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25 Comments on Are We Too Accessible These Days?
Hi, Belinda. How, I remember my first mobile phone too. It was big and gray. I think I still have it some where as a reminder of those good old days. I hated those pagers, since I was always "on call" for the laboratory, being the senior non-com in charge of all those lab techs.
You forgot to mention that you can even see movies on some of those smartphones now. Like, you I feel lost without mine today.
Ignore it when need be Belinda. I make a point of returning calls every hour or so (unless it's really critical). I learned a long time ago to stay focused on what I'm working on in the present - and not get distracted by phone calls, texts whatever. It takes much more time to re-focus back on what I was working on then if I just complete it and then respond as needed. Most clients respect normal hours - there's only one or two that seem to think late or very early calls are appropiate. I had a conversation with one just the other day. He waits to call me at 8:30 or 9:00 pm - and then wonders why he doens't get a call back till the next day. Duh......dude to your clients call you that late. NO? Duh!!! We do have a live outside of real estate!!! And is not - get one!!!
I know what you mean Belinda. Sometimes I am easily distracted by my phone buzzing all the time. But every once in a while I get away, and sometimes to places where my phone doesn't even work. That way I know I will not be distracted.
Yes, we are too accessible...I can't stand when I call someone back and they wonder where I was: ummm, the restroom!
Just because we have Blackberries and Droids and iPhones doesn't mean we can't be ALONE sometimes, or inaccessible. We need it for our sanity.
FEATURED IN THE GROUP: BARTENDER, MAKE IT A DOUBLE.
I hope I never get to the point where technology runs my life but I think that's where the world is headed.
Belinda, If not for this "insignificant thought that enters the grey matter of our brains", I wouldn't have anything to say or write about. I like Chris' comment and that she FEATURED it in BARTENDER, MAKE IT A DOUBLE. Sometimes, we need a double. Happy Cinco De Mayo and best wishes always.
Kathy, It is hard to just step away at times. I am guilty as well.
Jerry, I wouldn't dream of watching a movie on my phone. My eyes would go crossed.
Anna, Good advice - it is so hard to focus when the phone is constantly buzzzzzzing
Jim, You are great at getting away - like Yosemite. I need to take a lesson from you.
Shannon, Sometimes its just none of their business!!!!
Chris - thanks so much for featuring me in your group. I know I post there a lot, but I just feel like I need a double so many times ---- and I barely drink.
Eric, You are still young (you never heard of Herman's Hermits). You can take charge of the technology world and not let it ruin your life.
Oh Richard. You always have so much to say. And - its never insignificant! Congratulations on the FEATURE.
Hi Belinda, we are way too accessible these days. We can be contacted and reached at all times. Take time for you and turn everything off.
Judith. You are so right. The world does not stop turning just because we take a break.
Belinda, our phones CAN rule our lives, but when we have clients, they have to be put away until finished. I have two email accounts so I don't get AR updates, FB updates and builder/lender/title emails during the day until I get home. It works better for me, and allows me to pay more attention without the phone buzzing so often!
Joan - good advice. I will look into that.
We are way too accessible these days, but we bring it on ourselves, don't we? LOL Besides, folks have become accustomed to "instant gratification" and expect it from us sometimes, too. It's up to us to set some limits, which is not easy to do.
Susan, You are right. We are in control if we chose to be.
Belinda, I often think how accessible we have made ourselves and how we are always "on" -- rarely do we really take a weekend or evening off. But I think we've somehow done it to ourselves. When I'm with family and unless I am expecting something urgent, I let it "go to voicemail." Just like the good old days when you would get back to the office and check messages -- seems like long, long ago in a far off land.