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Pay It Forward - Does It Count When It's Family?

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Real Estate Agent with Keller Williams Indianapolis Metro NE RB14023803

Pay It Forward - Does It Count When It's Family?

This week I didn't save any lives or find any new charity to contribute to.  There was no dog transport in my area. Gosh, I didn't even help a little old lady cross the street!

What I did do is give up a day and a half to two of my grandchildren.  Thankfully, their mom has a great new, full time job, but now they must go to day care two to three days per week.  First grader, Jack only goes before and after school, but poor Mia is only in preschool, so when she goes, she is there ten hours a day.  That is more than most adults put in on their jobs.  She loved preschool when it was just a few hours, but being away from Momma for ten hours at a time is taking a toll.

Thursday evening, in anticipation of Friday, Mia cried and cried---the kind of Mia in Glassestears that break a grandmother’s heart!  I caved in and told her mom to bring both kids over in the morning.  I got Jack off to school and kept Mia for the day. Jack got to ride the bus home to Nana’s.  I had already committed to having them sleep over, so I had them until almost noon today (Saturday)! 

We had a great time together.  I am sure I had even more fun than they did, but of course my work suffered and I am still trying to get caught up.  It was worth it to see both kids smiling and happy.  It made the day a lot less stressful for their mother too.  I would do this every day if I could!

 

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Laura Forman
RE/MAX AEROSPACE REALTY www.LauraSellsBrevard.com - Melbourne, FL
Your Brevard Premier Property Specialist

Pat, it sounds like you made a great investment with your time and I'm sure you will receive more in return.

May 07, 2011 02:59 PM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Oh my heart would have ached for poor little Mia.  I would have done the same thing!  We have had a few sleepovers here too.  It's exhausting, but so nice to have that time with them.

May 07, 2011 03:00 PM
Pam Miller
Realty Associates - Conroe, TX
Broker Associate - Water Crest on Lake Conroe

Pat - this story really touched my heart.  I have the same thing going on in my world with my grandchildren.   Isn't being a grandmother wonderful!  I know this time was special to all of you!

May 07, 2011 03:02 PM
Mona Gersky
MoonDancer Realty, Dillsboro,NC - Sylva, NC
GRI,IMSD-Taking the mystery out of real estate.

Happy Mother's and Grandmother's Day!  Your grandchildren will have so many wonderful memories of you.

May 07, 2011 03:12 PM
Arleen Montford
KELLER WILLIAMS REALTY GULF COAST - Pace, FL
Selling NW Florida Homes in Pace/Milton/Pensacola FL

Happy Mother Day's I know you are going to have a great one.

May 07, 2011 03:26 PM
Susan Emo
Sotheby's International Realty Canada - Brokerage - Kingston, ON
Kingston and the 1000 Islands Area

Pat you created a Happy Grandmother Weekend!!!   I'm sure Mia will remember your special day together for quite some time.

May 07, 2011 03:31 PM
Marchel Peterson
Results Realty - Spring, TX
Spring TX Real Estate E-Pro

Pat, Yea for Grandma!  I have yet to have grandchildren but hopefully someday I can be that Grandma also.

May 07, 2011 03:51 PM
Joni Bailey
101 Main St. Realty - Huntsville, TX
Your Huntsville / Lake Livingston Area REALTOR®

Pat: You did the RIGHT thing. Those babies will not always be babies. ENJOY! Happy Mother's Day, sweet Nana!

May 07, 2011 04:25 PM
Geri Sonkin
Douglas Elliman Real Estate 516-457-7103 - Merrick, NY
Long Island Real Estate & Staging Expert

Ultimately, Pat, that's what it's all about.  I always say, I don't think any of us on our last day on earth will say, "I wish I'd sold one more house."  Have a wonderful Mother's Day with all your loved ones.

May 07, 2011 04:52 PM
Donna Foerster
HomeSmart Realty Group - Parker, CO
Metro Denver Real Estate Assistant

Hi Pat~ You made FOUR people very happy.  It doesn't get any better than that!

May 07, 2011 05:17 PM
Tim Peterson
Wisconsin Realtor Safety and Concealed Carry Classes - Madison, WI
Realtor Safety Training Classes

Hi Pat-work can always wait-Mia needs you now. You are my hero-enjoy the moments

May 07, 2011 06:59 PM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Pat, You did good ~ for your grandchildren, your daughter and yourself! Enjoy the day and make some more happy memories!

May 08, 2011 12:24 AM
Not a real person
San Diego, CA

Happy Mother's Day!

May 08, 2011 04:02 AM
Pat Haddad, ABR, CRS, ePRO, GRI
Keller Williams Indianapolis Metro NE - Carmel, IN
Carmel, Fishers, Westfield IN Real Estate Expert

Laura--I don't really have any regrets. :-)

Sharon--Don't you watch your two little guys on a regular basis?  You are the best grandma!

Pam--I do love my time with my grandkids.  I wish I had more time to give them!!

Mona--I know what you say is true.  My grown children have many fond memories of my parents.

Arleen and Tracey--Hope you both had a wonderful Mother's Day!

Susan--I know you are right. The simplest things make Mia happy.

Marchel--Oh just you wait!

Joni--If we can just get them through these developmental years without tramatic memories!

Geri--You are right.  I always need to keep that at the top of mind!

Donna--Just to see Mia smile instead of cry!

Tim--I sort of just said, 'Screw it!!!'

Larry and Sheila--I would still be miserable today if I had not volunteered.

Russel--That is so sweet of you!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

May 08, 2011 05:09 PM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

I watch them three days a week.

May 10, 2011 10:40 AM
Pat Haddad, ABR, CRS, ePRO, GRI
Keller Williams Indianapolis Metro NE - Carmel, IN
Carmel, Fishers, Westfield IN Real Estate Expert

Sharon--I work 60-80 hours per week---difficult to take time off for babysitting--though I would love to be a retired grandmother and watch them every day!

Jun 03, 2011 01:09 PM