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A Year of Growing Rich: Sell to Yourself

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A Year of Growing Rich:  Sell to Yourself

 

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This is the 26th week of a 52 week motivational journey and I want to invite you along.  Each week, I will touch on one of the chapters from Napoleon Hill's book titled  A Year of Growing Rich and subtitled "52 Steps to Achieving Life's Rewards."  
 
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"What you say and how you say it are extremely important. Others judge us by the way we speak, our vocabulary, and how we deliver our ideas and thoughts. But how we appear, not what we say, often has an equal or greater impression on others -- and on ourselves", says Hill.
It almost seems that the words "and on ourselves" should be in bold." In a business like real estate, we are all selling our services (ourselves) to potential clients. And If we are not sold on the benefits we offer, it becomes impossible to sell to someone else.
The first step in selling, then, must be to sell to yourself. You must believe in yourself. Some of the time you may need to do a little extra to build up your ego.
 
Hill says,"One of the most effective methods for boosting your ego -- and everyone needs to have his or her ego boosted -- is to select some person as a 'pacesetter' whose achievements you would like to equal or exceed. Use that person as a benchmark against which to measure your own accomplishments."
 
Alliances and surroundings are very important. If you're in a relationship, support of the other person is extremely important. Support from colleagues and business associates also helps. "Make sure the people around you encourage you and lift you up instead of depressing you and dragging you down," says Hill.

Hill concludes saying, "If you feel good about yourself, it is apparent to everyone you meet. And, remember, the very next person you meet may be the one who can give you a tremendous boost up the ladder to success".
 
 

 

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Charlie Dresen
The Group, Inc - Steamboat Springs, CO
Steamboat Springs, CO e-Pro

Yep . . . need to keep working and selling ourselves everyday. 

Oct 25, 2011 09:54 AM
John McCormack, CRS
Albuquerque Homes Realty - Albuquerque, NM
Honesty, Integrity, Results, Experienced. HIRE Me!

I enjoyed your post but the last paraghraph really stands out to me. 

"If you feel good about yourself, it is apparent to everyone you meet. And, remember, the very next person you meet may be the one who can give you a tremendous boost up the ladder to success".

Oct 25, 2011 09:54 AM
Lanre-"THE REAL ESTATE FARMER" Folayan
Samson Properties - Bowie, MD
I don't make promises.I deliver results.SOLD HOMES

Gary you just reminded me with this blog that I need to go back and finish reading Napoleon Hill's Classic: Think and Grow Rich.

Oct 25, 2011 10:03 AM
Li Read
Sea to Sky Premier Properties (Salt Spring) - Salt Spring Island, BC
Caring expertise...knowledge for you!

Excellent reminder here...confirmation of ourselves, our talents is what motivates us to be at our best.

Oct 25, 2011 10:03 AM
Peter Pfann @ eXp Realty Pfanntastic Properties in Victoria, Since 1986.
eXp Realty, Victoria BC www.pfanntastic.com - Victoria, BC
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Napoleon Hill truly was a visionary with an uncanny ability to use stories and experiences to inspire and educate about their own incredible potential, Thaks Gary for sharing

Oct 25, 2011 11:31 AM
Gary Coles (International Referrals)
Venture Realty International - Las Vegas, NV
Latin America Real Estate

Charlie, You're right -- it should be done every day. 

John, Thank you.And  I agree with you about that paragraph.

Lanre, I'm glad this was a reminder -- that is an excellent book. 

Li,  Thank you. I think Napoleon Hill is excellent at motivating us to be our best.

Peter & Linda,  I am always amazed at all the experiences that Hill had to share.  It is part of what makes his books so fascinating.

Oct 25, 2011 02:51 PM
Ron Marshall
Marshall Enterprises - Saint Michael, MN
Birdhouse Builder Extraordinaire

I really enjoyed the last quote, Gary.  If you enjoy your own company, others might, too.  But, if they don't, who cares?

Oct 25, 2011 03:26 PM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

Amen,Gary!!!  I am going to bookmark and pay attention to your series of posts on this. I have wonderful mentors, especially here in ActiveRain.

I also think that you've prompted me to do my newest post that I've had in draft and need to "put out there"!

 

Oct 26, 2011 01:24 PM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

Amen,Gary!!!  I am going to bookmark and pay attention to your series of posts on this. I have wonderful mentors, especially here in ActiveRain.

I also think that you've prompted me to do my newest post that I've had in draft and need to "put out there"!

 

Oct 26, 2011 01:24 PM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

Amen,Gary!!!  I am going to bookmark and pay attention to your series of posts on this. I have wonderful mentors, especially here in ActiveRain.

I also think that you've prompted me to do my newest post that I've had in draft and need to "put out there"!

 

Oct 26, 2011 01:25 PM
Gary Coles (International Referrals)
Venture Realty International - Las Vegas, NV
Latin America Real Estate

Ron, You're exactly right -- if someone doesn't enjoy you company, it is their loss.

Gayle,  Thank you.  I'll be watching for your post.

Oct 26, 2011 01:46 PM