Special offer

No ordinary life.

By
Real Estate Agent with Coldwell Banker Harris McHaney & Faucette 479-253-3796

In this life we search for significance.  We want a sense of belonging and an acknowledgment that we are in our best place. Is the confirmation of such things Divine or intuition, or are the two the same? Occasionally along the way we catch a glimpse of what we are seeking. In my life such a glimpse is always a cause to celebrate. Have you ever had the pleasure of a day spent enveloped in the knowing? A day when you glide effortlessly, certain there is no ordinary life, A day lived as if you have somehow escaped the weight of the world?

A day when the server at breakfast is not merely the server. She's a single woman who raised her two nieces after her brother and sister-in-law divorced and were unable to care for them. The young women now grown are both mothers with families of their own. One is a doctors wife with a career of her own. The other is a pastor's wife with a music ministry. No ordinary life.

A day when a fellow agent shares with you that he works from home whenever possible in order to better care for his ailing spouse, the spouse the victim of a debilitating disease. You've worked together a year. He had not told you the story. He had never asked for help, never complained. No ordinary life.

A day when you meet a neighbor and  comment on their nice home and well kept yard. They tell you their story about Habitat for Humanity making it all possible for them when there was no other way. They expound eloquently over triumphs over troubles you've never known revealing again, no ordinary life.

cedwards@ersells.com

In

Posted by

Proudly serving your real estate needs in Bentonville, Rogers and Bella Vista, AR 479-253-3796. I will provide a free market value analysis of your property. Just ask!

charles.edwards1@coldwellbanker.com 

Charles Edwards Bentonville
Coldwell Banker Harris McHaney & Faucette 479-253-3796 - Bentonville, AR
AR REALTOR, Bentonville Real Estate Agent and Broker

Kim, we never know what we can do...until we have to do it. Thanks for being here.

Apr 29, 2011 03:53 PM
Joni Bailey
101 Main St. Realty - Huntsville, TX
Your Huntsville / Lake Livingston Area REALTOR®

Aaaahhhhh.... Charles! Don't' let Kim fool you. There is nothing ordinary about that amazing woman who is raising her great niece and nephew!

Kim: Charles is a pastor's son. There's where the depth probably comes from!

Awesome post, Charles! ♥ There really are no ordinary people! :O)

Apr 29, 2011 04:38 PM
Laura S. Baker
First Weber Inc - Lake Mills, WI
Realtor (920) 728-4118, First Weber Inc

I am just getting ready for bed but had to just check out one more post.  I am so glad it was this one Charles.  So beautiful!  Thank you.  God has indeed given you a gift.

Apr 29, 2011 04:45 PM
Christine Hooks
Pino Agency - Pennsville, NJ
Celebrating 25 Years in Real Estate!

And a blogger who reminds us of the uniqueness within each of us is certainly not ordinary either!

Apr 29, 2011 05:05 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Charles, thank you for your ability to paint a picture with words. That is not an Ordinary skill:)

Apr 29, 2011 07:53 PM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

The type of thing that makes you count your blessings..........beautifully written Charles.

Apr 29, 2011 10:21 PM
Charles Edwards Bentonville
Coldwell Banker Harris McHaney & Faucette 479-253-3796 - Bentonville, AR
AR REALTOR, Bentonville Real Estate Agent and Broker

Roger, Thank you. Yes please do count your blessings.

Endre, thanks for being a friend.

Chris, life is good. We do have to look for it though.

Laura. God had given us all gifts. Thank you for being here.

Joni. No ordinary lives, no ordinary people. You're proof.

Apr 30, 2011 12:47 AM
Rob Thomas
Prestige Homes of The Tri Cities, Inc. CALL....423-341-6954 - Bristol, TN
Bristol TN-VA & Tri Cities Agent, ABR, GRI, e-Pro

Charles.....we should never take a single day for granted.....awesome photo.....Thanks!
Hope you have a great day!!---Rob

Apr 30, 2011 01:07 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Charles, make every day a special day!    Good job Charles!

