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Disruption~Keeping the Harmony

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Real Estate Agent with Coldwell & Banker Busch Real Estate

 

Today at at least three different times I started to write my blog. Hours have past, and I'm finally able to resume my writing, which now leads to a whole new topic than the one I originally planned. In fact I vaguely recall what my first blog topic was. You see thats how I blog. An inspiration at a given moment and a blog is born. 

I used to be the type of person who just could not stand interruptions. You could be in the middle of needing to seriously concentrate and WAM something happens, and we are faced with usually another persons problem, or someone needs you for something.

Nothing can be a joy robber more than life's disruptions. Nothing can point out just how well you really have the golden rule established in your life, then when you are called on God's carpet but it's on someone else's clock. Oh sure I absolutely love being able to help others, and the whole do unto others motto is great when I get to pick the when where's and how's.

My first attempt at this blog was put on hold. My granddaughter has swimming class, could I help out with my other granddaughter and babysit while Gabby gets to class. In the back of my mind a few things occurred. I'll get back to finishing what I was doing a little later, I can't wait to see my grandchildren I thought.

Second attempt was when a half a ton of wood was dumped in my front yard for my son and his family. Pa winters have proven to be brutal at times and wood burners need wood. A very kind gift disposed itself on my front lawn, and I was redirected to load my sons firewood, and deliver it with a 20 minute ride, and about another hour to unload the truck.

By about now the person who is driving slow in front of me is teaching me how to harness my impatience, and suddenly I am aware of how inconvenient this day is turning out to be. Again I am suddenly aware of how a bunch of negative attitudes can easily cost us freedom to receive the blessing of doing unto others.

Attitudes, they help or hinder a blessing. Like Zig Ziglar says Sometimes you need a "Check Up" from the Neck Up" to elimanate "Stinkin Thinkin" and AVOID "Hardening of the Attitudes."

 

 

Comments(26)

Elizabeth Nieves
The Elizabeth Nieves Realty Group - Durham, NC
Bilingual Raleigh - Durham North Carolina Real Estate Team
I had not heard that Zig quote. I LOVE it! YES, Diane, I've had to learn to deal with interruptions also. No matter how much I try to escape them...they find me! Blessings!!!
Oct 08, 2007 11:58 AM
Armando Rodriguez
QUEST REALTY SERVICES - Orlando, FL
Orlando Homes 4 Sale, Real Estate Broker-GRI

It's a wonder we get anything done with all the interruptions and multi-tasking we do

Great post, Thanks!

Oct 08, 2007 12:31 PM
Diane Velikis
Coldwell & Banker Busch Real Estate - Luzerne, PA
Luzerne County Real Estate

Elizabeth, Zigs book See YouAt The Top. Great Book! Thanks for your comment and blessings back atcha!

Armando, multi-tasking is a great way to observe your attitude  changes  :)

Oct 08, 2007 12:47 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher
Diane, I've tried to expect the unexpected.  That way things don't throw me when they come up (and you're right, they always do :)
Oct 08, 2007 01:29 PM
Debbie Malone
Londeree's Real Estate & Property Management - Lynchburg, VA
From Lynchburg To The Lake (434) 546-0369
Check up from the neck up.......yup, I'm in need of one of those and I believe God puts things (like this blog) in my path to help me get it right. Thanks for being the messenger!
Oct 08, 2007 02:02 PM
Andrew Trevino
ADT Real Estate - Wilkes Barre, PA
Wilkes-Barre Homes For Sale

Diane,

I know the feeling. I have tried to get on my blog all day and one thing leads to another...finally, here I am at 11pm. I know all too well how it is to be interrupted, but I've also learned to take things as they come and leave my selfish attitude behind...most of the time. LOL Thanks for the reminder.

Oct 08, 2007 03:09 PM
Diane Velikis
Coldwell & Banker Busch Real Estate - Luzerne, PA
Luzerne County Real Estate

Carole, So sweet, and such a gracious attitude!

Debbie That's what makes blogging for me so worth while! If there is one person who is blessed than it was worth it!

Andrew You sure are an easy going guy, and with God at the helm I can't imagine you being selfish.

