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Active Rain Member to Member Paid it Forward Got it Back

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Active Rain Member to Member Paid it Forward Got it Back! I was reading Emily Read's piece on The Relentless Pursuit of Perfection late one night on ActiveRain this week and it was moments after she'd made it public. I noticed a misspelled word in her title and thought that the rest of the post was nicely written and I took a moment and thought to myself, "Do I e-mail someone I don't know and let them know that an important part of their post is spelled incorrectly?"....and I decided to send a private e-mail to her.

Emily immediately responded back:

 Yikes! Typo!! LOVE YOU!! Thanks Gayle!! :)

 

Emily Read

We sent a couple more e-mails back and forth and she decided to add me as an associate!  All of this took place in a matter of five minutes and took away any angst I felt about putting a spotlight on something someone did "incorrectly". 

It took me out of my comfort zone, I helped Emily out and in turn she patted me on the "professional" back!

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Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

I do that all the time Gayle and don't think twice about it. You are just assisting them and not really picking on them but I am very glad it proceeded to a higher level connection. Cool.

Apr 29, 2011 10:00 AM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

You know, Gary, I've wanted to do this BEFORE...as I see many misspelled words or bad grammar, etc. but it doesn't feel like it's my place always to do their editing for them. However, with that said, it's as if you've given me the A-OK to proceed as a "friendly advisor", perhaps?

Apr 29, 2011 10:25 AM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Especially in a title Gayle, that is kind of glaring, and I have found, even when I have done it, it is usually just an oversight as a typo. I will use personal email to just say something you wouldn't want to leave in a comment even with a Member here you haven't struck up that relationship with yet. 90% or more of the people here are extremely professional and like this lovely story that had a happy ending with Emily, you will widen your circle of friends and networking associates here by being the spelling and grammar police or giving someone a thoughtful hint or suggestion. Don't worry we all can use more nudges by friendly advisors out there. I'm glad I have you in my corner and I am sure others will be too.

Apr 29, 2011 01:42 PM
Elizabeth Byrne
Keller Williams Realty - Arlington, VA
Arlington Virginia Real Estate

Gayle, I agree with Gary, that was a very helpful email to Emily. I hope someone, like you, will contact me if I make an error. Have a great evening.

Apr 29, 2011 02:37 PM
Mona Gersky
MoonDancer Realty, Dillsboro,NC - Sylva, NC
GRI,IMSD-Taking the mystery out of real estate.

Gayle, I'm begging you to contact me if you ever catch a spelling boo-boo in my posts.  I'll do the same for you!

Apr 29, 2011 04:26 PM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

Gary and Elizabeth--I, too (or three!) agree with Gary, and from now on Scout's Honor, if I see someone with a boo-boo that is "glaring", I will try to let them know!

 

Mona, girlfriend, I gotchyerback! (i.e., Got Your Back--Ha!)

Apr 29, 2011 04:53 PM
Peg Barcelo
Fluff My House! Home Staging Inc. 250.486.6369 - Summerland, BC
The FlufftasticStager from Summerland, BC

Gaylefriend, you the WO-man! Helpfulness shouldn't be construed as mean spirited. So nice to see nice things happening to you!

Apr 30, 2011 09:58 AM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

Peg--and YOU as well!!!

Apr 30, 2011 11:01 AM