Apr 30, 2011 01:46 AM
Liz Wallace
Century 21 Sherlock Homes - Rockville Centre, NY
Broker C21 Sherlock Homes, Rockville Centre, LI, N

Beautifully expressed.  These are moments to treasure.  Times when you step back and are clear and present to the miracles and grace of the day.

Apr 30, 2011 03:39 AM
Malcolm Johnston
Century 21 Lanthorn Real Estate LTD., Trenton, Ontario - Trenton, ON
Trenton Real Estate

Charles, thanks for the reminder that I don't have an ordinary life, and that I should not take that for granted.

Apr 30, 2011 03:57 AM
Rene Fabre
ARFCO Media - Renton, WA
Practicing Philosophical Eclectic of the Arts

Great post Charles... and so true, "there is no ordinary life." (Preaching to the choir, I know...) Reminicent to me of a conversation in Lord of the Rings, Gandalf to Frodo: So do all who live to see such times. But that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us. 

I am forever amazed when discovering the people around me and the amazing things they have done and accomplished. Thanks for the reminder.

Apr 30, 2011 09:13 AM
Cindy Westfall
Premiere Property Group,LLC Portland Metro & Suburbs Oregon - Tualatin, OR
ABR,GRI Your Tualatin & Portland Metro Real Estate

Hi Charles, you have shown your wonderful humanity in this post. Its so easy for us to go about our day to day things..moving through life, but when one takes the moments to actually look at people..listen as their life stories unfold, as you said so beautifully..you can see the person inside the server. Yes, those are the moments that we realize that none of us really have an ordinary life. Wonderful post, thank you.

Apr 30, 2011 09:46 AM
Charles Edwards Bentonville
Coldwell Banker Harris McHaney & Faucette 479-253-3796 - Bentonville, AR
AR REALTOR, Bentonville Real Estate Agent and Broker

Cindy, Thank you, 'take the moments to actually look at people...listen as their life stories unfold...' That's what it is all about.

Rene, thank you kind sir. It is about discovering those around us. Exactly.

Malcolm, I'm quite sure there is nothing ordinary about you.

Liz, thank you. I do treasure such moments.

Joan, Every day is special if we take the time to acknowledge the fact.

Rob, Take nothing for granted, agreed. The photo came off istock.

Apr 30, 2011 12:06 PM
Kim Inman
Mountains to Lakes Real Estate, Inc. - Harriman, TN
CRS, Broker/Owner

Charles...Joni is to kind!  Didn't know you're the son of a Pastor. That's where your depths of thoughts come from.

Apr 30, 2011 12:44 PM
Charles Edwards Bentonville
Coldwell Banker Harris McHaney & Faucette 479-253-3796 - Bentonville, AR
AR REALTOR, Bentonville Real Estate Agent and Broker

Kim, Joni is very kind in deed.

My Dad is a retired Pastor. He remains very active at age 80. He has lived out his faith in a much bigger way than I have lived out mine.

Apr 30, 2011 12:59 PM
Tish Lloyd
BlueCoast Realty Corporation - Wilmington, NC
Broker - Wilmington NC and Surrounding Beaches

Thank you for being one whom others can feel comfortable sharing their deepest "secrets" with.  And then, thank you for sharing them with us -- very sobering.

May 01, 2011 02:32 AM
Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

Charles~ That's not ordinary, it's extraordinary.  I felt like you were describing my life in great detail.  Are you clairvoyant?

May 01, 2011 09:16 AM
Charles Edwards Bentonville
Coldwell Banker Harris McHaney & Faucette 479-253-3796 - Bentonville, AR
AR REALTOR, Bentonville Real Estate Agent and Broker

Melinda, not clairvoyant but a keen observer. We learn best by observeing.

Tish. I just love people, just like you do.

May 01, 2011 12:01 PM
Tammy Pearce
Haute Realty 214-994-6474 - Dallas, TX
Tammy Pearce

When you witness a child being born, it's easy to understand just how extraordinary each of us are.  Listening to the stories of the lives of those around us remind me often. 

May 02, 2011 04:12 AM