding the right resource to do the work if you need assistance and the TIME to set aside to do it, but more than anything else we follow that path of least resistance (at least as men), the boat calls us, the golf game, our favorite hobby, time on the computer, even time with significant other or family or vacations. The FUN stuff life is supposed to be made up of.
Trimming those branches on the trees around the house? Painting and sealing that backyard wood deck? Once a year cleaning all the windows or cleaning out the rain gutters? This is the FUN stuff of life?
Sometimes life will get your attention with a leak in the roof, shingles blown off, the neighbor gardening behind your house with the missing planks in your fence with your dog ALMOST biting her. Amazing how fast we CAN move in a crisis. Shows once again it is all about CHOICE.
Again, for the guys, that poker game is calling to us like a siren song. The fence can wait. Or can it? The best of ALL worlds Mr. Maintenance Man is learning to prioritize, find the time and money and DELEGATE it to someone who can get the job done quickly. Have the Junk Man come over for the garage. The sprinkler company adjust all those heads around the lawn. Professional painters do that necessary paint job in a few days or the tiling and caulking person fix that one crummy looking bathroom of yours. A good plumber can fix that running toilet in a jiffy.
In the end you do not want to let deferred maintenance go on and on and on till you sell your house some day as then it is like a MOUNTAIN of work to get your house all fixed up.
You can get to your poker game, just have something going on regularly in parallel in the background on the homefront.
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