Oct 08, 2007 06:59 PM
Sarah Cooper
Real Estate Shows - Hurricane, WV
Diane, I guess I'm just different.  If I'm not getting enough interruptions, I make some of my own.  For instance, I am currently writing a blog and nobody has interrupted me.  So here I am, reading your post and commenting.  Aah, that's better.  Maybe now I can go back and finish.  ;o)
Oct 08, 2007 09:32 PM
Diane Velikis
Coldwell & Banker Busch Real Estate - Luzerne, PA
Luzerne County Real Estate
Sarah, I can see that you are so appreciative of life, and you know the secret to finding blessings no matter what or where they are. God bless you richly! 
Oct 08, 2007 11:47 PM
Julie Neerings~Lifting Hearts ♥ Building Dreams~
Agent Referral - Salt Lake City, UT
Diane-Another one of your fabulous posts! I love that quote by Zig Ziglar.  As I was reading it, I felt like I was chanting with a dance.  lol.  I try really really hard not to let distractions get a hold of me.  When I do, it frustrates the heck right out of me.  Often times I do find myself causing my own distractions.  I have to stop, breath and re-focus.  
Oct 09, 2007 01:50 AM
Diane Velikis
Coldwell & Banker Busch Real Estate - Luzerne, PA
Luzerne County Real Estate
Julie, You are so right! I need to stop breath and re-focus a bit more regular! Thanks for the comment  :)
Oct 09, 2007 02:28 AM
Kathy McGraw
CELLing Realty - White Water, CA
Riverside County CA Real Estate

Don't ya just love life :) :)   Sometimes we plan, organize, and have everything ready....but life just keeps happening.......

Many of the interruptions are more important than the plan.  They are the plan actually, we just didn't know it at the time :) :)

Oct 09, 2007 02:35 AM
Diane Velikis
Coldwell & Banker Busch Real Estate - Luzerne, PA
Luzerne County Real Estate
Kathy, Oh so true!  Let life happen and give up control of your to do list! Thanks so much for your input!
Oct 09, 2007 04:30 AM
"The Lovely Wife" The One And Only TLW.
President-Tutas Towne Realty, Inc. - Kissimmee, FL

Diane...

When I was 20 years younger everything had to be just so...

As that is no longer the case I just say...So? What next world? Line it up...I'll knock it down :)

TLW...ROAR!

Oct 09, 2007 11:27 AM
Adele Irving - Easton Area Homes
Prudential Patt, White Real Estate - Easton, PA
Thanks for a wonderful blog.  I like the Zig Ziglar quote.  You sound like a giving person with a great attitude.
Oct 09, 2007 01:09 PM
Cynthia Tilghman, Realtor® Onslow County NC Home Specialist
Kingsbridge Realty, Inc - Hubert, NC
Hi Diane,
Life is full of unexpected things good and bad.  It is good to be ready to accept them as they happen and go with the flow.  I think the longer we live, the better we get at doing that.
Oct 09, 2007 01:32 PM
Terry Osburn
BHHS|Drysdale Properties - Pleasant Hill, CA
Broker Associate

Yes, life is full of unexpected happenings. I finally came to realize this past week that stuff does happen, you just pick up where you left off and move forward. You cannot control people, events but you can control your attitude and response to things.

I was challenged with that again today and took a step backwards to regroup and move forward.

Oct 09, 2007 05:38 PM
Diane Velikis
Coldwell & Banker Busch Real Estate - Luzerne, PA
Luzerne County Real Estate

TLWYou go girl! I was the obsessive compulsive maybe sorta perfectionist. But like you now I just shoot my gun LOL

Adele, Zig sure knows his stuff!

Cynthia,You are so right! Seems thats my story and even TLW's

Terry Stuff is a great patience teacher it would seem   :)

Oct 09, 2007 10:47 PM
South Austin Real Estate Blog
Sky Realty South Austin - Austin, TX
I have spent a lifetime learning.. LIFE Is what happens when you are making plans for today!!... and recently I have found some new affirmations .. one of my favorite and most needed most - often needed is..  Iam patient with myself and Others.  I say that one alot when Im in traffic... which as a realtor is often often... oh does that sound like im repeating myself too much..  must learn more patience.  ;)
Oct 09, 2007 11:48 PM
Diane Velikis
Coldwell & Banker Busch Real Estate - Luzerne, PA
Luzerne County Real Estate
Gail, so true! I will say that in traffic as well   :)
Oct 09, 2007 11:56 PM