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You May Be Great At What You Do, But Are You Nice?

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Real Estate Agent with Douglas Elliman Real Estate 516-457-7103

Bryan, the painterThe minute I pulled into the driveway, I knew the homeowner was in good hands.  Bryan Cummings and his assistant, David were sitting in their truck, waiting patiently for me to arrive.  In his ever gallant way, Bryan approached, opened my car door and followed me to the entrance.  An engaging fellow, and a master craftsman, Bryan is a painter I love working with.  In his self effacing way, he's also a great teacher of life's lessons.

I'm in a service industry, both as a real estate agent and as a stager.  What I bring to the table, if I do it just right, is my expertise, good advice, top notch artisans to work with and a real concern for my clients' welfare.  Having been a stager and a REALTOR® on Long Island for many years before staging even had a name, I've been exposed to many a worker, skilled and otherwise.  More of them than not, bring a level of talent to the table, but are severely lacking in communication skills.  Some are downright rude.

I couldn't help but think of that today as Bryan met me with his gracious, old world charm.  The perfect combination of talent and refinement, with more than a fair measure of accommodation, he's always top of mind when I need a painter.  Interesting too, at least for me, he's not the least expensive alternative. 

The lesson for all of us, I suspect, is that people like to work with people they like.  Home selling and buying can be stress filled.  How much nicer it would be for all concerned if we could be the person who brings reason, calm, and knowledge to the table, with a soupcon of grace.

 

 

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Deborah Byron Leffler BzyBee Real Estate Lady!
Keller Williams Realty Boise - Nampa, ID
I agree...they are in good hands...and so many have forgotten the long lost art of just plain ol being nice!!! glad you have a keeper their!!
May 05, 2011 03:52 PM
Christine Hooks
Pino Agency - Pennsville, NJ
Celebrating 25 Years in Real Estate!

What a nice testament to Bryan.  I wish he worked in my area.

May 05, 2011 03:52 PM
Ben Benita
Ben Benita - Gainesville, VA
Speaker, Author, Game Changer, Coach

I have come across some REAL _______ in my years in real estate....I am jsut SHOCKED how many people seem to have forgotten the "do unto others..." rule we learend in grade school.

 

Anyways, to rest of you out there being nice, continue to do, I hope to work with you some day.

May 05, 2011 03:56 PM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

Having someone like Bryan to work with on a project is priceless................wonderful shout out to him Geri............although I feel Bryan is quite lucky to be working with you also............sounds like a winning team.

May 05, 2011 03:56 PM
Peggy Hughes/pha logistix, inc.
pha logistix inc - San Francisco, CA
SF NYC LA

I'm a big believer in the Law of Attraction.... Geri - you attract nice people!

May 05, 2011 03:57 PM
Laura Filip
Laura Filip Broker , Opening doors for All Seasons of Life - Whitesboro, TX
What can we do for you today?

I agree most have forgotten the fact that the statement do unto others as you would want them to do unto you the golden rule just be nice it is always refreshing to find a smile on the other end of the phone or in the car next to you. Have you ever tried saying hello to folks on the street even if you do not know them? I live in a small town so we speak to just about everyone and know just about everyone and if we do not know them we say Hello I am Laura Filip may I ask who you are we sure are glad you are here in Whitesboro, are you here visiting or do you plan on stayin awhile? Have a nice day and see you around. Ya know the southern way of just being nice.

May 05, 2011 03:58 PM
Jayne Esposito
Coldwell Banker - Morgan Hill, CA
SRES, GREEN

Doing a great job AND being nice...the perfect combination for referrals!

May 05, 2011 03:58 PM
Gloria Commiso
Keller Williams - Hermosa Beach, CA
Hermosa Beach

Its good to have a great support team....

May 05, 2011 04:12 PM
Craig Rutman
Helping people in transition - Cary, NC
Raleigh, Cary, Apex area Realtor

Great job with this post Geri. I think this should be required reading for anyone who wants to be in the service business.

May 06, 2011 09:12 AM
Pat Haddad, ABR, CRS, ePRO, GRI
Keller Williams Indianapolis Metro NE - Carmel, IN
Carmel, Fishers, Westfield IN Real Estate Expert

Geri--It did me good to hear that Bryan is not the least expensive.  I am guilty of always trying to find the 'cheapest' this or that for my clients.  As with real estate agents and anything else, cheapest hardly ever translates into best!  I suppose Bryan would have to charge a heck of a trip charge to come to central Indiana!

May 06, 2011 12:35 PM
Geri Sonkin
Douglas Elliman Real Estate 516-457-7103 - Merrick, NY
Long Island Real Estate & Staging Expert

Deborah - There's something very special about being in the presence of someone who is genuinely caring, accommodating and just plain nice.

Chris - Everyone would be blessed to have someone like Bryan to work with.

Ben - We all come in contact with the good, the bad and the ugly in business as in life.  The good ones make it all worthwhile and they are memorable.

Roger - He is priceless.  I am indeed fortunate to have found him.  But then again, I had to kiss a lot of frogs along the way. :)

Peggy - What a kind thing to say.

Laura  - I grew up on the Golden Rule.  Interestingly, I do speak to people on the street.  Never did it before I got into real estate.  I was way too shy.

Jayne - Isn't that the truth.

Gloria - There is nothing better.

Craig - Thanks for your kind words.  Sometimes we just have to put ourselves in the other person's shoes and try to give them what we would want.

Pat - My mother used to say, "sometimes cheap is dear," and it's the truth.  I've often wondered what choice I would make in my own life.  Would it be price or perceived value, and it's been proven to me over and over again that value wins out in my world time after time.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

May 06, 2011 02:39 PM
Jill Sackler
Charles Rutenberg Realty Inc. 516-575-7500 - Long Beach, NY
LI South Shore Real Estate - Broker Associate

It's just too important to put into words. You want to do business with someone who is nice - end of story.

May 08, 2011 02:00 AM
1~Judi Barrett
Integrity Real Estate Services 116 SE AVE N, Idabel, OK 74745 - Idabel, OK
BS Ed, Integrity Real Estate Services -IDABEL OK

I like doing business with people that I like and I've been known to turn down business when it's someone that I don't like.. shhhhhh :)

May 10, 2011 12:48 AM